Thread 212960938

Is online dating dead in your country? I feel like you don't hear about it much here any more, like people clicked on its a waste of time and money

it’s the most popular way people meet here (not specifically tinder but all dating apps)

Despite being a truecel I would never stoop so low to use sexual CV websites, utterly humiliating how can normalfags even manage?

>>212960938 (OP)
I don't think so.

>>212961014
I used it twice and both time I deleted it out of shame a week in because it's just so humiliating even getting matches

>>212961015
Does people still use tinder here?
Im 28 but feel too old to try now

>>212960938 (OP)
I had more than 1000 matches, a good hundred dates out of my dating app experience but I only shagged 3 chicks, nothing long term. Not worth it if you're a -cel in general

Everyone meets through online dating but everyone also claims tinder is dead.
Make it make sense

>>212961188
i have around 2k matches and i fucked 0 girls and many of them tell me i look totally different in real life than in photos (perhaps uglier) why is that i dont cherrypick or use any fucking filters like these whores do

I used to use Western dating app's "global modes" to change locations internationally. Had a good share of matches with White Stacys. Now I only go for Northern Han Chinese women

>>212961225
Instagram DMs

I just can't get over modern dating. As a zillenial it is a science I am perplexed by. My grannies met their husbands just working in some commie factory or party work. My father and mother met in a dorm she was studying medicine while my father was studying to be a bandmaster.

>>212961014
it's not humiliating if you don't have dignity to begin with. seriously talk to some guys who use those apps, they can't comprehend the concept of dignity

>>212962628
Your father is a conductor? That sounds cool

>>212961151
I don't think so.
https://www.infomoney.com.br/consumo/amor-em-tempos-de-tinder-cai-interesse-dos-brasileiros-por-apps-de-relacionamento/
It was never that good anyway. It is not like you can possibly tell much if anything about someone just by looking at some stupid short text and a bunch of photos.

>>212962682
*was
Long dead by now but he had a good run

i’ve noticed my match numbers/quality of women on these apps in general take a steep decline over the past year. it’s weird, i was matching with hotties even this time last year. i dunno

>>212962865
Him in the picture btw

>>212962958
mind you the requirements raise each year so probably the pool of women you meet the requirements decreases every year, hence less matches

>>212962725
And I'm saying that because I'm really into the way some people move themselves, and in how they move when they talk, walk and do all sorts of things. And you can't see any of that in photos. There is their smell too, I really like some people's smell.

>>212961225
This. Like 3/4 of the people I know my age met their partner through tinder. This whole doompill shit I see online about tinder dating being dead/impossible for guys just doesnt hold water to the anecdotal stuff I see IRL.

>>212963028
eh idk, i’m chadlite (6’, in-shape, good career, confident, good hair) and this has been a pretty obvious dropoff despite being gone on the apps every once in a while from 2019-present

>>212963047
Based and scentpilled. That drives me wild.

>>212962865
>>212962979
Very interesting

>>212961782

Are you a jap or foreigner?

>>212960938 (OP)
I don't know. I'm 34, never tried those sites and never will.

>>212963100
yes, but the definition of a "chadlite" has vastly changed since 2019 because zoomers now look way better

No, it's over for the average guy here
Unless they happen to have female friends or whatever it's not possible

>>212961225
It was true for the 2010s but seems like its losing popularity. That or people are just giving up on dating entirely now.

>>212960938 (OP)
I hope it will die, and those services go bankrupt with their (((((ceo's))))) hanging themselves

My small anecdote is that all the tinder relationshits I know have gone to shit. Those who met though mutual friends, knew each other before are still together.

>>212961693
Phones apply filters nowadays automatically
I can't even turn off samsungs decolorization filter once it notices that you're male and have to live up to soulless gook male beauty standards

>>212960938 (OP)
no but the women in my town are boring basic bitches

i never get any matches on tinder/bumble, but on hinge i get so many fucking matches and they're 10/10s in my opinion. i'm not sure why this is

>>212963403

Are they bots or actual people? Have you met up with any?

Even at my best when I was in my prime age (21) I couldn't get matches to save my life and I was in better shape. That kind of destroyed me and I gave up on trying to date.

>>212960938 (OP)
Monetization priorities, if not the natural progression of human creations, have rendered them completely worthless. You have better odds flashing strangers on the street.

>>212960938 (OP)
Grindr is still busy

It's terrible for men, unless you are very attractive or know how to make a real good profile.
Most women are some combination of: past 28, ugly, fat, immature (more than women naturally are) and time wasters looking for validation.

Young, attractive, childless and actually open to hooking up and having fun are few and far between, and you will not match with them if you aren't well above average looking or at least make a profile that conveys you have money and lead an interesting, active life.

Dating apps like Tinder revolutionized sex dynamics for most women and the few top tier men. They are having sex like never before. For the average man it's more often than not simply a waste of time and source of frustration.

>>212963789
Autism makes your SMV 0, I can't cope in currentyear.

I had some success with it around 2016-2017. I mainly matched with foreign women though. If you go to Asia and use it as a white man you'll get hundreds of matches with girls who actually want to meet up. I tried it a few months ago in the UK and it mainly just seems filled with girls trying to farm followers for their instagram or single mothers looking for a beta provider.

>>212963537
yeah real people, i meet up with pretty much all of them. although sometimes they flake and block me, i try to facetime or something before so they can see me naturally and i don't get there and they're like oh nvm you're ugly hahaha.

>>212960938 (OP)
If feel disgusted meeting women who talk and have sex with dozens of other guys through these, so don't use them. If you don't have a social life or are in school/uni where you can easily meet a gf, it's over

>>212963789
best to never engage with it i reckon
bit sad but it is what it is

>>212963848
mate 2016 was a decade ago
the dynamics have changed a great deal since

>>212963848
tried it in south east asia and it was pretty much only prostitutes

only americans use that. nerd online dating shit

in europe talking to girls on the streets has always been the best way to meet women

>>212960938 (OP)
I met some white women on Discord

>>212963789
>Tinder revolutionized sex dynamics for most women and the few top tier men. They are having sex like never before.
women already had a ton of sex before online dating, it was just confined in the city/village, average girl pre onlinedating era had already 100s of bodycount

I realised it's way easier to just go to gay sex clubs. They can't ghost you, use old pics or lie about their stats there. And even if you're mid you get an ego boost from being groped

As much as I hate them, it's the only way I met women in the last years. Met 3 women, beded 2. The experience is still very humiliating though

There are some many sex workers in Asia there are not much points in making them. If you want to fuck a chick, just go to brothel or online order hoes. Dating App is for castrated westerner men.

>>212965896
If it's that bad in FRANCE I can't imagine how it is in the rest of Europe

>>212965952
its super super super bad, you can't even imagine, luckily i don't have to rely on online dating

>>212965952
I forgot to mention that I met all these girls in asia. Apps NEVER worked for me in france lmao