I just don't think women like me very much outside of purely platonic relationships. Don't hate me but would never ever consider me as anything more than an alright guy.
>>212033326 (OP)
I started dating at 29 and I was horrified to take my shirt off the first time I had sex because fat.
Almost broke up with her because of it.
>>212033545 >because fat
this me
Not like horrendously fat, I look normal in a jumper but as soon as the shirt gets off I got this fat cunt gut and tits
>>212034024
I think if I lost like 10-15kg I'd be looking pretty good since I know a guy who's as tall as me like that but he doesn't exercise at all. But I've never really lost weight before, I was a super fat kid and just kind of got taller so I've weighed the same for a decade now. It really does irk me but it just ain't working, then again if I lived on my own and bought my own food I'd probably get somewhere.
>>212033488
i'm 25 and a virgn but i have been approached by random women several times in public and they have tried to flirt with me
one even tried to ask me out ...
i don't think i'm good looking though? not that it really matters i guess because i'm too much on an anxious mess to really pursue anything anyway
>>212034122 >i'm 25 and a virgn but i have been approached by random women several times in public and they have tried to flirt with me
I am skeptical to if this actually happens because it has never happened to me before. Not that I go out that often outside of uni and with my friends. But still, people say it happens but I have literally never seen it in my life before
>>212034165
i didn't believe in it either before i lost some weight few years ago and it started happening
i think i look easy to approach in general because when i go outside random people quite often chat with me but it's kind of a curse because as i said i'm an anxious mess and even if the interaction goes decently i will overanalyze it for days afterwards