>>29191553>>29191572Are you both fit, maintain it and help your partners with it? If not you can't complain.
Women don't get fat when they've got a man that motivates them to keep themselves hot, a man that leads by example and is willing to teach them to help themselves. They're getting fat because your relationship with them is an environment where taking care of yourself or your health, isn't a thing.
You're giving each other serious health risks, causing pregnancy and fertility issues by allowing each other to be unfit.