Thread 213902146

I have never been on a date imc

Have you been on dates iyc? How did they go?

>>213902146 (OP)
i dont pay escorts for more than ~90 minutes of their time

>>213902146 (OP)
went on one date in my entire life. she ignored me the entire time and we went home after 20 minutes. this was like 15 years ago and it still keeps me up at night

>>213902587
>she ignored me the entire time
Was she just on her phone or something?

>>213902673
pretty much yeah, granted once i realised that she's not interested i stopped trying to make conversation

>>213902587
>this was like 15 years ago and it still keeps me up at night
Why do you still care? I've stopped caring about the failings and embarassments that happened one day ago. At some point you should get desensitized, it's for the better for people like us

good, always like to play along then get drunk then get bit serious on her

>>213903985
you dont get desensitized to things that only happened once in your life though

I stopped bothering with dates a couple of years ago. I have yet to meet a woman who was engaging and interesting enough for me to think, "This was worth my time and money." If you can tee it up, a casual fling is generally better. The last two women I was fucking were easier to get along with. The first one didn't even learn my name until after I came in her, the second one and I never really learned each other's names at all. If I met a woman I actually liked, I'd change my opinion immediately. But unless your numbers come in and you happen to meet the right one, dating is a waste of resources.

>>213902146 (OP)
>Have you been on dates iyc?
haha

>>213904106
You get desensitized to the general feeling of failure and embarassment. These episodes usually come in life in unique and unforeseeable ways but you just stop caring

>>213903985
>>213904294
it's impossible to get desensitized to the crushing feeling of failure and disappointment when you fail at something everyone else can do yet again

it's possible to get used to failing in a particular way but whenever you fail something new it stings.

>>213904339
>when you fail at something everyone else can do yet again
If you didn't understand yet that you're not like the others and shouldn't hold yourself to the normal standards you're ngmi. This is not self pity, it's just aknowledging a reality and working the best way you can.

Of course you feel bad once the new failing happens but you forget about it in 4 hours

>>213902146 (OP)
idk

>>213902146 (OP)
Went to a convention with my gf on our first real date. Went well, moved in together a couple months later.