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it's utterly embarrassing it's taken me this long to work it out/admit it (35 years old) but men in general have no idea what is attractive to women yes the <10% of chads are obviously attractive to all women
but it seems there are plenty of "eligible" women who are just insane
and they actually want men who are stand offish, difficult, selfish, rude (within reason), demanding, obnoxious and so on