>>211713868 (OP)The girl I was obsessed with in middle school, and whom I never really forgave for not liking me back, is married to an investment banker, has a beautiful daughter, and lives in an incomprehensibly expensive brownstone in Greenwich Village. She was a private school science teacher for a while, don’t know if she still is. We still have friends in common, but I haven’t spoken to her in a long time.
Of the girls who had crushes on me, one does some kind of marketing job in Las Vegas and is married to a guy who… sells cars, I think? Not like a used car salesman, but something stupidly high-end; like Bugattis or some such nonsense.
The other girls who liked me in school include a psychologist who works for a university in the small town where we grew up (she’s married to another shrink, no kids) and another teacher in NYC (married, two kids, or maybe a kid and a step kid). I actually dated these two, and we’ve stayed in casual contact. The shrink was the first girl I mentioned’s best friend, for whom I settled after she spurned me.
There are a few others, mostly not up to anything especially interesting.