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On an instinctual level it's just about whether or not they'd let a man make them pregnant. Women are basically just gatekeeping their vagina their entire life, and if they wouldn't let a man knock them up, then that man just fundamentally disgusts them. That whole thing about incels being bad because they hate women is bs. A guy who beats women doesn't exactly respect or like women either, but they're handsome, rich or then being violent just makes the girl feel safe on some weird Grug caveman level, so they're still better partners in their mind
I've also seen some weird stuff that women intentionally try to start fights, because if the guy gets angry, it means that he cares or some retarded shit like that. If you don't get mad then you're too boring, same if you agree with them too much, then you're a doormat and not desirable anymore. You always need to seem like you can do better than her, which will make her desire you more in some autistic way. Like you need to keep her thinking that you're the best she can get, otherwise she feels like she's settling for less and starts looking for a higher value man. But this goes back to the gatekeeping and them treating their vagina like currency