Thread 213179294

How spiteful have you become?

>>213179294 (OP)
I'm blackpilled a little bit, but I still believe I can improve myself. The one thing that separates me from being an incel is that I understand that in order for a woman to find me desirable I have to make myself seem like an attractive option to her. Most incels either fail to grasp this concept completely (probably because they're autistic and can't view themselves from the perspective of others) or fall into the pit of thinking attractiveness is all about looks. You can be attractive simply by not being a creepy loser. Part of me believes incels know this deep down but are too timid to try for fear of how they'll be perceived, hence why so much incel propaganda relies around dispelling the "myth" that guys who don't look like models will be creepy no matter what. Literally just smile more, talk to people, and have hobbies that aren't video games and watching anime and you're fine.

The blackpill in me comes from using dating apps. I didn't want to, but my friends forced me into it. I used them for about a month before deleting everything. Those apps are disgusting and I can understand why it makes incels think dating is all about physical attractiveness. They're literally catalogues of men/women to flip through. It's dehumanizing.

>>213179610
A lot of dating is based on personality too, if you are boring or dry, women will leave you quickly.
That’s personally why I’m an incel, I don’t have trouble getting women to talk to me, it’s just that I can’t get them to stay. I go in and out of hating women, obviously reality is more complicated than just “women are whores who only want Chad”.

>>213179774
>A lot of dating is based on personality too
Yes, which is another reason why dating apps are such a cancer. Looking at a few pictures of a person and a handful of cliche quotes and one liners on their profile isn't enough to decide if you want to go on a date with this person. Most people are better in person. All of the guys I know who've dated girls well above their "league" are really fun to be around, and that attracts people of both sexes.

>>213179294 (OP)
I don't hate women or men anymore. I've ended up hating myself so much for being abnormal that I think about making an hero everyday. I just feel like a subhuman, a defect. Normal people now englobe the entirety of mankind in my head. I'm a loser to losers. If you offered me pussy on a silver platter I wouldn't know what to do with it or would refuse it thinking it's wrong for me to participate in normal human life. Smash that like button if you relate

>>213179918
>Normal people now englobe the entirety of mankind in my head
by this I mean "the normies". People always talk about normies but literally everybody has become a "normie" to me so that now I'm not talking about a majority of people while j belong to the margin but instead everybody is a normies and I'm the only person in the margin

>>213179294 (OP)
That sentiment is correct but its much more complex and multilayered than simply woman/incel stuff.

>>213179294 (OP)
he's just plain wrong though

>>213182763
Obviously he's wrong, but incels love to larp as stoic, brooding intellectuals who've removed themselves from society when in reality they're just shy losers that are afraid too talk to girls.

>>213179294 (OP)
I’ve fucked maybe 100+ women over the last few years, I could’ve done more if I really wanted to, I’ll add.

I’m still utterly bitter and spiteful towards women and resentful towards other men truthfully. It’s something I hate but genuinely cannot help.

I don’t let it show, but it burns at me beneath the service and comes out in the form of anger and pure disgust, especially when I’ve had a few too many drinks.

The only thing that gives me a sense of peace is that I truly believe that this spitefulness that we experience is divine Mother Nature.

Women control sex and intimacy. It’s truly in their hands. Women simply don’t stress about finding sexual partners because it’s constantly available to them, even if they’re not attractive, women don’t need to do anything to get sex.

Men on the other hand don’t have that pleasure. We work for it. We struggle for it. We crave it. We seek out power and money and status to obtain it. Not having sex makes us angry and frustrated.

Maybe if sex was easy to obtain and just given to us on a platter with no work involved nothing ever would’ve gotten done. Maybe we’d be living in the dark ages. Just food for thought.

>>213182806
I am unironically like joker and the fight club guy in one, I'm a cool bad boy who has no time for girls.
Every time I masturbate my dick to porn or play videogames i am reclaiming my male autonomy