>>106169114 (OP)There is literally nothing wrong with PHP. The "PHP bad" mob mentality is like 10 years out of date as many improvements have been made to the language. Easy to learn, feature rich, OOP support, strict type emulation. Decent first language, especially if you intend to do server shit.
If I had to pick a best language to learn first though, I would honestly say Google Apps Script with Google Sheets. It gives you a concrete, visible sandbox that your code will be manipulating (instead of coding into an black void). That sandbox also translates into code and arrays very well. Easy to play around with due to dynamic typing. Able to have simple concrete goals to start out with, especially if you have a wagie job where you use Sheets. Gentle introduction to object interfaces and APIs. And it's built on top of Javascript, which lets you jump off into any project that has a Javascript runtime environment once you get your feet wet.