>>213088983Because most guys ARE poor ugly losers, and therefore you will have to share the actually hot and successful guys if you don't want to be foreveraloneโข. If you're okay with sharing a guy then that's great you're not losing out on much since women are no longer financially dependent on men (at least in the occident). In fact that's how reproduction worked to a large extent pre-civilization where many women would cluster around the top men.
It's not a bad thing necessarily btw the biological cost for a male to reproduce (5 minutes and a couple ML of water for jizz) is faaaaar lower than that for a female (9month gestation where you can't provide for yourself and are extremely vulnerable + 80,000 calories spent on average + opportunity cost if you choose an unfit male because no man wants to raise another's child, etc).
But do realize you can't have your cake and eat it too. The top guy will have side pieces and you might just be one of them.