>Femfailiures, or femlets are women who can't get laid, get pumped and dumped constantly or are retarded enough to repel 90% of men they are even remotely attracted to without truly living in the same community
An incel will out himself, act and try to change society or himself while a femlet would expect others to change themselves or her.
Her every social action would boil down to this, you need simply not listen to her or kick her out of the community to beat her.
An incel on the other hand would become a bandit or build his own society with other incels with a new hierarchy, being able to sustain himself and others.
Thus posing a threat to the original society.