>>8754973 (OP)
I'm almost ultra vanilla and finding what I want is actually rare. For example, I love milfs, but I can't stand netorare or shotacon which 99% of milf shit is.
I love assertive women and tsunderes so much, but I like it even better when they come in hot and absolutely lose to the dick (but I also love then the dick loses to the cunt).
My idea of femdom is not CBT, bondage or any of the traditional shit, just a woman in full control of the guy.