>>29226756The clit isn't "buried". It's under a little flap of skin, usually. Just follow the labia minora up until they meet. The top of the diamond, so to speak. But vulvas aren't all the same.
Also, all girls are different. Some like their clit focused on, some are super sensitive. Foreplay is real, most of the time. Don't just jump right in and start finger blasting her or sucking her clit. Tease, make her want it. When in doubt, just ask. Don't play 20 questions, but just drop in some dirty talk. "You like that?" "Tell me what you like, baby" That kind of shit. She should know her body better than you, despite what any "alpha male" cuck says. Drop your ego, listen to her, and pay attention to her body language to figure out what she likes.
And another piece of advice, if she tells you not to stop or something similar, KEEP DOING IT THE EXACT WAY YOU DOING IT. Don't change it up, don't think "if you like that, you'll love this" and try something else. Just keep doing exactly what you were doing. Also, moan a little. Make it known that you're enjoying what you're doing. Most chicks like to hear that.