Thread 213554055

>29 yr
>multi-yr relationship with /int/ girl on student visa
>currently wants to renew her visa
>realizing that she may not be able to
>apparently people on student visas are expected to leave the US after their degree (of course a lot just apply for H1B)
>contemplating leaving the US all together
>She finishes her degree in 4 years

We talked (a lot) about marriage. She was my first relationship because I am a loser who lost his virginity at 27. Now I am very noticeably balding with a girl that is perenially miserable and we live together because I desperately wanted to move out but I am also cheap. We barely just hang around and have fun. I really love her but I am feeling rough. I haven't spoken to her in the last two hours.

I'm so lost. I came to the wrong place.

youll hate yourself forever if you lose her. don’t let yourself be caught up by anything else. log off and do everything you can to save your relationship or you’ll lick yourself for it forever, like me. i miss her so much

>>213554055 (OP)
>I came to the wrong place
Yeah. Because I fucking hate women dude

Also was she a virgin too? If not, drop the roastie

>>213554055 (OP)
She is taking BBC behind your back btw
Black embryo in her womb as we speak

>>213554055 (OP)
How did you even know a girl through /int/?

>>213554055 (OP)
where is she from bud your situation seems bleak

>>213554107
East euro

>>213554084
This hit me in the gut

>>213554320
>East euro

>>213554055 (OP)
can't you marry her so she gets the citizenship or some shit?

>>213554389
>>213554350

>>213554096
This

>>213554413
She isn't from the former Soviet union, if that makes it better

>>213554055 (OP)
>Have I fucked up
>Lists reasons how he is miserable
Yeah, you did. You are pathetic.

>>213554458
poland?

>>213554461
Outside of school and video games, I don't know what i drew happiness from day to day until I was in a relationship. Maybe I've forgotten. Work is hit or miss depending on the week. Sometimes I derive a fulfillment, but now everything feels like a cope. Like I should just be a NEET but in actuality that sounds horrific. I don't get where the years went.

>>213554479
Even better, Balkan

>>213554513
bruh your only 29 and you act like you are 80 years old

>>213554530
grim. mexico of europe, i dont envy you anymore

>She finishes her degree in 4 years
why the fuck are you worrying about this now? save is for the "4 years from now" version of you.

>>213554554
Some of the only decent women I've ever met were from Poland and Latvia.

>>213554513
You have a girlfriend, someone to talk to and yet you are on the internet forums trying to get god knows what. We aren't your friends and we are happy to see you being a looser.

>>213554890
>You have a girlfriend
>someone to talk to
Not on a serious matter
>we are happy to see you being a looser
Talk for yourself faggot

>>213554530
>Even better
>Balkan

>>213554055 (OP)
>with /int/ girl
you met a girl?
on /int/?

>>213554677
>Some of the only decent women I've ever met were from Poland and Latvia.
You mean the only women that would give your ugly ass attention because of your passport

>>213554055 (OP)
nigga, just move somewhere cheaper. I don't see the problem if you are not a shithead only loving money

What's stopping you from hiding her in your house?

>>213554984
got his ass

>>213554055 (OP)
>"Did I Ruin My Life"
>it's some relationship shit
kys fragile fag, no one cares

>>213554055 (OP)
If you both work together towards a better life where you're both happy it's worth a shot. What's the other option, she goes home and is miserable you stay there miserable?

>>213554096
based and tsmt

>>213554055 (OP)
normie pos with your gf problems, fuck off

>>213554928
Lol, imagine being actual faggot

>>213554984
These were exchange students visiting, and a small sample size of adventurous girls at that, so I don't believe that all women there are great. Are they actually bad?
Generally I've found that American, Canadian, and Western European women have a vibe that you'd imagine in a female aristocrat of old, much more self-assured than their quality warrants. They're argumentative for no reason. It's off-putting and, frankly, gross.

Good idea about passport broing though. I actually have been seriously considering it. It's strange to me that the connotation is that it's reflective of the low quality of the male when we pretty much all know that our women are kind of nasty. Couldn't it be that people are going there seeking eager and kind partners?