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>>29224965
Do you think you can live a fulfilling live with a woman like that?
First, you would have to define fulfilling, come up with your own meaning. But keep in mind, if you dread it and change your actions to avoid it or reduce it, it is not fulfilling.
A shared kink is great but only as a way to bond, never to put one over the other, in relationships there is NOT one partner that has more power than the other in all situations, that change is supposed to vary depending on the circumstance, and if one partner holds all the power it is almost always toxic.
If you like degradation, that shit is fine. If she is into degradation that shit is fine too, however, the one that has to protect you the most would have to be her. If she really wants to break you then fucking leave, and if she wants to keep you at the edge leave to.
Also, One way or another, you'll have to compromise as well. "If you find someone that bears with you, and deals with your shit, dig your nails in and never let go."
tl.dr: If she wants to be put on a pedestal instead of bonding, the fucking leave. Because that is what she will fucking do once she gets bored, and she fucking will. The novelty of a kink wears off.
