Why are many Afroamericans deadbeats, without sounding too racist?
I saw today on my feed a really cute redhead American kindergarten white teacher with glasses, that look like your next door girl, homely, comfy girl and her daughters were mixed, zero pics of the father and her or him and the kids. Which inevitably means... And it was sad and infuriated me (obviously not for you cause you're heartless counts but still) being a kid with no father around...
Then I think about it. In Sub-Saharan culture, your mother is literally put on pedestal like a deity, and divorce is highly taboo. Your entire family, plus the family of the girl you've impregnated would put a curse on your life, and even in some cases, you are disowned by your entire family, father, mother, siblings, aunts, uncles. Everyone. You are deleted from the family if you do this. I also fear the fact my dad, who raised me the European way, but disciplined me the African way, which means whippings, beatings on every fuck ups I did younger... He would kill me, literally murder me if he learned I impregnated a girl and run away, I'm not kidding. And still fearful about this thought to this day.
So why in USA, they get away with this? This baffles me as a diaspora, cause this is something I could never imagine or do. Even here in Europe, instead of being deadbeat, it's the opposite, they pump as many kids to leech of the state's helps.
Then I think about it. In Sub-Saharan culture, your mother is literally put on pedestal like a deity, and divorce is highly taboo. Your entire family, plus the family of the girl you've impregnated would put a curse on your life, and even in some cases, you are disowned by your entire family, father, mother, siblings, aunts, uncles. Everyone. You are deleted from the family if you do this. I also fear the fact my dad, who raised me the European way, but disciplined me the African way, which means whippings, beatings on every fuck ups I did younger... He would kill me, literally murder me if he learned I impregnated a girl and run away, I'm not kidding. And still fearful about this thought to this day.
So why in USA, they get away with this? This baffles me as a diaspora, cause this is something I could never imagine or do. Even here in Europe, instead of being deadbeat, it's the opposite, they pump as many kids to leech of the state's helps.