>>211791263 (OP)More good than bad, but we are not very close. Sheโs very closed-off emotionally, and introverted, so thereโs more than a little guesswork involved in knowing what sheโs thinking or how sheโs feeling.
Our relationship is better than either of us had with my father, who was by some metrics a good dad, but in a lot of ways a shit husband (as I learned in full only after he died).
Sheโs getting old. Iโm actually moving back to her country in part so I can see her more often, and help out where needed.