Thread 2529597

Don’t be ashamed!

Just curious, how many into this were sexually abused as boys? They say 1 in 6 men are. And that boys who first experience orgasming was from being anally penetrated get fucked in the head and dream of being fucked in the ass the rest of their lives. But because they were not romantically attracted to men like normal homosexually, they fantasize about being fucked and dominated by women.

>>2529787

Have to say not sexually abused, stable and healthy family relationships
First love, sex and orgasm was with a female

but I’m kinda into all this femdom stuff,
had a girl pegging me the first time half a year ago, am 30 now….
all my gf and one night stands are really good looking women, objectively rated 7,8,9 out of 10.
I have absolutely no big problem in finding a girl but picky af and reject more of them than I end up in bed with


but femdom and pegging is my weak spot don’t know why, it’s just a sexual thing inside the bedroom. In my worklife and outside the bedroom I can take pretty much every role I want, from totally dominating at negotiations to assisting normal intelligent people with their work

>>2529597 (OP)
How is men literally getting fucked in the ass allowed on /hc/ but I get banned for a tranny thread? Fucking faggot mods trying to hide in the closet

>>2529984
>but I’m kinda into all this femdom stuff
What is the relationship with your mother like? What relationship did your parents have?

y'all fags into this shit or is it too gay for you? >>2529992

>>2529990
both living and married together ever since

can’t wish for a better mother, caring about me, doesn’t intervene in my relationships and wishes that I find someone to stay with and build a happy family… doesn’t judge me for short term relationships and dumping or rejecting them if I think it’s not the right fit

You can usually tell in amateur vids the men that have been sexually abused vs those that just like prostate stimulation.

The abused men usually are the ones being fucked with larger than life dildos, larger than any man. Mentally this is comforting to them because no “man” can ever hurt them again like they were hurt when the abuse started.

It also helps the wife because she knows that no gay top would want a man that had been “ruined” by being routinely fucked with a coke can or larger diameter dildo. In her mind she feels that only she can satisfy her husband.

Abused men in videos will frequentally be wearing women’s stockings or panties. These men don’t want to be women. They need to be humiliated. When a man’s first sexual experience and orgasms occur at the same time as humiliation and pain the brain permantly associates humiliation and pain with please.

A man whose first orgasm occurs in association with pain and humiliation will forever feel pain and humiliation as pleasure.

Therapists explain to the wifes of men who were sexually abused that is normal and that abused men may ask them to “make them” wear panties, women’s stockings, wear chastity cages, bite or pinch their nipples, eat their own cum, fantasize about their wife’s cuckolding them, etc.

The men can’t help this. There is no cure, no pill, no therapy that will stop abused men from reliving their abuse in their dreams. They wake up having cum on themselves or on the verge of cumming, and inevitably masturbate so they can go back to sleep, ashamed that the abuse felt good and yes forced massage of the prostate feels good and results in orgasms much more intense than men get from masturbating or PIV sex. And of course this makes the man even more ashamed.

Many men can’t live with the shame and end up killing themselves.

It’s the reason dominatrixes are legal. It gives men a way to experience what happened to them, the pleasure, pain, and humiliation in a safe environment where they are in control and can make it stop with a safe word. This gives the men alternative memories of what they experienced instead of having to masturbate to the memories of having no control during the abuse.

Many men who were abused never tell anyone. Some tell their wife’s after 20-30 years when sex is not so important. The men fear their wife’s won’t see them as “real” men if they tell them that they were abused and it felt good, and they have been fantasizing about their wife’s dominating them the whole time they have been married.

Some of the men are never able to become erect again after telling their wives. They are so ashamed they can’t imagine their wife’s would ever want to be submissive to them again.

Some of the wife’s understand and some don’t.

Those that do will typically reverse roles in the bedroom and begin fucking their husbands and after their husband cums the wife’s will masturbate with a vibrator while their husband sucks their toes, licks their ass, etc.

Had a ulcer when 15. Mom took me to doctor. Pretty nurse gives me barium enema from huge nozzle. I was hooked.
Picrel, recent prostate massage.

>>2530167
My AMP pushed all my buttons

>>2530198
>>2530198
she can fuck me... moar

Your wife still loves you but once you told her you need to be fucked in the ass you knew that she would never see you as a man again. Just tell her you’ll understand if she occasionally needs to be fucked by real man.

You need to understand that once your wife starts fucking you it means you will never fuck her again. It will be easier if you ask her to remind you of this when she’s fucking you. If she’s a good wife she will tell you she still loves you, just not in that way.

Also, asking her to ruin your ass so that you never have to worry about a man being able to hurt again like your were hurt will make living with what happened easier and it will make it easier for you wife once she knows no man will take you from here. You will need to get used to wearing a plug all time to avoid leakage but after a flew weeks you won’t even notice it.

>>2529626
nice

>>2530369
very nice

Men that survive often wait until their late 50s or early 60s before they finally tell their wives but some like me get careless and it comes out earlier. The wife somehow finds out the husband has been watching femdom porn, visiting a dominatrix, the husband talks in his sleep when he’s reliving being fucked in his sleep or while he imagines being fucked by his wife, or like in my case finds the husbands dildo. My wife said she knew right away I wasn’t gay because the dildo was too big for me to have been fantasizing about being fucked by a man. I admitted that I had been fantasizing that she had a cock.

I was never able to get hard to fuck her again after that. I told her I would understand if she needed to be fucked by a real men. So far, she’s been happy with just masturbating while fantasizing about cuckolding me. She “makes” me tell her to “take his cock” when she gets close to cumming.

The hardest part of knowing she’s masturbating while fantasizing another man is fucking her is when she tells me he’s getting ready to cum and asks me if I want him to cum in her and make her pregnant or pull out and cum in my mouth and makes me tell her my mouth.

Then as she’s cumming she tells me it’s ok baby. Eat your cum for me while you imagine him cumming in your mouth.
and then makes me lick my own cum out of my hand.

Somehow my wife knows this makes it easier for me to deal with the memories of what happened to me,

A filthy sluts tongue is best for massage

Where are our femdom lovers. Half the threads are big black cock shit but you don’t like femdom? Wtf?.

Can you imagine how many times you would have to be fucked with larger and larger dildos to be able to take this cock? It would take years!

And you know this man’s wife knows no other man could ever please her husband. Her husband totally relies on her to be able to cum. Her husbands ass is totally ruined. He has to wear a softball sized buttplug except,when he is being fucked or needs to do to the bathroom.

>1 in 6 need it
Qrd? Is my desire for pegging genetic?

>>2530202
hot

DESU, I think the core of this is performance anxiety.

Women get anxious from having to be careful about men all the time, so they have rape fantasies where a strong man just takes them and they have no agency.

Men get anxious from pressure to perform, so they develop fantasies where they are passive and have no agency.
ED? No skills? Tired? No problem, you're in chastity, being pegged anyways.
That's why it correlates with all the "permanent role change" fantasies, where you will "NEVER" have to live as a man again.

People report more of these fantasies in stressful and anxious times in their life.
For some, the first trigger was abuse.
But for others, maybe it was just performance anxiety from normal life. It's tough. People look for escapes, naturally.

BTW, don't get too hooked on escapism. It doesn't work in reality.

>>2530376
My wife pegged me on our 3rd date. We've fucked all sorts of ways after that. 22 years later, we're still fucking, still pegging. You're still full of shit.

>>2532841
My life is pretty stress free, I just have a very sensitive butt so it feels good to stick things in it!

>>2530161
I need a Woman to do this to me!!

>>2530198
I bet she makes him watch her ride her Bulls cock!

>>2529625
>>2530152
I love Skin Diamond as a femdom queen, she turned me into a submissive boy.

>>2531423
lol I know that guy

>>2530167
Got more? Or TG perhaps?

>>2534609
What's he like?

>>2529984
The stories on x about skinwalkers are more believable than this

>>2529597 (OP)
My cock is dead.

I'm not even getting a dicktwitch out of my usual faire. Normally seeing men being degraded and anally dominated by women brings a smile to my face and a twinkle to my eye, but my dick just ain't having it.

Looks like I've got to either start snorting viagra or find jesus.

>>2543465
I want you to WANT to fuck me up the ass.

>>2534609
his gf is hot.
hes a lucky guy.

>>2529626
Black. No

>>2529597 (OP)
Why can't you just admit that you like fucking me up the ass? Why can't you just act like you are enjoying yourself?

>>2529597 (OP)
I'm sorry, I'm I fucking boring you? Is me wearing stocking and high heels and a chastity cage not enough for you to get off? Is it too much to ask for a little enthusiasm and maybe a smile now and again? You look like you're bored out of your mind and thinking about having lunch later, i swear I catch you checking your watch.

>>2529597 (OP)
You ever think that maybe if your not into fucking guys in the ass and dressing them up like sexy girls and doing all sorts of other kinky shit maybe you could do something else for a living? Am i fucking boring you?

I swear to fucking Christ girls who do this shit are like the flintstones, "Eh, its a living!"

>>2529600
She's training him to take her Bull's cock!

>>2530187
What's her name?

>>2540865
This is pasta Anon

>>2532841
Trauma, performance anxiety, stress, real life burdens and so on are a big motivator to seek disassociation/escape.

The full-time thing is a meme, but scheduled role-change acts as a pre-emptive pressure release valve.
You get 'permission' to explore and express yourself through a different persona, and you can leave it in that sandbox until next time.

The kind of role reversal that is very vulgar and over the top is rooted from stress or trauma expressing itself through porn induced hypersexuality. It's kind of scary and sad to observe people re-enacting things that clearly happened in their past.

>>2529597 (OP)
1 in 6? where did you get that?

it's definitely more. like 1 in 3 at least

It's amazing when you read the comments in these threads they always turn out gayer than the dudes that just bang trannies. Women were never meant to be dominant and the men in these threads into it are gay as fuck.

>>2555388
Yeah getting dominated by a woman is definitely gayer than fucking another dude.
Fucking lmao.

>>2529597 (OP)
Bullshit. Manipulation/molestation puts that bullshit in people. It's a lie spread by cowards. Quarantine yourself or I will kill you.

>>2529787
I am into this and genuinely think I must have been abused as a kid. Likely at daycare.
I have zero memory at all that would make me think that, just a gut feeling.

>>2529787
I have never been abused. Had a perfect childhood. Also, to be fair, I am not into bondage nor submission, but I let my wife finger me and she have used a dildo on me quite a few times (not pegging).
Different people. Different backgrounds.

>>2529597 (OP)
Fuck yeah

Best thing I ever did was spill the beans to my gf/now wife about my anal activities.

How to convince my wife to peg me without her secretly loathing me after?

>>2561932
You cannot.

Therein lies the conundrum. Pegging is the *MOST ENJOYABLE WAY TO HAVE SEX* for men. This is just the truth. God put the male g spot in his ass as a type of cruel joke.

Most women WILL be willing to do it. But respect for you will wane and the relationship will not last more than a few months after.

Relationships are nearly 100% built upon a woman's respect for a man and if that respect is not kept and maintained, things will quickly fall apart.

So you have a choice to make, do you want to have the best sex you can while destroying your relationship or do you want to keep your relationship and her respect and NOT have the best sex?

Pegging is my favorite way to have sex, but I'm getting older so I want more permanent relationships. I think I'm done with enjoying pegging.

If I could have both pegging and a permanent healhty relationship (with a woman), that's what I'd prefer, but that's never how it works.

The same applies to cucking or any style of sex that causes her to view you as an "inferior".

>>2561933
I travel a few times a month to the same large US cities, probably twice a year I get a smoking hot escort and some cocaine and spend the tight getting my asshole wrecked. My wife is too hot to take chances on letting her be anything but a submissive.

>>2560549
see the passion in her face sells it in a way the youngs who can't fuck don't get yet or at all.

>>2561933
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where can one find fuul pegging or CFNM vids?