>>213673570 (OP)
This only works if you're attractive
But I don't care, desire and love is illogical so you shouldn't even be looking at it through a logical/pragmatic lens
i was shooting loads into her as she rolled her eyes and grunted within a month but i still had to approach
sexual aggression is variable, but mainly present in men and thus expected of them
>>213673785
Nope, lust is logical >you're hot >she's hot >you guys fuck
settle
With love, you can find every kind of combo and pairing >ugly guy x ugly girl >hot guy x ugly girl >ugly guy x hot girl >hot guy x hot girl
There may be deeper factors that influence it (always have) but at the end of the day, if you like 'em, you like 'em - no one's forcing you to like 'em
All the girls I was with or just had sex with approached me including current gf I've been 10 years with.
I used to be a 8/10 and had around 20 girls approach me between 16 to 30yo.
Now I'm 35 and an easy 9/10 and even if I get some looks and know I could get most girls easily, I didn't get approached once the last 5 years. Not sure if it's an age thing or cultural shift.
If you're not attractive you can get a gf easily but you'll have to do the work.
>>213675873 >There's no need to humiliate yourself by approaching
humiliate yourself nonetheless, that's how you build a thicker skin and that's how you filter who actually wants you for you and who wants you based on looks alone
>>213673570 (OP)
Women will either approach you or they will give you signs that you're allowed to approach them. Cold approach will result in you being socially ostracised and metoo'd.
>>213673682
when I visited my grandparents in sicily lots of women approached me
they were all scammers though, the one I fucked stole my credit card and had taken out $50,000 and cancelled my return flight. The police didn't even arrest her, we knew who she was because there's only like 1 atm on the whole island
>>213675971
yes, and I'm still here, and I'm still chasing trannies BAHAHAHAHA
who gives a shit, we didn't vibe and nothing came out of it - just move on
Besides, it wasn't just the rejection itself, it was how I "flirted"
My autism is just too pure, too bright for anons - and /int/ is normie-central so it's a given that you guys have never seen pure grade autism
>>213676051
idk when I did missionary work in india people there seemed normal. Other christians I mean, since the church more or less requires women to start pumping out children by 20
>>213673570 (OP)
kinda not on the street but in a bar or a party a girls initate talking with me, but im very cute, just autistic
few times they asked if they can take a picture of me and i sad yes and walked away or said no and walked away
>>213676111
Dude, you fucking travelled to India as a missionary. You realize if you think that someone is 'normal' it means they are batshit insane, right?
>>213676170
Pope Leo wants you to help others and it was a free summer trip where I helped clean septic tanks. This gave me a solid reference for my next job as a plumber. God wants you to help others. India has a lot of poverty, most Indians live in complete poverty, and it's your duty as a christian to help them at least once in your life.
>>213675920 >that's how you build a thicker skin
I don't believe that in the slightest, but I also don't think it's entirely about being afraid of rejection, but more so about why even bother trying when you already know that they're most likely gonna say no? Pattern recognition is a hard thing to shake off and let's be honest, getting rejected hurts and you can try to cope and say "man up", but that doesn't really do anything.
>>213674093
Girls have approached me quite a few times but it made me feel uncomfortable if anything since I don't know what to say and if I say something awkward I will think about it for the rest of my life
>>213676312 >most likely gonna say no
I'm a gambling man, anon - 10% chance of acceptance is still better to me compared to n% of not knowing how she'll respond >"man up"
You guys think too much about it, I get why girls mostly go for low-inhib retards, because they don't think, they ACT, they DO
>>213676630 >You guys think too much about it, I get why girls mostly go for low-inhib retards, because they don't think, they ACT, they DO
No, they go for men they find attractive regardless of their inhibitions. Constantly retrying without learning from your mistake is indian behavior, but I do agree that being hung up on a negative isn't healthy.
>>213676776 >they go for men they find attractive
And attractiveness is subjective - I genuinely believe there's someone for everyone, anon >regardless of their inhibitions
And I agree, but I feel like we're getting off track here - are we talking about women as a life partner or just in general used-up whore kinda way?
>>213676898 >75% of women have low confidence
I don't believe that, it seems a lot of women tend to an ego and believe that they're deserving of someone higher than their looksmatch
>>213677074
Hi >>213677139
Both are. Women will give you signs if they're interested in you, but most expect men to approach them. If you don't then the assumption is you aren't interested