>>17834609 (OP)my brother is a big time leftie, and I joked with him a few years ago that I refuse to tip on principle because not tipping servers is an act of antiracism, after this essay was published in the NY Times arguing that US tipping culture is a legacy of slavery
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/02/05/opinion/minimum-wage-racism.html?unlocked_article_code=1.V08.nJE4.rrUFoctQheNc&smid=url-share
His response (while understanding this was a joke) was that if I felt this strongly about it, what I should be doing is advocate for a living wage for servers, and in the meantime not eat at restaurants.