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Anonymous No.29364778 >>29364784 >>29364843 >>29365069 >>29365386 >>29365576 >>29367195 >>29367553 >>29367950 >>29368424 >>29368680
Sugar daddy/monger.
40 year olds raw dogging broke college sluts. Feel free to ask questions.
Anonymous No.29364784 >>29364792 >>29365602
>>29364778 (OP)
My little goth chola.
Anonymous No.29364792 >>29364794 >>29364797 >>29365082 >>29368021
>>29364784
Mexican MILF
Anonymous No.29364794 >>29364903 >>29365403
>>29364792
White latina.
Anonymous No.29364797
>>29364792
Mexican waitress.
Anonymous No.29364810 >>29364929 >>29365083
whats the main place your looking for sugarbabies? im trying hinge but we'll see how that goes
Anonymous No.29364843
>>29364778 (OP)
How do you find local girls on ig? Or do you just fly them in from wherever? I'm more interested in OF girls, so I can post full videos with webms
Anonymous No.29364865 >>29365505 >>29367005 >>29367114 >>29368057 >>29369683
31 years old here. U are my hero. I havent gotten laid in 11 years and never had a gf but make 170k and am ripped and have a good face and my dick is 7 and 7/8th inches. Im trying to escape incelism and be a old perv like u but I dont know were to meet them and when i do meet them(young women) and they show interest in just dont have it in my tooth ask them out. Im thinking of going to a psychologist cuz I cant take this anymore.


Im so fucking sad and lonely and just want a nice 19 year old to cuddle with
Anonymous No.29364903 >>29364940 >>29368104
>>29364794
>latina
>white
kek
Anonymous No.29364929 >>29365166 >>29365446 >>29365465
>>29364810
>whats the main place your looking for sugarbabies? im trying hinge but we'll see how that goes

Seeking, dating apps, Instagram and casual bars/restaurants where the chicks might dress semi slutty (Hooters like places).
Anonymous No.29364940 >>29365202 >>29366668
>>29364903
>>latina
>>white

Maybe you weren't aware but central and south American countries were conquered by European nations and have a mix of genetics. They all aren't brown skinned 100% native Americans. So yes white Latinas are definitely a thing.
Anonymous No.29364952
Have you ever got something from a hooker, if so how was it, like because of unprotected oral sex, u offered raw sex....
I tried my 1st time with a hooker, everything was with protection but I dont know if it is psicosis that I feel sick or shit.
Anonymous No.29364970 >>29365242
What's the biggest age gaps you've had? We're the experiences with those girls different/better in anyway?
Anonymous No.29364975 >>29366365
anyone know what happened to usasexguides dot nl ? it's been down for me for a couple days now
Anonymous No.29365069 >>29365149 >>29365149 >>29365295
>>29364778 (OP)
What budget is realistic to be able to do this a month?

Are there a good amount of goth/alt chicks into this scene? (I have a thing for goth women)

Im also a younger guy, 27, any idea on how this will affect the dynamic?

All I do is work a shitton from sunup to sundown, was raised in a cult so I never really got any youthful gf time, so I figure I should probably do that somewhat before I get too old but Im starting from square 0, KHV. Not a NEET just fear of women from severe mommy issues.

Any advice? Is this a route I should go down to get some experience? Ideal route would be a woman who would kinda take charge but I digress, just one whos cool would be fine.
Anonymous No.29365082
>>29364792
Whats the deal like with having an older sugar baby like this? Is it better or worse? Id assume less drama but more likely to baby trap you?
Anonymous No.29365083
>>29364810
you shouldn't have brain rot when you want to take advantage of stupid people
Anonymous No.29365149 >>29365210 >>29365400 >>29368632
>>29365069
>>29365069
my man, unless you ugly as shit, you can easily pick up a 20 year old goth chicka
these boys are out here trying to relive what you have in front of you.

find a good work/life balance (8 hr/day or less, 4-5/a week)
work out
socialize

once you start to mingle with other people, you'll automatically get pulled to the groups you fit in with (/ are attracted to)
you can do this. - at 27, prostitutes are not the way.
Anonymous No.29365157 >>29365249
Sugardaddy anon, do the girls you pay ever catch feelings for you?
Anonymous No.29365166
>>29364929
Which ones do you think is best for a 29 year old looking for 18-19 year olds?
Anonymous No.29365202
>>29364940
no.
Anonymous No.29365210
>>29365149
shut the fuck up
Anonymous No.29365242 >>29368058
>>29364970
>What's the biggest age gaps you've had? We're the experiences with those girls different/better in anyway?

About a 20 year gap.

There is a myth that older women are better because they are more experienced. I love older women too but this simply isn't true.

Modern 20 year old women can fuck on an entirely different level than when I was in my 20's. Older attractive women are almost always divorced meaning they were tied down for 10-15 years raising kids and probably having mediocre sex. Not saying some aren't great but in 2025 the average 23 year will out fuck the average 43 year old.

Older women are also more likely to have severe emotional issues, baggage and kids/crazy ex-husbands. The idea that they are more mature is also mostly BS. Once a woman is past around the age of 23 or so they are about as emotionally mature as they are going to get.
Anonymous No.29365249 >>29365268
>>29365157
>Sugardaddy anon, do the girls you pay ever catch feelings for you?

Yes I've had numerous women who want to get married. These are ones where we had the least directly transactional relationship though.
Anonymous No.29365268 >>29365304
>>29365249
Do they still feel that way knowing you fuck other girls? Have you thought about turning one into a cuckquean?
Anonymous No.29365295 >>29365381
>>29365069
>What budget is realistic to be able to do this a month?

Depends on how ugly you are, your social skills and how hot the girl is. If you're a decent looking dude with good social skills you could get some legit 8/10 college hotties for probably $500 a month if you play it right.

If you don't want to spend much I suggest not offering a set fee per meet and instead say you are just looking to treat them for stuff like getting their hair and nails done, etc. You won't attract as many women like this compared to just offering them $300-$400 per date but since you're already young plenty of women might just like you anyway and would be fine with just some moderate gifts throughout the month.

But in general $300-$700 per evening is a realistic range for a medium cost of living U.S. city. Obviously cheaper and more expensive exist but you can get 10/10 women for $700 and perfectly cute college chicks for $300.


>Im also a younger guy, 27, any idea on how this will affect the dynamic?

The older and uglier you are the most expensive it will be. 27 is an advantage as long as you can afford it.
Anonymous No.29365304 >>29365314 >>29365447
>>29365268
>Do they still feel that way knowing you fuck other girls? Have you thought about turning one into a cuckquean?

Hell it probably makes them want me more lol.

< Big titty goth.
Anonymous No.29365314
>>29365304
Your bellybutton looks like a mouth and with a beard lmao
Anonymous No.29365349 >>29365357 >>29365363 >>29365453
One of the GOAT Asians. Cart girl at a course I'd play at and already the sugar baby to some old as hell CFO type that shelled out mega bucks for her and basically paid for all of her shit, car, nice apartment, etc but he was super controlling. She'd come fuck me basically out of boredom since he was always away for work. She would have been mega expensive to provide a lifestyle for but since the other dude was covering that type of life I'd just take her out to get pizza and regular BS lol.
Anonymous No.29365357
>>29365349
I don't know if you mentioned it in another thread, but the type of girls you are picking up makes me think you are based in the DFW area
Anonymous No.29365363 >>29369411
>>29365349
Continued
Anonymous No.29365381
>>29365295
I'm an ugly skinny nerd but I have a big thick dick. Does that make any difference?
Anonymous No.29365386
>>29364778 (OP)
Have you ever had a sugar baby you tie up/ties you up?

t. want to practice shibari
Anonymous No.29365400 >>29365405 >>29365429 >>29368065
>>29365149
I mean im working on myself but I basicailly didnt age from like 14-16 till 26, under alot of stress so iv aged a bunch.

I kinda need to figure out how to have a social life, idek where id even meet women, maybe I should go back to college? I kinda dropped out bc I was commuting and I got the shit kicked out of me at home, hence me leaving the house and starting a biz. But now all I do is work lmao.

I should probably start doing ju jitsu again, but all my hobbies, reading philosophy, guns, ju jitsu ect are all super male dominated or solo.

Maybe kite surfing? idk. Where does one go to socialize? You dont think im too old to pick up 20 year olds?
Anonymous No.29365403 >>29365480
>>29364794
Any more of her?
Anonymous No.29365405 >>29366454
>>29365400
My biggest problem is im 5'6 I think lookswise, if I lose like 15 pounds I have a pretty good jawline.
Maybe get booster boots or something hmmm.
Need to get a better haircut tho.
Anonymous No.29365417 >>29366398
What does doing this actually entail? Like, from the daddy perspective. Obviously you pay them and buy them shit besides but are you going on paid dates, texting eachother for the GFE, etc. or is this basically just regular sex work where she shows up and fucks you a couple times a week with no contact otherwise?
Anonymous No.29365429
>>29365400
no.
you suffer from low self esteem which is the biggest road block.
if you're in a decently sized city, none of these things matter unless you're looking for an actual relationship. just be fit & confident, and everything else will sort itself out.
if you need help/guidance, drop a session id and i'll guide you
Anonymous No.29365446
>>29364929
whats ur mindset when going to the bars/resturants for SB. im always open and friendly with everyone im out but curious on ur approach
Anonymous No.29365447 >>29365491
>>29365304
More of this girl?!
Anonymous No.29365453
>>29365349
Do you have any redhead videos?
Anonymous No.29365465
>>29364929

What do you put on your dating app profile?
Are you straight forward with SD / SB dynamics or is it something you mention after you connect?
Anonymous No.29365480 >>29365481
>>29365403
Sure
Anonymous No.29365481 >>29365610
>>29365480
Anonymous No.29365491 >>29365548
>>29365447
Yep
Anonymous No.29365505 >>29365517 >>29365586 >>29368037
>>29364865
Yeah man, you definitely need some therapy, and stop labeling yourself as incel because there are worse connotations attached to that phrase than just someone who hasn't got.

If you're not socially stunted do stuff. That's fun and talk with people on dating apps. Don't be weird, be interesting, be interested in what they're doing, see if you can go on a date, don't make it about sex... You might find yourself in a relationship. Be a good conversationalist, talk about your interests and hobbies etc.

If you get suggested to get medication from my psychiatrist, try to see if there are medications that don't cause blunt affect and some of them also can cause lack of desire for sex.. If you don't have anxiety problems, there are others that can give you energy and are used for depression like Wellbutrin, which is also used off label to treat ADHD because it increases the amount of norepinephrine available in your brain. It doesn't cause blunt affect.. yeah depression is not cool dude. Talk to somebody... Get medication if necessary.. it's good your fit. That helps with mental health... But definitely see somebody and then try getting out there.

Now for something less mainstream... If you're about to meet somebody and you feel like you're being too horny, just masturbate ahead of time so that way you can chill out at least a little bit.
Anonymous No.29365517
>>29365505
this is the worst brainlet advice ever.
Anonymous No.29365548 >>29365565 >>29365827
>>29365491
Anonymous No.29365565 >>29365604
>>29365548

Hey, anon, what do you put on your dating app profile?

Are you straight forward with SD / SB dynamics or is it something you mention after you connect?

I've always wanted to do that, but feel like it would be cringe or girls might be turned off by it
Anonymous No.29365576
>>29364778 (OP)
You ever watch them fuck big porn cocks in front of you?
Anonymous No.29365586
>>29365505
>Don't be weird, be interesting
>Be a good conversationalist

shit advice from fag anon
sounds like something a scammer life coach would say to their victims before they charge for their dating courses
Anonymous No.29365602
>>29364784
Do you have more with her? Goth chola is a very specific fantasy of mine from all the way back in hs
Anonymous No.29365604 >>29365628 >>29365650 >>29366103 >>29367202
>>29365565
>Hey, anon, what do you put on your dating app profile?

Profile is basic. I ask when I message them. I'm straight forward and ask them out in the very first message with a sugar daddy proposal.

I tell them I'm looking for a nice woman to go out to eat/chill by the pool with and that I'm willing to offer x amount (this is up to you) and that I'm willing to send a small gift in advance so they know I'm not a BS'er. I then ask if they have ever tried out a particular cool restaurant and to hit me back if interested.
Anonymous No.29365610
>>29365481
Thanks anon, any with her face?
Anonymous No.29365628 >>29365715
>>29365604
What's the app that has given you best results?
Do you pay premium on any?
I'm thinking on paying the life premium subscription on bumble
Anonymous No.29365642
Would you be willing to post any 18-20yo's you've hooked up with? Thanks!
Anonymous No.29365650 >>29368069
>>29365604
damn sending small gifts/money in advance? id at least ask for a nude pic
Anonymous No.29365666 >>29365711
Post girls saying daddy while they're taking a pounding
Anonymous No.29365711 >>29365728 >>29365762
>>29365666
Anonymous No.29365715 >>29366103
>>29365628
Seeking
Anonymous No.29365728
>>29365711
Very hot. More?
Anonymous No.29365762
>>29365711
Bump for noisy girls
Anonymous No.29365827
>>29365548
fuuuck I need a gothdommymommy sugar baby
Anonymous No.29365852 >>29365938 >>29367687
Probably the hottest monger vid imho
Anonymous No.29365938
>>29365852
It's a free upgrade to bbfs, but this is why I bring condoms and lube. (Because my atf refuses to do anything more than a bbbj)
Anonymous No.29366103
>>29365715
>>29365604

My man, I been using Seeking since 2020.
Funny thing is I dated 2 girls from there at the same time.
It's much better when you don't pay them and they just join you to restaurants and stuff. One girl simply never wanted to leave. I guess it depends how comfortable your home and cars are.
You just need to keep it under 3 months, don't make my mistake, because they are mostly crazy in the end.
Anonymous No.29366326
Bump
Anonymous No.29366359 >>29366424
genuine question for our seeking & similar site users, what'd you use for the payment.
personal card? something online with 3d protection?? I'm very curious.
I have half a mind to just yolo it with my bank card but that seems very, very silly. I've seen things like the ezzocard but the 25ish% markup kinda turns me away from them.
what have yall done
Anonymous No.29366365
>>29364975
they probably are getting ddos'd again. the admin there loves to piss people off more capable than he
Anonymous No.29366398
>>29365417
The first part might happen for like the first month but it quickly degenerates and becomes the second (almost definitely not seeing her multiple times a week) with various texts of her asking for money because her car broke down or she needs her cell phone bill paid.
Anonymous No.29366424 >>29366457 >>29367046 >>29368430
>>29366359

Cashapp or cash works for everyone.
Don't go with the ones who just offer PPM (pay per meet) those are nasty hookers, they aren't actual sugar babies. The real ones want good looking rich men and you can raw dog them. Basically it's like a no commitment, no strings relationship if you do it right.
Most of them catch feelings since they aren't used to the luxury life so be careful. Ask for exclusivity so you don't catch anything.
Anonymous No.29366454
>>29365405
Height is shockingly not as much of a roadblock as you may think

Im 5ft5 and have never had an issue getting laid. It really is just about confidence
Anonymous No.29366457 >>29366544
>>29366424
appreciate the bit about paying the girls but I more so meant paying the site, like the seeking membership fee to msg. I read the bits about messaging on IG but im still curious about how yall make the site payments
>id rather my bank not see this
Anonymous No.29366464
you can easily tell in this thread who is an (angry) sexless retard and who is a normal dude that gets laid, lmao

you morons really do it to yourselves...
Anonymous No.29366544 >>29366614 >>29366898
>>29366457

Are you worried about your bank seeing it or your wife? No one cares, I've used credit cards and even debit cards. No problem.
I never bought the Diamond membership, just the premium, and I always do one month at a time. You can literally make a message with some good photos, fluff yourself, if needed, to make you look richer.

If you'd like I can mentor you if you pay for my sugar baby too. lol
Anonymous No.29366614 >>29368826
>>29366544
lemme build the "pay for anon's sex kitten" bit into the budget rq m8 then i got you
Anonymous No.29366668 >>29367217 >>29367915
>>29364940
>and have a mix of genetics
so they aren't white, got it
Anonymous No.29366898 >>29367167
>>29366544
>29366544
different anon but guard/reservists have pretty light clearance checks would rather not have to explain membership on a site like that during an interview, they dont check browsing history but do check banking history, idk why they dont take payment in crypto.
Anonymous No.29367005
>>29364865
I was you last year. I decided fuck it and microdosed psilocybin, can get it online here in Canada easily. One dose a day. It just hit a switch with me or something and shut off a lot of bullshit background noise in my brain. Been with a cute 4'11 Colombiana for a year now. I don't know how it works but it just triggers dormant neurons to start firing or some shit. Consider trying it. I should get some again.
Anonymous No.29367046 >>29368844
>>29366424
Them catching feelings has always put a stop to me doing this. I can’t have them blowing my spot up.
Anonymous No.29367114
>>29364865
Its called being love shy, look it up. I had the same problem when i was in my teens and 20s. I was lean 6'2" in the military and i couldn't talk to girls. Ended up fucking a black hooker, was the worst experience, she had fake tits and smelled like BO. I was so dense and shy i had a foreign exchange student i took to dinner literally say lets go home and have sex and i didn’t think she was serious. I can't tell you how many girls gave me hints and i just didn't pick them up or put myself out there
Anonymous No.29367167
>>29366898
I used blueone to pay for seeking, but what you could do is create a seeking account browse the girls profiles and yse pimeyes to identify them and contact them outside of seeking. Such as you find out a girls name and look here up on instagram and DM her. It might come.off as creepy but you can explane that seeking makes it difficult to talk directly about what you're looking for. Also once you hook up with a chick, she probably has friends who are down, birds of a feather and all.
Anonymous No.29367195
>>29364778 (OP)
how much did she ask per month?
Anonymous No.29367202 >>29368095
>>29365604
How have you not gotten reported and banned for that lol
Anonymous No.29367217
>>29366668
>the country overall has a mix
>that means everyone is mixed
that would go for america and europe too then, retard
Anonymous No.29367553
>>29364778 (OP)
Previous thread >>29339543
Anonymous No.29367637
BUMP
Anonymous No.29367687 >>29367741 >>29367912
>>29365852
That is a major red flag, I never do anything without a condom. Last thing I need is the clap or some shit because she says tee hee.
Anonymous No.29367691 >>29367715 >>29367909
OP what set up do you use to film? Any specific hidden camera, or what?
Anonymous No.29367699 >>29367711 >>29367741
Also I'm assuming you don't care too much about STD for bare backing all those girls. Have you gotten tested for Herpes?
Anonymous No.29367711 >>29367741
>>29367699
checked and bro is gambling with his dick
Anonymous No.29367715
>>29367691
this, i would also like to know.
hidden cameras have the shittiest quality, and anything bigger is a pain to conceal
Anonymous No.29367741 >>29367806 >>29368015 >>29368438
>>29367687
>>29367699
>>29367711
are you people faggots or some shit? underage?
straight up pussies? you call yourself men?
men take risks. what is it so important going on with your life that you have to protect?
jesus, live a little for fucks sake.
also, my penis didnt fully develop until i started rawdogging, but im not circumsized idk how it works with mutt dick. pussy pulls on your dick just the right way for it to fully develop, and pussy juice does something to your brain too.
i understand if youre in your 20s or something, but using condoms past 30 is pathetic and cringe as fuck.
as long as you dont have gay man literally cumming in your asshole most stds are mild for men.
also i didnt take the vax.
Anonymous No.29367806
>>29367741
Are you op? How do you go about filming?
Anonymous No.29367909
>>29367691
I don't use a hidden camera. I get permission and you're only seeing the ones who are down to film. Most of these chicks have or have had an Onlyfans anyway. Once you're cool most girls are down and they like watching themselves even if they don't admit it at first.
Anonymous No.29367912 >>29368015 >>29368100
>>29367687
Never use a condom. It takes away all the feeling.
Anonymous No.29367915
>>29366668
>so they aren't white, got it
Mixed as in the entire nation has a range of genetics from fully white to fully native.

Do you have fucking eyes? The girl in the video is white as fuck.
Anonymous No.29367950
>>29364778 (OP)
I should go downtown tonight. First year College sluts are having their intro week
Anonymous No.29367969 >>29368054
Can anyone help me? Im in the usa and ive been getting a 502 bad gateway error for usasexguide (dot) nl for about a week. Cannot access the site at all.
Anonymous No.29368015
>>29367741
Are You retarded? Getting STI or some fucked up new shit out of California or being a bug catcher is not the way bro. You are insane to want to have that strong chance on being a bug catcher. Fucking is fun and all but I want to have my fun knowing my dick isn't going to melt as soon as I try to fucking pee the next day. You are insane.

>>29367912
With your wife or long time girlfriend I agree, with one night stands or women you do not know you are insane not to wear a condom.
Anonymous No.29368021 >>29368058
>>29364792
I've read your advices on how to approach teen SBs , do you use same methods for MILFs too
Anonymous No.29368037
>>29365505
>stop labeling yourself as incel
blud hasn't gotten laid in more than a decade, he is involuntarily celibate
Anonymous No.29368054
>>29367969
That's your first problem, the US is fucked, you need to get out of there and get to a civilized country in Europe before you can do this
Anonymous No.29368057
>>29364865
>just want a nice 19 year old to cuddle with
That is like saying you just want to run bofere even learning to how to walk.
Anonymous No.29368058
>>29365242
he explains saying no to cougars here
>>29368021
Anonymous No.29368065
>>29365400
>I should probably start doing ju jitsu again, but all my hobbies, reading philosophy, guns, ju jitsu
Forget about that bullshit and get into music.
Anonymous No.29368069 >>29368361 >>29368442 >>29368456
>>29365650
If you can't afford to lose 30$ you probably can't afford to be a sugar daddy
Anonymous No.29368095
>>29367202
Because almost all women are either interested or just ignore you/don't bother reporting
Anonymous No.29368100
>>29367912
while it's true condoms suck, for the anons that are too scared/worried you should use bigger ones. Try a magnum condom. It feels way better than a regular one, where raw still feels the best.
Anonymous No.29368104
>>29364903
Anya Taylor-Joy is Latina
Anonymous No.29368361
>>29368069
idk paying before even meeting is sus.i aint payin shit unless ive met them and feel out if theres a vibe
Anonymous No.29368424
>>29364778 (OP)
do your thing playboy but just know that sugar-babying is cope for a dysfunctional sexual marketplace. we can't get proper satisfactory whores in the usa and told to choose amongst lesser evils. fyi: any one of these bitches could claim to be into rough play can jam you up at a date of her choosing. it's extortionate gaslighting; good luck.
Anonymous No.29368430 >>29368844
>>29366424
>real ones want good looking rich men and you can raw dog them.
>Basically it's like a no commitment, no strings relationship if you do it right.
>raw dog
nigga it ain't up to you...
Anonymous No.29368438
>>29367741
>this
imagine spending 1k for condom sex. couldn't be me mayne.
Anonymous No.29368442
>>29368069
>hey, look everybody i'm a total bitch-made sucker! i make it look easy out here!
Anonymous No.29368456
>>29368069
>you think it's one way but it's the other way...
the only thought in her mind at having found someone desperate enough to indiscriminately throw cash at strangers is: "oh, he a lick."
from that point foward they'll play the long con and you'll be none the wiser.
Anonymous No.29368632 >>29369242
>>29365149
>socialize
how do you do this part though
Anonymous No.29368680
>>29364778 (OP)
You can do that for free by just downloading Tinder, you loser
Anonymous No.29368826
>>29366614

I'm a businessman, nothings free lol
Anonymous No.29368844 >>29369433 >>29369443
>>29367046

Depends what games you like to play,
I like when they catch feelings because sex feels better.
>>29368430
What do you mean?
It's all up to the sugar daddy, we got the money so we got the power.

Not difficult to understand.
Anonymous No.29369199
More pics
Anonymous No.29369233 >>29369236
Anonymous No.29369236 >>29369247 >>29369251
>>29369233
Anonymous No.29369242 >>29369451
>>29368632
touch grass and be friendly. unless you have autism/no friends who go out its pretty straight forward
Anonymous No.29369247 >>29369254
>>29369236
Anonymous No.29369251 >>29369262
>>29369236
>2
Anonymous No.29369254
>>29369247
Anonymous No.29369262
>>29369251
Anonymous No.29369353
Anyway we could get full vids for any of these? They all look amazing from the snippets posted but would love to see the full vids on bunkr or something.
Anonymous No.29369411
>>29365363
This is perfection.
Anonymous No.29369433
>>29368844
>Not difficult to understand.
apparently so
Anonymous No.29369443
>>29368844
more and more i'm getting the feeling you're actually a woman because you're seemingly blind to basic realities governing relationships.
Anonymous No.29369451
>>29369242
it's stupid shit like this; like, as if, lame, of course it's easier you'd only touch grass...
as if you really have no conception of the male experience.
Anonymous No.29369683
>>29364865
>I havent gotten laid in 11 years and never had a gf but make 170k and am ripped and have a good face and my dick is 7 and 7/8th inches.

This is either bait or you really need to step back and do a introspective or whatever.
I make less, I'm fatter (not obese but I definitely could work out more) and I don't think my dick is that long but I have fucked at least 6 girls just this year and that's not including making out or BJs from others. I'm 33yo btw. I mean, if this is all true, I get it, I was late to the dating/sex scene in my life too. Just try and be friendlier and nicer and try to be more social. It sounds dumb but it's worked for me.