>>5094541>>5094564Both pov's are valid.
In one case, the fapper doesnโt care about the personโs personalityโonly about how she looks. Maybe in his fantasy, Madelaine is a virgin who only has sex with him, so her real-life personality doesnโt matter.
In another point of view, the person is equally interested in Madelaine as a person. So in his fantasy, her personality isnโt imagined or idealized(much)โit reflects how she actually is in real life.
Personally, I relate more to the first approach. In my fantasies, the woman is loyal to me. But at the same time, I find it hard to imagine that someone who's a complete thot in real life could be like that so I prefer my waifus not dating pornstars(there is a certain line where it shifts from first pov, to the second). Which is why I find the news about Madelaine disappointing.