>>213539605 (OP)
date but don't have any sex for minimum 6 months from the point you're officially "dating", any woman that has a problem with this is someone you shouldn't be in a relationship with anyway, and you should also "date" as many different women as you can in this six month period, but have sex with none of them, and during this 6 month period, start filtering the girls you're seeing out based on which ones you like the most or like you the most, and as your focus narrows on your favorite/best option, before you have sex with her, decide if you want to be married to her, and if not, dump her before sex and rinse and repeat until you find someone you want to marry/wants to marry you, then marry and have sex
this is the single greatest strategy for finding the best option possible, set a date at which you wanna make a decision, date multiple women in that time, and when the date comes, pull the trigger OR start again