>>17784448 (OP)I always thought the issue is more complicated than just muh cars.
The issue both sides have to face is mass urbanisation, it's not surprising that muh public transport people also tend to believe that tower blocks are a good idea while muh cars types are more of a suburb or satellite town proponents.
Obviously it would be difficult to make the economy more decentralised without some Pol Pot tier measures, so the question of servicing massive urban centres is important. The advantage of public transport centric approach is that you concentrate the infrastructure in more or less one place, yes tearing down existing streets to expand the sewage system is not nice, but once it's done it's done, don't have to play catch up with developers.
The bigger problem however is the quality of life, for instance public transport is nice until reality of using it settles in - ok I take the bus to get to the tram station, where I wait 5 minutes for the tram that gets me to a bus station where the bus may come in 5 minutes but it may be 15, just few more stops and I'm 700 metres of walk away from my workplace! Sure it's cool that you can get around while being fucked up drunk, but in comparison to I hop into my car and drive directly to my work, the daily commute is kind of meh and you will do much more daily commute than getting back home from bar hopping. This is just one part of the quality of life, we can talk about high density housing being by necessity smaller than low density housing(despite often being more expensive), any kind of neighbourly inconvenience being more annoying(whether it's a dude who loves his wife almost as hard as he beats her a party animal or a whore) and we can go on and on and on
So in general the suburban sprawl is a burden on infrastructure, the dense urban areas are a strain on people. Americans have mostly the former, as they're simply rich and can afford it, while poorer countries have more of the latter