>>211798852 (OP)
>>211798873
This is literally me except I look 100 times worse

>>211798852 (OP)
gymcel finds out is all about the face

>>211798873
Female standards are so unbelievably retarded its genuinely over. In the span of 20 years we have gone back 10000 years of civilization development. women went back to how fucking cavemen formed harems because grug got good genes (hes strong and beats them with a stick when they act up). they hate when a guy works his ass off, they want a guy who effortlessly achieved everything

>>211798873
>take bad photo
>women rate the photo badly
>"new mission, swearing off all women, sucking only the hottest and fattest cock, buying 14 ar-rifles and killing any non-gay or female that steps foot on my property"

>>211799111
Post tits

>>211798852 (OP)
>>211798873
Just post a photo in front of some expensive BMW or Mercedes man, it doesn't have to be yours. Creating a fake image for you is more important than gymceling.
t. been working out for 3 years

No one likes roidtrannies

>>211799111
>swearing off all women,
More straight men should do this, not out of spite though, just for their own self betterment.

>>211798852 (OP)
He’s way too low body fat and he looks like an asshole if I’m being honest. Id swipe left personally since I don’t find this body type or the lifestyle attached to it attractive at all.

>>211798852 (OP)
His jaw is chopped. Tough luck on his next life.

>>211798852 (OP)
One Emily is worth 4 years of hard gymcelling. True incels will agree with me

>>211798873
If you are fit and post shirtless pics like that women will cope by saying they don't want someone that big or diminish you in other ways by saying you must have a small dick or they dont want someone who spends all day in the gym because subconsciously they fear that if they got together with you, their body would be held to the same standards as yours also unless they can get with a 10/10 chad chicks like to be a bit better looking than their partners to feel like they are the trophy in the relationship which i'll make the guy more likely to bend his knees over for her

>>211799410

>>211799410
Absolutely true

>>211799410
>women will cope
Meanwhile guys will cope by saying that if you are fit and post shirtless pics like that women will cope by saying they don't want someone that big or diminish you in other ways by saying you must have a small dick or they dont want someone who spends all day in the gym because subconsciously they fear that if they got together with you, their body would be held to the same standards as yours also unless they can get with a 10/10 chad chicks like to be a bit better looking than their partners to feel like they are the trophy in the relationship which i'll make the guy more likely to bend his knees over for her

>>211798873
>Get told by men that you need to get ripped
>Get told by women that you just need to be nice and funny (doesnt work either desu)
>Get mad at women for not appreciating your gymcelling
Femoids are attracted to genes not roids. You wouldn't fuck an uggo fot being ripped either

>>211799494
post your tits maria

>>211799410
This is accurate for me, but it’s much less malicious than you’re making it seem.
I don’t spend that much time in the gym, I still go but only 3 days a week and don’t want to be held to the standard he hold himself to.
We live different lifestyles and I don’t want to live one like his.
Because of this he is genuinely unattractive to me, so I would swipe left.

If I were a gym rat like him then I’d probably find him more attractive.

>>211798873
>The rest? Dead to me. I don't chase. I don't acknowledge. I don't smile.
It must be unpleasant to be this spiteful and bitter to the presence of women. And it's not like the women he's being rude to are the ones that rejected him on dating apps; they're just random women.
Not being a bitter asshole is better for yourself and for those around you. It feels good to be nice to people and open doors for others, men and women, if you aren't constantly thinking about how women as a class have personally wronged you.

>>211799410
So yeah you’re right but it’s not a bad thing, he’s just unattractive due to lifestyle incompatibilities. Do men not have equivalents to this too??

>>211799631
This is too much for the emotionally immature and rigid thinking incels to comprehend

i always restrain from texting girls with above average looks, like some kind of mental lock. I know many average dudes think same way

what makes these mid girls think they have even smallest chance to get him.

Curious.

>>211799634
I said women but everyone does this, you get called gay if you say you like women with abs, if somone has strong habits/tastes/hobbies that don't link up with their own you will find reasons not to like them if you know what i mean, I watched some videos of a real estate guy and he said, when potential buyers walk into a home and get wowed by the entrance hall they will subconciously ignore small things they dont like and find reasons to like the house, but if they don't get wowed in the first 3 seconds of walking in, they will find details to nitpick about, it's the same shit with people

>>211798852 (OP)
I bet you can tell from the rest of his profile that he's a giant douche
He should be on grindr, if he thinks only looks matter

>>211800093
Yeah. I agree however I will say it almost doesn’t matter because I still don’t find him attractive you know?

Being white is like having a good entrance hall I think

I have a strong dislike for women after one decided to come back to me after chosing someone over me that was mentally deficient and a drunkard but then when he cheated on her I was good enough.
I am 1,85, he was 1.95 and more muscled. Also I am socially deficient. Still, that hurt. Especially when she wrote me later that she got some form of treatable cancer. Told her as much. Tried to be nice but the resentment boiled over in the end and I told her that I do not particularily like being second choice.
God I hate this edge women have over apparently sub-standard men like me.
I have "autistic traits" according to doctors but am lucky enough to not gotten to deep into this. It is not an excuse, I know women will go for non fucked up people (at least the women I like).
I accept this, but how can I relieve myself of this resentment? It is unfair to my partners to go into relationships like this.

>>211799111
My photos are terrible and i have tons of likes, problem is most of my good photos are with my ex and i already deleted those

>>211800345
TRUTH.
Unironically men who think only looks matter are often very rigid thinkers in general.
They are also projecting how man think about women onto women. Men are the ones who care more about looks than anything else.

>>211800456
You are mentally still a child.

>>211800523
You are projecting your experiences of interacting with those men onto others who hold that opinion, it's quite circular reasoning

>>211798873
Holy cope. Men Going Their Own Way == Men Sent Their Own Way. Women are happy he's removing himself from the gene pool.

>>211800554
I know the answer is "This is how it is, just live with it".
But I do not particularily like it. Same way I am happy for a friend of mine who is now engaged and has a child. BUT the women allready had a child and he is very successfull and has a house.
I know how much his civil engineering degree fucked with him when we were in university, how unhappy we both were and how bad his luck with women was. But NOW when he bought his flat some lady gets to sit in the "made nest". She is ok, his stepson is also acceptable. But she still had a child with a retard that didn't want to take care of him OR her. This isn't fucking fair, even if she is an ok lady.
A friend killed himself because he felt so fucking useless, for gods sake. Nobody fucking cares.
>Blabla unjust world folly to expect any kind of morality from an uncaring universe blabla.

>>211800456
if you didnt at least cheat back youre a pathetic cuck

>>211799494
Sup babe, is any of these idiots bothering bbgirl?

>>211800435
For me I just have to see them in person to really know, otherwise it's just a shallow guess, when I was still in school me and my classmates made a tier list of the girls in our class and then one i liked the most was one of the bottom ones, at the time i really had a fetish? for very smart girls and she had a literal 500IQ, she looked like the steriotypical nerdy guy with big teeth with bracers and acne but as a girl, but I still found her attractive because she was very sweet, i would always ask her for help with maths and she would explain everything to me, she had big blue eyes, the only reason i didnt ask her out is because im a coward meanwhile we had girls who were 9's and 8's but just the sound of their voice alone would turn me off

Why is this canadian femcel so uppity?

>gee I wouldnt date him!!! His loss :3
Girl you're in 4chan

>>211799410
>unless they can get with a 10/10 chad chicks like to be a bit better looking than their partners to feel like they are the trophy in the relationship which i'll make the guy more likely to bend his knees over for her
it's usually the opposite. this is deviant behavior

I am a brown manlet and I don't even approach women. I have slept with 18 different women so far. I could've slept with more but I fumbled because they were way too hot.

>>211798873
>I got rated as an untrustworthy asshole and this is why billions must die
Maybe just work on your mental issues?

>>211800824
STEM is a death sentence
If you're good with numbers go for econ or something like that

>>211800865
No, we were basically competing for her even though I thought he was my pal and I told him I am interested in her. BAM they are together after a weekend. There is no dibs on people but I hated that. THEN later after he cheated on her in the barracks and she and I were on a course together she knocked on my door after a party and wanted to fuck I assume. Couldn't touch her, to salty. or maybe I have not enough sexual drive and am therefore gay. I do not fucking get it, what is so fucking hard about loyalty?
My fucking unit was retarded in this regard, had a 18 year old OR-6 bang multiple NCOS and other enlisted and got pregnant by one of them. Didn't know whom.
Sometimes I hate my time in the military as much as I loved it.

>>211800456
I assume that, in this case, the resentment is because you're hurt that the women that you like don't like you back, and you're extrapolating from there that they think you're sub-standard, since you already think of yourself as fucked-up and deficient and sub-standard.

Part of it should come from putting less of your self-esteem in how women view you, which I suppose requires feeling fulfilled by and in control of other parts of your life. That woman you liked just made a bad choice and that's not on you. And you should also stop ruminating so much about how other people must think of you, particularly these women, because that seems to have a bad effect on your self-image, and you might sometimes be assuming that they think of you in a bad way when they don't.

>>211800987
no it's not... do you even know what a gains goblin is?

My results as a truecel.

here is a rule of thumb for you zoomie zoomers if the boob is showing in the pic....ITS A CATFISH

>>211801038
My university time is almost 15 years past. I am a MALE NURSE and thus even more fake and gay.
I'd argue history or social sciences is pretty shit as well.

the more incels the more women for me, you guys are lost causes anyway, mentally ill with porn and 4chan brain rot, you shouldnt reproduce it will be like these horror stories about women giving a chance to a "nice guy"

>>211801090
True, but how to break that cycle? You need positive reinforcement and my relationships have been few and sort of shitty and I often felt used in the end.
The core thing is that I make myself small (metaphorically), that is unattractive. I am tall and fit enough, do judo. But I apparently radiate insecurity or nervousness. I am afraid of people and how I will be treated even though I am able to defend myself physically.

>>211798873
gymcels are actual manchildren, yes you should be working out to get strong and active but most of these people are ugly/autistic as shit and think lifting weights is all it takes to get grils.
anyway just don't be like the guy in the pic or this coping retard: >>211799410

>>211801412
Grow some balls unironically until It works

>>211801412
>You need positive reinforcement and my relationships have been few and sort of shitty and I often felt used in the end.
> I am afraid of people and how I will be treated
I feel like you just have to stop caring about what people think, and to some extent, care about romantic relationships less. Don't become some rude asshole, but basing your self-esteem on how your relationships go is a losing cycle unless you never feel bad and they're never shitty.

>>211800910
>I was still in school me and my classmates made a tier list of the girls in our class
The fuck? Why are men like this?
Someone tried to tell me the other day that men and women are actually very much alike and things like this remind me how deeply untrue that is because what the fuck?

Did they make fun of you for liking her?

>>211800966
????? What? Uppity how? The fuck? Because he’s not attractive to me?

>>211801361
Big murder case in my country was this girl giving her nice guy friend in the same engi course a chance. He murdered her with 70 stabs because she ended the relationship after he turned out to be possessive and mentally ill and a few months later she graduated while he failed the year which meant he would no longer go to class together (she made the mistake to not cut off all contacts)

>>211801361

>>211801412
There's this 1 minute clip of Bill Nighy talking about anxiety and self-image problems during his youth.
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/BUHZD-6734o
This might resonate with you.

>>211801597
>>211801501
Thanks for the upfront talk. I mean we all know that those things are true. But "knowing" in a theoretical way is not practicing it or even aligning your emotions to it.
Bad day, venting. Thanks. It helps to formulate these thoughts into sentences and actually inflict them upon someone.

Just wash your face and get a haircut lol. Nobody cares that you lift 100 kg or whatever.

>>211801612
Okay I don't really see how that is shocking in any way xd

They just said I was crazy I don't remember much

>>211801612
Making a tier list of all the girls in the school is a trope in older high school movies that shows how shitty the boys are to the girls; I didn't know it actually happened even today.
And yeah, men and women aren't really the same. See >>211801654 for another example.
>>211801728
No problem. I'm glad that helped. Yeah, I don't really know what to say beyond "stop caring about what others think" and "feel fulfilled by other parts of your life." Maybe to make friends, but that's hard as an adult. If you find yourself thinking a lot about what others might think of you, just try to stop doing that when you notice it.

>>211801883
I just have a huge hole of wanting to be liked, wanted and needed that I have to stop to try others to fill for me to "fix" me. That shit got me into the army (Yes, I love being told what to do and will be NCO on duty allmost every weekend!How could you tell?) or throwing my heart at the feet of women who "say" they like vulnerability but do not actually want to hear how you got molested or have issues with being touched.
Shit is just fucked for everyone, to differing amounts. I got out of it lucky.

>>211801708
Thanks, thats exactly it. But yeah. Hard to wrestle with.

>>211798852 (OP)
Help me pick, bros. Also, recommend another international dating app. Bumpy is full of Nigerians, Filipinas and Indonesians (nothing against them, I just don't like their noses).

>>211802096
Bottom row.

>>211801860
Because it’s just not something that would over occur to me or any of my friends to do.
Girls just don’t do things like that you know? We are very different.

This is why I come to this site, I get to see how men really think.

>>211798873
If he took a normal picture with a shirt on and smiling he would get lots of likes. Now he looks like an angry retard in his moms bathroom with gloomy lighting with the only thing going for him is his muscles

>>211802039
I understand that. I hope you'll make it!

>>211802096
Beggars can’t be fucking choosers you absolute fucking failure at life.

>>211801883
One of the biggest revelations I've had since entering my late twenties has been that men are not actually good people. I used to be much more gracious about men, I used to think we are pretty much all the same inside but I was wrong. Most men are not kind, and they genuinely don’t see women as equal or care about them at all unless they want to have sex with them.
This is the reality and it’s been a really bitter pill to swallow.
Of course there are always exceptions but the older I get the more I understand and the more my awareness grows.

>>211802168
FACTS. You get it.

>>211798852 (OP)
Probably but i dont have any luck though i hate my life though...

>>211800727
What is he supposed to do? Keep trying in this clown world

>>211802010
Especially for topics like being molested as a child, I feel like a therapist might help.
It sounds like you got out of it unlucky, though, just with a better mindset than most.

>>211800621
Thats not what circular logic is. What ive said is factual and has been proven multiple times over. Not to mention you can just look at our society and every society on earth and see it this with your own eyes. Please be serious.

>>211802546
>>211802168

>>211802206
Of course they can

>>211798873
This man is not mentally well

>>211802746
Okay, but if you’re already at the point where you have to look internationally for a relationship, you’re limiting your options by quite a bit. Maybe he’s prioritizing the wrong things kek.
Regardless it’s good, women deserve better so I’m glad he’s effectively eliminating himself from the dating pool. This is something to be celebrated.

>>211799088
And what have you achieved in life my nigga

>>211799410
Retard if you mainly post shirtless pics it implies that you have nothing else going for yourself and that you think that you can get women by showing off your body that you're putting way too much effort into. That's the real reason women steer away but keep coping

>>211801361
NVKLEARNA ISTINA

>>211801488
Most normal guy in this thread

>>211803386
>Most normal guy in this thread
You are a tranny

>>211798873
>takes a bad picture where he's flexing shirtless like an insecure gym rat
>women think it's lame
this guy truly didn't get it

also for all /fit/cels here, women like fit men but they don't care if you can lift an entire car or whatever. Women like powerful men. There's many ways to be powerful, and it's not just strength or money. It's confidence, it's wit, it's friendliness, it's being funny, it's intelligence, it's empathy, etc
Nothing makes a woman drier than an insecure man

>>211803622
insecurity is unattractive in general, not just in men

>>211803386
>Most normal guy in this thread
You are a legend

>>211802203
Danke.
>>211802670
Had a lot of talking, talking and more talking with therapists. In the end you have to get up and do stuff. Also I know enough people that didn't do as well as I. I am not a criminal or addict, I have a nice job and support myself and even help out my family. I can count myself lucky on that count.

>>211798873
Women don't like big muscly men mate, they like slim athletic bodies, also posing like that for a photo just makes you seem like a mong and puts them off.

>>211802754
>>211801029
>can't recognize chatgpt

>>211801883
>Making a tier list of all the girls in the school is a trope in older high school movies that shows how shitty the boys are to the girls; I didn't know it actually happened even today.
the fact that you think women dont do this just shows you were a loser in hs

>>211804473
So are you a girl who did this or something?

>>211800456
plenty more fish in the sea, stop being a dramatic woman

>>211802206
>>211802877
>mention only one standard
>some random bitch starts coping and seething
Lmao. Projecting much? You're just mad that you don't have a chance to get this big Mexican cock. You should learn to love yourself instead of begging for the attention of people you don't know.

>>211803386
im honestly doing pretty good besides my dating experience lel. im currently studying to become a pilot, im fit, i got plenty of friends. its just that women are allergic to me

>>211798852 (OP)
i'll let you in on a secret, the fact that you get any matches doesnt mean that you'll fuck any of them. I have over 2k matches and I fucked 0 girls simply because I look like a horse.

>>211798873
I get his frustration but he sabotaged in every way possible his image.
This is a good /fit/ /cbt/ pic but hoes hate that. Why?
>he looks tryhard and narcissistic, "look at my body" which is feminine behaviour
>badly lit bathroom in his bum home
Had he a pic on the beach of him smiling it would've worked. Like "i put it because i like the sea" kind of bs. Also a pic with a smaller sized male would work well

>>211798873
why do retards think the pictures that would elicit mires from /fit/ would also get them mires from actual women
ive barely had any success with women in my life yet i've had a few pics where i'm rated 9/10 at photofeeler. Imagine thinking a shirtless bathroom pic is a good dating pic profile

>>211798873
they created a mega chud, new hitler

>>211798852 (OP)
his face must be ugly