Thread 212728851

Are you considered attractive in your country? Do women approach you?

>>212728851 (OP)
no
yes

>>212728851 (OP)
no
no

no
no

>>212728851 (OP)
No, I've been called ugly pretty much all my early life and in my teen years, women have never approached me or looked at me with any expression other than disgust

To be honest the time I've talked to women in my life is less than my time playing any random game you pick from my steam library, maybe I should start talking to them more often to see how they look at me and how they deal with me, if they treat you as non human you're unattractive and that doesn't mean being cunts to you, means disregarding you or giving off certain subtle vibes that they don't like you at all

>>212728851 (OP)
no
yes

>>212728851 (OP)
distinct slavic features, it must just be a coincidence that this keeps happening

>>212728851 (OP)
>No
>No

Literally the only incel in my country there is not hope anymore for me though...

Throughout my life I've consistently been approached by fat women and fat women alone. They can range anywhere from just overweight to full on obesity. This only happens to me, all of my friends are good looking and they have no problem attracting similarly good looking women. Not me. If we're out at a bar together there's a good chance I'll catch a fat girl's eye and she'll try to start up a conversation with me, which in return I'll awkwardly try to end as quickly as possible.

What this tells me is that I'm right on the cusp of attractiveness that fat girls see me as their best option, but good looking girls see me as their worst option. The end result is that I'm highly sought after by fatties but not the type of women I'm attracted to. Before you tell me fat women are desperate and will go for anyone, I know that. But my "luck" with fat women is so incredibly high that I must be the perfect mix of desirable yet attainable by their standards. These are the "good looking" fat girls too, the ones that actually have pretty faces and nice eyes but are disgusting in every other part of their body. In other words, I'm the king of 6/10s. And no, I've never fucked any of them. I don't like fatties.

I'm a 4 at worst and I'm fucking invisible it hurts
One would think even as a 5-6 leaning, you'd get a few chicks paying attention to you but fuck no
May kill myself one day, dunno

>>212730140
You need to find other ways to make yourself more likable and interesting. If your looks aren't enough to attract women, what else can? Why would a woman want to be around you? Are you funny? Can you play an instrument? All of this matters, stop believing this incel bullshit that looks are the end all be all. The people who perpetuate this nonsense have no friends, no hobbies, and no social lives. They don't understand what it's like to be a real person and can't put themselves in the perspective of another human being to see how miserable they are to be around.

>>212728851 (OP)
no
no

women don't openly approach you unless you are like 8+ chad but they will still send subtle signals that they are open to be approached if you are 5+ normie

>>212728851 (OP)
no
no

>>212731675
why?

>>212730543
thanks anon
I'm a little more confident!

>>212730543
That's a lot of presumptions on your part of people you don't know, anon

>>212728851 (OP)
women dont know i exist

>>212734363
Why?

I don't know really. I get a lot of attention being a red head blue eyed surrounded by black women. I just don't think about it.

>>212735709
i dont go outside, i dont know anyone. so basically no woman knows i exist

>>212735788
You can't suffer in America.
The only women that ever openly liked me were non-white

>>212735875
Im the virgin islands guy. There's like 4000 total people on my island then next door 42000. There's maybe 10 "white men" of dating age on my island. We all kind of know each other it's hilarious. Stj is 80% east African or Latin/east African women. The men are in jail or at sea or elsewhere they just claim it for taxes. It's all resort or park workers. So mostly women 20-40 who are pretty. If I go to Saint Thomas which is a 15 minute ferry ride it's even worst.

>>212728851 (OP)
I dont care. I dont care to notice if they do or not.

>>212728851 (OP)
No and no. I've never been approached by women or had my flirting reciprocated, in fact I've been treated like shit by most people in my life. I've come to the realization that I'm actually hideously ugly, likely the ugliest person people see during the day. Like, so ugly they remember it and talk about it, "you remember that ugly guy we saw the other day?" and stuff. It's not fun and I wish people could be nicer. It's not the 1850's anymore, we should've progressed further as a society than to give people a hard time just because of their looks.

Yes
No, because women want you to approach them in my country. And I refuse. My wife approached me and she isn't from here.

>>212736167
copium meme

>>212728851 (OP)
Yes and I’ve been approached and had girls ask for my number. I could have been married at 21 if I wanted

>In my cunt
>Girls don't even look at me when we're with my friends
>Go to Japan and Korea for vacation
>Girls take glances at me and one even approached me in Japan to ask me out on a date in broken English
I am the mid white guy Asian incels and TikTok whores warn people about

No amount of coping on 4chinz will change the fact the majority of your women date yts, OP lmao

>>212736887
I'm Black and that doesn't bother me, because I don't get angry at interracial relationships, and because I'm more attracted to White women than non-White women.

>>212728851 (OP)
I have been told I'm weird and that they like me that way, I still don't get it but I got to fuck them so I don't complain

>>212736792
You're not fooling anyone, Rajesh

>>212728851 (OP)
no

>>212728851 (OP)
no to both

>>212728851 (OP)
no
yes

I have been told I was ugly since at least 9 years old
Because of that I've come to love beauty and hate ugliness

none of you would be here otherwise

Some women with problems going on in their life find my reassuring presence attractive. When I start getting flirty, it gets even worse.

>>212740196
start wearing nice clothes

>>212728851 (OP)
Yes
Yes

>>212740685
My clothes are okayish

>>212729039
How are you gonna change it?

>>212728851 (OP)
Sometimes girls come up to me and praise my clothes and then I'm like haha thanks and six months later I start wondering if they wanted something more.

I've also had a very cute girl grab my hand and lead me to her apartment and I still managed to autismo it.

>>212728851 (OP)
a lot of girls call me cute on the internet but i've never had one approach me in real life. probably because i might look better in photos than in real life