>>213652588
That's what I realised recently.
I could approach gals and get numbers in a bar (did that several times), but still without some convenient scenario providing additional context binding us together that would be fruitless, we'd still be complete strangers.
The whole cold approach idea is complete rubbish and you really need to be extremely desperate to approach tens of women in order to actually score some.
Though sometimes of course you see some magnificent woman and start to wonder what could've been, but there's actually zero chance you could get to know her without some pre-text, we don't live in a film.