Thread 213436643

Literally everyone my age group in my social circle has a partner. Even cross eyed dude from my workplace has a wife and even my cousin who is a 110 kg fat chick has boyfriend.
I've had over 40 rejections and ghostings through dating apps and IRL approaches in last 2.5 months. It feels like Sisyphus task at this point.
I sometimes get really jelly of countries where a spouse/partner is arranged for you.

2nd world Slavic countries have it the worst
Zero advantages of 1st world like well-paid jobs, good education, social security etc.
Zero advantages of 3rd world like arranged marriages, trad women etc.

>>213436643 (OP)
I will NEVER have a gf and that is okay

>>213436725
It's even worse because women from Eastern bloc have reputation as some of the easiest to score women in world.

>>213436643 (OP)
You are clearly not a likable person for a woman to be around, as evidenced by you posting on 4chan and using doomer wojaks like a 14 year old kid.
Grow up and start acting like an adult. Find something you enjoy doing and talking about that isn't anime or video games. No woman wants to date a manchild.

>dating apps
>IRL approaches
this is your mistake. people meet each other in a natural environment, like school or via common friends. on dating apps you have 0 worth to a girl. and cold approach is almost the same, you are just a perv. people have partners because they have social circles.

>>213436643 (OP)
>in my social circle
Fucking normiefag.

>>213436845
2/3 of my IRL approaches happened at either my work or painter's club I frequent. Only 1/3 was cold approach in nightclubs.

>>213436643 (OP)
i have a friend who just got a girl from the phillipines and married her. didn't even bother with local women

>>213436861
i dont' have a social circle either thats why im a loner as well. my other option is fucking 3/10 girls from dating apps, i already did that and i refuse to do it anymore because as a 190 cm fit and rich man i deserve better.

>>213436917
>that guy who goes to art clubs just to hit on women
You probably come off as a creep and nobody wants to be around you.

>>213436832
ynbaw albeit

>>213436980
I go there because I love painting.

>>213436985
Sorry that it's such a tough pill to swallow, but you can't keep living like a child your entire life.

>>213436972
>fucking
>already did that

FUCKING NORMIEFAGGOT

>>213437110
having sex doesn't make you a normie anymore, maybe it was making you a normie until early 2010's

>>213436861
>>213437110
What's it like being an incel in Sweden? Are you white or brown (I have a feeling I already know the answer but I could be wrong)? I'd imagine being surrounded by so many beautiful women is miserable if you aren't similarly tall and good looking.

>>213437033
Ignore that freak, he is trying to ragebait you

>>213437155
Being an incel is the norm.
I'm 100% white.

>>213437317
Can you give me some more information about what your life is like? I really want to know more. Feel free to rant, I'll read it.

>>213437150
>having sex doesn't make you a normie anymore
If you have a job, have sex, have friends etc then you are by definition a fucking normie.

Like half of my social circle is sexless men, I can tell since I am one too. Maybe some of them got lucky when they were young.

>>213436832
>as evidenced by you posting on 4chan
pot calling kettle a negro?

>>213437464
I'm a normie.

>>213437350
yes, i only have sex and i have money. no job, no friends there for no normie.

>>213437340
>33yo
>permaneet living on sickpension for life
>no friends
>no family left
>live in 44sqm apartment in Gothenburg (picrel)
>go outside for my incel walk at night around 02:00
>even the immigrant gangs avoid me
>spend 75% of my (non sleeping) time in front of my pc, the rest reading fantasy and horror books and watching old movies
>always ANC headphones on so I don't have to listen to other people around me, be it neighbors or Ahmed outside having an overdose
Basically got told by the unemployment office when I was 18 that I had zero chance of a job. I lived on normal bux for 20+ years, applied for permabux when I turned 30 and got approved.
I make my own wine at home, I have around €7k in savings and the only thing I spend money on is food and pc parts when I need them except for random stuff, like the new 85" tv I just bought.
I pirate everything, I have a phone from 2016 that I just use for banking stuff and I have never left the Gothenburg area except for a cruise to Finland with my parents back in the early 2000's when they were still alive.
I don't hate women. Or more truthfully, I don't hate women any more than I hate men.
People in general is pain to be around.
4chan is my only social media and social contact.

>>213437582
>20+ years
10+ years. Fat fingered it.

>>213437536
I can tell. You are too retarded to answer a simple question.

>>213437582
What would you do if a right wing government came into power and cut the neetbux?

>>213437582
And here I was thinking I was super close to rock bottom.

>>213436793
...only if you're an exotic-looking foreigner or a rich westoid
if you're just a regular Slavic normie guy then you'd probably have it easier to convince a zealous Muslim woman to have sex with you than a slavette, they will use every possible argument to refuse sex to you and they will pretend they're moral and modest as nuns and believe only in sex after marriage

>>213437654
>What would you do if a right wing government came into power and cut the neetbux?
1. The right IS in power. The Moderate Party has been leading our country since the last election. Since then, my income has only increased.
2. My income is not actual neetbux. It's legal pension and completely separate from the bux system. For my income to be cut, all pension would need to be cut as well.

>>213436643 (OP)
You are cringe btw, the fuck do you want a gf so bad that you wish for arranged marriage? Disgusting.
>>213437582
Based schizoid NEET aristocrat. I was born in a third world country so NEETbux are not my fate.

>>213436643 (OP)
/int/ is not a hug box for failed normies
>>>/r9k/

>>213437582
I feel bad for lonely people, they deserve better. And there are quite a lot of them in this site which makes me wonder. Why do you avoid social interaction to such a degree? Is it severe social anxiety? Horrible experiences with people? Or something more nuanced?

>>213437582
sounds comfy
here is my life
>33 yo
>no friends
>live in 80 sqm apartment in the luxury part of istanbul
>go outside for my incel walk at 7-8 pm everyday
>no immigrant gangs
>spend 85% of my (non sleeping) time in front of my pc
>anc headphones make me sick so i walk around with regular headphones

>>213437582
>even the immigrant gangs avoid me

Lol. They probably recognize a guy with nothing to lose, better to steer clear he could snap. Pension is better than regular neetbux but you are kinda done after that. No one wants anything to do with you. So I've heard.

>>213437654
Not him but brother...
Sweden has been ruled by the retarded right since 2022.
Here's our Prime Minister. Moderate Part leader, ,Ulf Kristersson. The 169 cm tall dumbass who failed all his election promises and just gives more money to the rich. And his highly religious, preacher wife.

>>213437942
people are fake and disgusting. once you see it you can't just unsee it
i'm >>213437955 this guy btw

>>213437942
Before I die I will kill a greek normalfaggot. You collectively tried to bar me from life cause you need to know someone who knows someone for even the most menial shit slave job for sustainance.

>>213437942
>. Why do you avoid social interaction to such a degree?
I just don't like being around people. Too much talk, too much noise. I have been diagnosed with autism twice so that's probably why.

>>213437540
I would start fucking hot escorts instead since you are low inhib enough to have sex with tinder slampigs.

>>213437960
In Sweden there's two levels of "you're done".
First is working at Samhall. It's a company that only hires the absolute dregs of society, the last chance. If you can't work there, get fired etc then it's over. That is forever in your records no matter what.
The second level is the sick pension as you mentioned. Once you're on that, any other option is gone. With good reason since you can only get that pension once the government has declared you 110% incapable of working any sort of job for the rest of your life. No matter what.

>>213438073
all escorts are skanks imo at least on tinder there are regular girls

>>213438025
Άραξε ούτε εγώ έχω μέσο ή βύσμα. Τι μαλακία σου 'παιξαν;

>>213437582
Tsämm, some of us do live in completely different realities all at once.
In your position there is no future but the same mundane things that your brain has adapted to.

>>213438255
Literally just this. I was filtered as too autistic to be allowed to earn money to eat by the greek normalfaggot collective. Lucky for me that made go outside and now I laugh at everyone's income in this shithole.

>>213436643 (OP)
It's your personality mate. I've seen bumfuck ugly chaps get laid more, which just means you have a shit personality, you ain't thinking straight and you need to get your shit together mentally

The woman does the choosing, not you. All you can do is not be a woman beater, or a slob, have a good moral upstanding and be genuinely interested in her. You're possibly uglier than you think you are so match with someone around your same looks and overall status. If you have a hard time admitting that then stay a lone bastard til the end of your days

>>213438415
stfu boomer piece of trash personality means absolutely nothing in 2025 god i hope you die

>>213437582
sounds sort of comfy

>>213437582
Just like my older brother. He's 44 and has been on the retard pension since he was 31. Was on Soc welfare before that from the age of 18.
I see him like once a year and he never changes. Pretty sure he's worn the same hoodie for the last two decades.

Funny thing is, he's the only tard in a family of pretty successful normal people. Even I have a couple friends and a job.

>>213438415
>bongistani calling anyone ugly
lmao

>>213437582
What device do you listen to music on?

>>213438351
>Tsämm, some of us do live in completely different realities
Yeah. Normal life things just seems alien to me. I don't understand it at all.
>>213438541
He probably autistic like me. I also wear the same clothes and I hate change. My daily clothes are a set of sweats (hoodie and sweat pants) bought around 2017. I have a replacement set of the same outfit in the closet but I see no reason to wear them until my current ones are beyond saving.

>>213438459
>>213438563
I feel sorry for the hopes and dreams your mothers had for you when you were born. You have done this to yourselves. I can already smell your stench through the screen

And? the fuck do I care

>>213438648
The only sickpension enjoyer I know is a 60y.o. He has busted knees and joints and simply is unable to work. In your case it's just your brain and that's kinda nuts. to me.

>>213438635
>What device do you listen to music on?
I have a pair of Dynavoice Challenger M-85 speakers and a Dynavoice CSB-V15 15" subwoofer hooked up to a Yamaha RX-V4A receiver that is hooked up to my pc via HDMI. But like I said, I mostly use headphones these days because of active noise canceling.
Maybe once or twice per week I will listen to music on the actual speakers, mostly because neighbors are having a party or something when I try to sleep and I got a lot more audio power than they do.

My headphones are wireless and connected to my main PC with bluetooth. A pair of Sony WH-CH720N.

>>213438676
kek you are absolutely mad arent you?
>>213438541
Imagine waking up to a schedule and calling someone who wakes up whenever they want less successful than you. Normalfaggots are complete niggercattle lol. I really consider you an inferior species.

>>213438882
Thanks for answering

>>213438989
No problem.

>>213437582
>I had zero chance of a job
why?
also, since you have nothing to lose anyways, can you upload a picture of you?

>>213439220
>why?
No education, no contacts, no motivation, autism, socially retarded. Basically the holy mix of "nobody will hire you".
>also, since you have nothing to lose anyways, can you upload a picture of you?
No. The Swedish general would doxx me in 15 minutes flat. I do not need them harassing me, they are all mega-schizos.

>>213439339
how many times you fap a day? is the material illegal?
your parents didnt try to find you anything when they were alive? are you this clearly inept?
this samhall place you mentioned is probably a dream. so many autistic virgin blonde girls who cant get a man because they are too shy... i think you are missing out. you can still make something if you want

>>213437582
Your situation is eerily similar to mine, though I have not yet been declared unable to work even though I've never worked a day in my life. I just got out of mental hospital and am supposed to go there again and if things work out well I'm supposed to get job training for IT or something. Tough I don't think that'll work out since I expect to die from unrelated illness within the next couple years which I guess would be a net benefit to society

>>213438415
>It's your personality mate. I've seen bumfuck ugly chaps get laid more, which just means you have a shit personality, you ain't thinking straight and you need to get your shit together mentally
THIS.
I was a fat baby-faced guy a few years ago.... with a job.
Girls didn't notice me as much until they went near me and picked up my vibe. Suddenly many of them were DTF, in different settings, be it job or social circle. It was a shit job but I felt fucking amazing, like I had a new lease on life, and it showed.
Now I'm a NEET loser with a beard and some muscle. Some girls now look at me from a distance, some wait for me to approach them in social settings, but as soon as they are close attraction is gone. Total opposite. They can smell how well put your shit is.
Sad retards ITT don't even realize the scale of how "personality" matters. You are insecure, don't know what you want, can't take charge, have no frame or integrity, and it shows to people who are hard-wired to recognize these signs and have their horniness meter deeply attuned to it.

>>213439568
>how many times you fap a day?
Like three times a week.
>is the material illegal?
I don't watch anything. I just jerk off in the shower when I need to.That was legal last time I checked.
>your parents didnt try to find you anything when they were alive?
My dad died of a heart attack and mom drank herself into a stroke before I turned 16. I don't know what they thought of me. Doubt they cared anyway.
>are you this clearly inept?
I don't know what this question is about. Am I dumb? Probably.

>>213439735
>I don't know what this question is about.
are you this obviously sick in the head?
honestly this makes me sad. im not that much of a loser and im trying to be a self improver but it doesnt matter how much i try i will 100% end up inferior to your quality of life simply because i live in brazil and you live in sweden kek

>>213438905
>Normalfaggots are complete niggercattle lol. I really consider you an inferior species.
You sound mad bro

>>213439861
>are you this obviously sick in the head?
Government thinks so.
I don't feel sick. I feel like myself.

>>213439936
Yea kinda. Why are you wasting oxygen with your inferior existence? You should all be told that you will get your normalfaggot brownie points if you jump off a cliff and make the world heal from your subhumanity.

>>213439861
>Macaco on his high horse because he can get a job collecting bananas
kek

>>213439861
that's fucking bullshit and you know it, despite the pseudo-caste system
t. have both friends from brazil and expats to sweden

>>213439996
Average normie
>buys useless shit everyday
>buys cars and drives
>travels and is a direct cause of pollution and environmental destruction
>orders food, causing even more pollution
>needs new clothes all the time, wasting resources
>is part of the main problem
>etc etc
The average perma-NEET
>never leaves their neet dungeon
>doesn't drive
>doesn't travel
>eats the same frozen junk from the grocery store day in, day out
>wears the same clothes everyday
>basically doesn't exist, causes no problems

Hmmm. I work and I would be considered a normie but even I can tell that the tards who aren't even part of our society causes way less harm to the world than we do.
I probably spend more resources before lunch in a single day than the NEET does in a year.

>>213440264
how is this bullshit? working doesnt get you anywhere in brazil because the only people who are promoted are relatives from the managers/directors. it legit does not matter if you try or not because they will only give you enough money to not die

>>213440850
> they will only give you enough money to not die
That's amazing, it means you can have one worry less and focus on things that make you happy

>>213437942
>Why do you avoid social interaction
I never tried to, except right now, but I was always extremely bad at it, and just shy, anxious and incompetent, and people either hated me, didn't bother or gave up

>>213441954
how can i focus on the things that make me happy if half of my day is working and this will always be true because i cant afford retirement? are you slow?

>>213437988
Why is his height relevant?

>>213437955
>>live in 80 sqm apartment in the luxury part of istanbul
Inherited? How do you afford to neet?