Thread 213663167

How do u plan to cope when your parents die in the future?

they died when i was in my early 20s, now in my late 20s. I am completely numb and alone since I have no one

My mother constantly complained about having to take care of her parents and that they are basically ruining her retirement because she has to be there for them and can't go on vacations etc.
When my grandma was still alive my mother also frequently said stuff like "Someday I'll shoot her" or "If I ever become like that shoot me" when grandma rang the bell because she needed something.

My father was a serial adulterer who broke our family when I was 12 to get with his favorite mistress and we had to sell our house and live in a shitty apartment afterwards.
He also was an aggressive authoritarian asshole father before that.

So yeah I think my sympathy for them will be kind of limited and I shall not shed a single tear

>>213663321
was his mistress polish?

>>213663338
Ossi actually

>>213663278
>>213663321
the west has fallen

>>213663347
brutal, your mom must've been seething at being replaced by a lower class Ossi scum

>>213663167 (OP)
There was a time when I told myself I'd end it all when they both die, for I made them my "purpose" - the divine light that shines upon me, what drives me
Then my dad died

I realize now death is inevitable, and to end mine own for the sake of it is idiotic at worst, pitiful at best

My mom has a few years left to her, and like the Germanon, she claims that she'd like to "die young" so she won't be a bother to us kids
We'll see

Don't you have an inheritance or something?

>>213663167 (OP)
I'm afraid my mother will die. But I don't care about my father.

>>213663167 (OP)
I'll miss mom and be sad I guess.
Other than that, there's not much to cope with.