>>213822370 (OP)when lust (testosteron+dopamine) mixes with friendship and intimacy(oxitocin) it is a very potent feel that modern humans have called 'love'
the word is tainted, since real love is not related to sexuality; please do not get confused
true love comes from understanding and compassion, does not involve oxitocyn
oxytocin is a chemical that makes you wanna cuddle/protect googly eyed dogs and offspring; it is the biological mechanism of steering your free will(demiurge), just like lust makes you trust your peenor in another human
you must coom on your hand until no feelings are left, and purge yourself from delusion; only after the lust is gone you can really know whether or not you love this person