>>106116767 (OP)Tinder is the app for the socially retarded.
90% of the women I've met off dating apps, regardless of how attractive they were, were ultra shy and awkward af. The first couple of dates are you pulling dead weight, whether they let them fuck you or not. (most do. I'm not convinced it's because I'm that attractive, so much as the woman's just already there and can just ghost you if she wants later, so why not)
Game for guys in tinder is completely different from game IRL. It's all about how good you are at selfies, how witty you are in texts, your emoji use, etc. I've seen the biggest fucking nerds IRL be funny and charming in chatrooms, but awkward af IRL.