>>212025225> I stayed with her too longThis. I shouldn't blame her specifically, but the long period of comfort dulling my edge. Rejections or getting ghosted used to be water off a coat back in the day when I was spamming approaches.
>On a warpath>Eventually smash "the one" who convinces you hang up the hat>Pour heart and soul into her, get left hanging dry when shit gets real>Left a hollowed out shell of who you were before you met her + 1000 layers of rust with flirting Crazy how I witnessed so many men follow this pattern and used to chirp them for it, only to fall into the same trap myself. Slayers out there seriously need to NEVER allow themselves to 100% think they found their unicorn. Stay frosty no matter how "different" she is.
Can't blame age, I still see people I easily mog holding hands with QTs. Women just have an acute nervousness/sperg radar that makes you untouchable to them the moment they detect any discomfort. It really is just confidence in the end (assuming you have a baseline looks threshold). The only way out of this I see is chemical support. I hear good things about phenelzine (impossible to get from modern docs, gotta source it from UG labs)