Thread 212555407

29 and never had sex, a date, a GF or kissed a girl. Happens in your international country of origin?

I haven't had sex for a decade now, lol
Last time was in 2015

>>212555407 (OP)
No, I'm not like you at all....I'm 33

>>212555407 (OP)
Yes literally god punish me as the only incel in my country though...

you probably had a change with someone and blew it thats how most of these sob stories are

not missing anything. my ex had BPD, the worst thing you can experience. you never know what you get

>>212555527
Nah I doubt it.

>>212555407 (OP)
you tell me

>>212555407 (OP)
It happens here all the time if you're not living in a big city.

>>212555580
no way you made this far in life without coming close to dating at least one female at school or work

>>212555407 (OP)
It is worse for me since I am older
I have given up all delusions of it, life for people like you and me is to be spent alone

>>212555407 (OP)
I've had sex with prostitutes but that doesnt really count

>>212555407 (OP)
i’m 2 years younger but same

>>212555407 (OP)
The issues you described are easily solvable

>>212555407 (OP)
Same age and situation also I've been here since 2015

Yeah but I'm a loser so it makes senae

>>212555407 (OP)
troon out
become the gf

>>212555477
You're practically a normie compared to me, a 34 year old khv

One "h" removed though as I've been on 4 Tinder dates and hugging is the preferred greeting it seems

>>212555407 (OP)
30 but i'm a wine that is not yet fully aged and cannot be tasted by the ladies

>>212555407 (OP)
are you disabled or something? i can do all of those things in one night if i really wanted to.

>>212556582
Not the board for you

this is a corporate glowie thread trying to steal my analytics to sell me sex bots when they become widespread in a few years

>>212555407 (OP)
ya. I think I am an unusual case though. As in, I am not ugly or autistic or weird. I am often reserved in speech and prone to depression.

>>212557328
>I am not ugly or autistic or weird
Oh my sweet summer child

>>212555655
>go to school
>sit alone at back of class
>eat lunch on staircase alone
>sit alone at back of class
>go straight home after class ends
>spend the rest of the day in your room
>repeat every day
>repeat for years, eventually replacing “school” with college/work
It’s not that hard to end up like this

>>212555407 (OP)
>28
>only girl that's ever shown interest is a fat negress cashier at the supermarket

>>212558808
I had it worse than you and I suffer infinitely more.

>>212555407 (OP)
knew the flag before I even clicked on the post

>>212555407 (OP)
same but 31yo, also no actual real friends since i was 12yo, we can't all make it. Life feels mundane and empty

>>212555655
I never have. I just never had any confidence.

>>212559519
You a jeet?

>>212559550
Nope, white with blue eyes lol

>>212558867
Ok? I never claimed that I am suffering a whole lot. I’m just disagreeing with you that >>212555655
>no way you made this far in life without coming close to dating at least one female at school or work
It’s very plausible to be an adult male and go without coming close to dating at least one female at school or work.

me but 33 soon 34

I was promised I'd get wizard powers but it never happened. At this point I've accepted it's too late for me to get my dick wet.

>>212555407 (OP)
literally me but 33 khv

I suffer more than every poster in this thread.

>>212555407 (OP)
31, I had all of that but now I'm also just an incel neet again. inceldom can catch up with you at any time even if you lost your v card

I think back to all the times I blew hookups because I was too nervous or depressed or disengaged and I regret missing those chances. But I also think I was doing it on purpose on some level. I always knew I could just go home and jerk off to porn instead of having to endure the potentially excruciating closeness and emotional entanglement with another person. Even in college I didn't really have a strong impulse to go get laid. I used to think I just had a really low sex drive, but I was jerking off every single day. Sometimes multiple times a day. So I guess I was just willing to accept that. It's less pleasurable than real sex but doesn't have the complications and consequences that come with another soul being involved.

Now I'm in a long term relationship, but on the inside I still can't quite get rid of that cold incel onanist I used to be. Whenever my gf is gone for more than two days I end up watching porn and jacking it like 3-4 times a night like the bachelor days never ended.

Frankly, I'm a internally deformed 4chan freak who deserves to be alone but somehow I ended up with my prom date from high school. Even now I might end up driving her away eventually despite all our history. Who knows.

>>212559808
Same + 6 feet tall, and still a kissless hugless incel. JBW is a meme.

>>212560612
JBW is formulated for countries with fairly large non-white populations like the US, Canada, and parts of the UK. Where do you live in Finland? I can see JBW working in Helsinki or something.

I am worse than all of you, I somehow get women to message me, add me, or just talk to me. But then they just lose interest after I show my boring personality. It’s much more painful having your hope ripped from you. Sometimes I wish I was just a regular incel

>>212555527
After a certain age to start a relationship you need some experience, social skills and confidence. You either need to have all three or a lot of luck

>>212561169
>After a certain age to start a relationship you need some experience, social skills and confidence

its truly over, isn't it.

>>212563302
Lack of relationship experience has some advantages though. I wouldn't say it necessarily evens out against the advantages of having experience, although in a lot of contexts it may well do. Starting from zero is a better position than a lot of people who have trust issues or trauma or financial baggage etc. from previous relationships. Some people will genuinely appreciate the fact you have a clean slate.

>>212563501
maybe. but still, every year that passes makes it so much harder to take the first step. i am stuck and has been for years

>>212557062
based turkish man
>>212563302
you need to learn to have friends first

>>212555407 (OP)
How hard have you tried?

i know what i must do. it's how to do it and actually starting something that's impossible. it's all in my head

>>212555527
what does this change?
if you didn't have it you didn't have it, the fact that it was "only" autism or social incompetence makes it worse, because it means the next times will worse because you're older

>>212563654
Ok what must you do? You make it sound like you're planning for a terrorist attack

>>212560612
>JBW is a meme.
Literally just go to the nearest tertiary educational institute, find the Pajeetas, Latinas, and Chinkeetas and literally just talk to them.
They are desperate for attention from white men and they gravitate towards nerdy types too.

>>212563501
>Some people will genuinely appreciate the fact you have a clean slate.
only men do that.

>>212563723
get a job. call my friends rather than expecting them to call me, get a driver's license. move away from home etc

>>212555407 (OP)
I had coffee one-on-one 4 times with 3 different girls in uni but it wasn't romantic so I'm not sure if it counts as a date. I only got a kiss on the cheek from a girl at 23 and that doesn't count as a kiss.
Besides that yes I'm a kissless loveless virgin at 25.
>>212561030
I had this with two girls. One of them was the girl I fell in love with and one of the reasons was because I thought she was nice lol. Most painful experience ever for a variety of reasons. I found out that being tragically in love as a KV is far worse than just being a sexually frustrated virgin loser. After her I lost all will to even try with other girls.

>>212560445
>involuntary celibate
I will give you that because you want sex but aren't getting any right now, but you will never be a truecel kv.
When I see my friends who are sexhaving normies or fat unathletic dorky geeks that had sex once but had gfs in school, kisses, made out etc they can and will eventually get another girl, it's just a matter of time. Meanwhile for someone like me, who is already relatively old and couldn't even get a female friend and the most intimate experience I had was dance classes in highschool, it's probably not happening because it would have had happened already.
And I'm not settling with some roastie when she wants to settle down or if I manage to improve myself and become more attractive while those same women wouldn't even talk to me before.

>>212563565
I know there's nothing I can say that you haven't heard or considered before. But I hope you find happiness, whatever that eventually looks like. Take risks and get uncomfortable. You may only have to succeed once.

>>212564201
>Take risks and get uncomfortable
it's so hard, and it never gets easier. i'm a slave to old mental habits i've had since i was a teenager

>>212555426
2018 since I had sex

>>212563501
>I wouldn't say it necessarily evens out against the advantages of having experience, although in a lot of contexts it may well do. Starting from zero is a better position than a lot of people who have trust issues or trauma or financial baggage etc. from previous relationships.
When I said experience I didn't mean experience in being in a relationship but experience in getting into one. Even people with that type of trauma know how to romantically engage with somebody, how to flirt, how to notice one's interest and how to reciprocate. This is the important skill. What you do afterwards with your relationship isn't that important here, most people don't marry their first date so it's normal to screw up on that

>>212564729
this

>>212555407 (OP)
Get an escort
Do mma or boxing
Do some pua like Krauser on Oxford street
If you’re brown hit up Slavic girls
Similar situation at 27
Took me a year of training, approaches and gooners till I scored on my own

>>212555940
What you’re Latino , how bro
It’s sex land there
>>212559808
>>212560612
wtf how you got jbw
You can be ugly as fuck and broke and still pull
Had a buddy that looked exactly like the walking virgin meme and now he fucks guys gfs /wives behind their backs
After gaining confidence, doing mma and working as electrician changed him
Before that he was hardcore into WOW

>>212555407 (OP)
Yeah nigga

>>212555407 (OP)
yes

The best part of being loved is having a woman who adores you. Not to be a fag but it feels good when she says I am her world

>>212565792
i can't in my wildest dreams even imagine a woman saying that to me

>>212556223
fakecel poser
>>212555407 (OP)
same boat
>>212555426
>>212564555
normalfags gtfo

>>212555527
>>212555655
completely delusional, or baiting. I'd say the latter because surely if you're here you've seen enough to know better.

>>212555655
If you're ugly you're doomed. Love is all about genetics

>>212555407 (OP)
I have a gf

>>212557328
>As in, I am not ugly or autistic or weird.
if you weren't ugly you wouldn't be lonely. attractive people get coddled.

>>212566047
this. a girl literally forced me to date her.

>>212557062
we should post as much data as we can to help them attract investment, dumbass

>>212555407 (OP)
Same age. Wasted my life doing nothing. I think I want to actually try and seriously dated and maybe even get a smol apartment now though.

>>212555407 (OP)
yeah cuz im ugly

>>212555407 (OP)
>35
>never went on a date, never kissed a girl, never held hands, never had a gf
>had sex once with a prostitute to get it over with, back when I thought I would become a normie, that's 13 years ago now
It's so strange. An integral part of the human experience, completely alien to me. Something experienced daily by most people around me, for me it's as unattainable as climbing Mount Everest. The worst part is that it's too late now, unironically. You simply can't learn the intricacies of love as a mid-30's man. You either learn it organically as a teen before your brain solidifies, or not at all. Feels bad man.

36 year old Virgin here

>>212566294
sex isn’t real. It only exists on the screen, friend. I refuse to believe it’s real. It’s not something they humans actually do to other humans. The cute girl who made me a cappuccino this morning does not put a cock in her mouth weekly, right? I think it’s all a fantasy that only exists in cinema and games.

>>212555407 (OP)
Oh thank goodness I just got off the phone with my GF so I don't have those feels any longer.

I’m in my early 30s, I have a gf but I feel very uncomfortable with sex so I avoid it as much as possible. I make excuses often when she wants to do it. I actually feel relieved when she’s in her period because I know for 5-7 days I don’t have to worry about it

>>212566639
>>212566681

>>212566692
that’s the problem with going into your 30s as a virgin. It messes you up in the brain. I can not enjoy touch, intimacy, or sex at all. It feels unnatural and it stresses me out so much

>>212566692
For ur information here, buddy, me and her meet each weekend and she sits on my face until I get hypoxia

>>212566727
>I can not enjoy touch, intimacy, or sex at all.
that's not normal and you probably have some mental condition

>>212555655
you know nothing, dumb normalfaggot

>>212566792
>that’s the problem with going into your 30s as a virgin. It messes you up in the brain
Did you not read?

>>212566802
yes, pretty sure being scared or indifferent towards intimacy is indicative of an actual mental condition. being a virgin isn't supposed to give you trauma or make you schizoid.

>>212567155
>being a virgin isn't supposed to give you trauma or make you schizoid.
If it goes on for long enough, sure it will.

My penis is 7 inches yet I’m still an incel

>>212567155
around the age of 25 is when the part of your brain that processes intimacy and emotion settles in. That’s why it’s important in your early 20s to have experiences so you can figure out who you are and what you like. If you make it to 30 without any of that. You’re more or less stunted emotionally. Because that part of your brain finished development but you never used it.

>>212555407 (OP)
Bitch, get to my level! I'm 45 and I haven't done any of that! Chicks seriously hates autists, it's unreal. They'd rather plough trough all the most miserable drunks and drug addicts rather than have anything to do with me.

>>212567331
Me but 8

I'm autistic, ugly and bald
31 year old kissless virgin

Lost my virginity at 29 and ended up dating her. 1 year later we broke and I feel like shit but I wonder if I would feel worse if I was still a virgin.

i'm too autistic so I never tried making the first move and nonetheless had couple of gfs and around 10 girls i fucked
feels good thank god i'm tall and not ugly

>>212555407 (OP)
same but i'm 2 years older

>>212555407 (OP)
Pushing to 26 and KHHV, I don't even talk to female.

I always get dates on looks alone but i am always "too quiet" it never leads to nothing, i have no idea what to talk about with a woman

>>212568265
You CANNOT suffer in Brazil.

>6’5 since ~12 yrs old
>been called handsome and told I look like Jason Momoa but White
>Beard since early high school
>never obese, always in good shape the past 5 years
>Strong, athletic, lift 3+ times per week, run 5Ks, play sports
>Broad shoulders with heroic proportions
>Not balding
>make $100k+ in a low cost of living state
>High IQ and a few physics degrees
>Always funny, sweet, and kind according to my friends and their wives/gfs

All that and I am still a khhv. Never even been on a date once. Dating apps only result in likes from obese lardasses and/or single moms. Never matched with a legit, worthwhile woman. No single women at my work or in my classes when I was in college.

The US is a demonic hellhole difficulty for getting a girlfriend after high school

im truecel

>>212555426
Better than never having sex at least

Pussy is damn shit
imagine licking off the piece of toilet paper around hell pussicano
I was suffering from PTSD for ten years at that
There are Mine female in this world

I'm a kissless virgin and just turned 35 yesterday.

>>212555407 (OP)
I'm one year younger but yeah, it happens.

>>212570099
Meds. Now.

>>212555407 (OP)
yes but my dick doesn't work well at 33
so why even bother?

>>212555407 (OP)
I'm 24 and a KHHV
It's so joever

>>212563622
Not very. Got rejected when I was younger which crippled me.

not a virgin thanks to some luck through a dating app years ago, but i've never been in a relationship and have no idea why women can't stand my company or how to find one outside of the apps that don't work anymore. i'm not a talker type of person irl, no matter how many different drugs i take.

>>212571178
I've lost it all at your age. It's not over.

>>212569745
meh it’s not like I even remember anything
t. had sex 9 years ago

Yeah it's increasingly normal
Does it bother you?
If so why not do something to make yourself happier?

>>212555426
You're still on the same tier as a virgin if you dont fuck at least 2-3 times a year minimum, that's the goal I go for anyway

I'm 22 and it's the same for me but I'm a girl

I last had passionate sex with a girl in 2018 and at the same time got into gay, everything since then has been gay hookups