>>2665697
It’s true I saw a black guy around 6-7 times last year and he absolutely insisted on me wearing panties/thongs and only ever used the word pussy. It was initially a turn on but it quickly got stale. Still, I like an excuse to break out lingerie and he could fuck really hard so I kept seeing him.
He didn’t like jocks I think because he basically saw himself as straight. A lot of black guys, especially first or second generation immigrants, have a lot of internalised homophobia and therefore try to make things seem as straight as they can for themselves whilst they experiment and/or just look for an easy fuck. There’s a strange dynamic going on where quite a lot of them find anything beyond girls’ underwear off putting because it’s too gay and some who practically insist on lingerie etc because that makes it feel more straight for them.
>>2662375
Defo agree on cages for bottoms, I’ve been wearing one on and off for years now (and always in the bedroom), and it makes bottoming way more psychologically intense even if you’re not into the whole racial size fetishism thing (which, to be clear, I’m not, I’m just a size queen). Prostate orgasms are to die for.
Some black tops like the one I mentioned don’t care at all about the cage and just ignore it completely (which is my preference desu), but some black tops who aren’t as comfortable can get scared off by cages and any other sort of fetish wear. I’ve yet to find a black top who was super into the racial fetish and chastity, though I haven’t really been looking. The tops I’ve met/found who insist on locked bottoms are all white. I’ve wanted a good keyholder top for years but haven’t found anyone interested besides fat old men who are quite often cheating on their wives. They can be fun once or twice, especially if you can twist their arm for champagne or coke or anything like that, but not suitable for long term relationships.
