>>29687738
Exactly. I can't remember what is the name for the phenomenon where a person "accepts" the situation, and doesn't attach to it even if the situation would get better, but instead attach to the worse situation, even though one would know it's not the best.
For example when in school, a pupil "accepts" that he's not the best pupil and then just makes everything half assed. Not exactly giving up or ruining everything, but just not giving full effort anymore despite how intelligent he would be. This is number one reason why some people becomes top athletes, while others just "excersise after excercise". Basically, it doesn't matter how talented you are if you can't handle also the pain.
It's similar to the Stockholm syndrome, but it's not that. But eventually, as the time goes by, it becomes new normal for the person.
It suits to this phenomenon perfectly. They know they can't get good women at all, so they accept that worse men are taking "their women", and they even offer their own asses to them, feminizing themselves. It's absolutely racist mindset, because these guys aren't thinking about for example south american men, japanese men etc taking "their women", it's only these slaves, brutish uncivilized orks from Africa that suits to their fantasy.
I've read about this, not exactly as bad as this, but how divorced men, after their twenty years long relationship have ended, or their wives had lost interest to sex, are also developing the same mindset, that they just settle for the "wanker mode", and won't even try to make their lives any better. That's the major factor why divorced men remarry way too less than women. Those men even report that they hadn't recognized flirting until it's been too late. But according to the article, there's one major factor to overcome this. It's a solid, varied group of male friends. Varied, because not all friendships are good, because if friends are in same situation, they will pull the poor man down too.