Thread 214573727

No

>>214573727 (OP)
>no gf
>awful at using apps because I never know what to say and cant have a conversation worth shit
no, I don't

>>214573727 (OP)
Dates are a waste of money.

No, i get blackout drunk and wake up to my next girlfriend for the next three years.

>>214573727 (OP)
I match with hot girls on Tinder and then masturbate to the thought of them sucking my dick instead of talking to them.

>>214574162
ktim
i would ruin it if i opened my mouth

yes, i just had coffee with a girl i am trying to date. we just hooked up on thursday. she tried to end the relationship but i managed to convince her to continue seeing me.

>>214574162
king

>>214574266
>tftp
the inevitable rape is easy to predict

>>214574266
do you know any nigerians who moved to poopland for work? i swear i see nigerians all the time here

>>214574604
i would never do that. i really like her.

>>214574654
nigerians will go anywhere for work. no one is loyal to the country because it's artificial and the government hates the average nigerian. if a nigerian is successful here it's because he knows someone in the government or bribes enough people to leave him alone.

>>214574710
>>214574266
Is this true

>>214574736
yes, but for here it's usually because she is having your kids. you wouldn't do that for a girl just for sex. a man will often buy her an apartment and give her money to take care of the kids while he works abroad.

>>214574736
This is true everywhere on earth, in the west it just doesn't take the blunt form of an "allowance"

No, women don't like me
And I don't like them because they don't like me

>>214573727 (OP)
No, I'm an incel and I literally cannot see myself sitting across from a female. I genuinely don't know how normalfags do it. The whole concept of dating feels like some strange everchanging game that serves no benefit at all.

>>214575212
i think it must be really nice actually to be liked and loved. however i'm so socially retarded i would never know what to do in these situations

>>214575583
Same. It's more that dating is such an alien concept to me and the fact that I cannot see myself in a situation where I talk to a female and she finds me attractive. I can't even think of where to meet a potential girlfriend in the first place and dating apps seem very cringe and encourage narcissistic behaviour. I don't get how such an unnatural thing became the number one way of meeting your potential partner in todays age.

>>214573727 (OP)
Im currently dating Thai girl in my country. It's very nice, I really like her.

No, I am very much voluntarily alone.

>>214573727 (OP)
I can't talk to people. I just don't have anything going on in my life.
Every time I say something I instantly regret it.

>>214576969
Also I really despise relationships and no one would want to have a sex-only date with me, and to be honest I don't blame them.

not right now. they feel like job interviews. i've been to numerous and every time the woman doesn't want to see another time.

>>214573727 (OP)
sometimes.

>>214574162
I've done this to hooker websites knowing that I "could" fuck them if I went the extra step

>>214573942
lmao

>>214577349
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7rK6i4ngspU

>>214573942
Was he an Indian?

Today I realised that my first gf was literally the only genuinely nice woman I've ever known huh

>>214573942
>Emily
Lmao retard

>>214573727 (OP)
Why are women so stupid? Why can't they just be like a normal human being?

>>214577509
Else they would be men

>>214573727 (OP)
can i still get a girlfriend if i refuse to use text or social media?

>>214577444
What is this?

>>214577637
What does it link to? I'm suspicious to open it

>>214577602
yes (amish)

>>214573727 (OP)
3 weeks ago
>ghosted bc too raycis
2 weeks ago
>got groped
Idk how people can do this all the time

>>214579121
in what situation did you get groped

>>214577705
It's an old channel of an ugly autistic girl talking about random things, the videos in that channel have like 10 views.

>>214579176
We were outside my apartment and he asked me for a kiss.
He then groped me
We had only seen each other twice

>>214579402
>He

>>214579425
Yes?

>>214573727 (OP)
You're a beta bitch

no
my friends dont bring me around any women and we only hang out with other guys and i get ghosted after meeting women on dating apps

>>214573727 (OP)
i ask my parents for an arranged marriage, but all Greek women i get recommended are used up whores or mid 20s.

>>214579789
You're a greek on Germany
Beggars can't be chosers

>>214579821
that makes me more valuable than other Greeks you macaco

>>214577379
Same.

>>214573727 (OP)
Not like anglos. The funnel is "meet as a group" > "meet 1-1" > "meet 1-1 again + kiss", if you kiss at the second date you're now exclusive. But don't worry, you can break up after a month or so if things don't feel good. The funnel is selective - no one agrees to a first and definitely not a second, meet if there is no spark. This trips up Americans who are used to their 75 "are we a couple yet tee-hee" dance where you can also meet or even fuck others unless you have had "the talk" and "the decision".

>>214573727 (OP)
Have never

t. 26 KHHVcel

>>214580693
same. in almost 2 months i will also be 26

>>214579402
tftp

>>214581405
???

>>214581805
T'es un pédé.

>>214574802
If no kids you could also do it because she's marrying you into a better country, she should be compensated for that (and her beauty of course)

>>214577705
0:30

>>214575212
Its benefit is tied in the fact that it's ever-changing. The goal of the courtship process is for the female to pick and choose which males she wants and that requires the males to both showcase physical attractiveness, capacity to provide ($$$), social status and power because women want to have higher social status by association with a powerful/influential male or at the very least not lose social status (extremely important for foids) from associating with a lowly omega male.

Back to the ever-changing part, if the courtship process is very complicated and filled with social pitfalls it makes sure that the only men who get through are good at navigating/exploiting social systems and know which rules to break and when (if you don't break any you're a pussy beta and she doesn't want that), and if you have those traits then you also probably have a high social status which, again, they're obsessed with. The intentional vagueness around what's okay or not in the courtship ritual also serves a double purpose of giving all females plausible deniability to say "Oh i didn't know you were trying to date me!!! I wasn't leading you on for resources i was just being nice!!!!" if they decide that a male they were considering isn't quite good enough to pass her tests without getting the male in question mad at her because she rejected him.


Tldr: The complexity is a test and if you're an autist you'll probably fail unless you're hot enough then it doesn't matter and she'll fuck you anyways.

>>214575212
It's a game of taking risks

>>214573727 (OP)
Can't do it. Just way too gay. I'm not a teenager anymore, can't, as a grown ass man, see myself asking a girl "will you be my gf?". Won't sit around pretending to talk about nonsense with a total stranger either, even more gay. That's why I date/fuck girls that are introduced to me by friends or family or coworkers looking for a good man for a single female they know.

>>214584711
This answer fails to explain anything and only leaves one more confused than before. Why is it that normgroids can never understand autists? Your bullshit answer seems to assume that he already knows the answer but he doesn't that's the entire point of the question

>>214584884
How is it bullshit? His answer is "nobody really knows whether a girl is comfortable or not in all scenarios no matter what therefore an important aspect of not being a complete fucking virgin is to still go towards women even if you end up creating a bad situation because you're not a fucking psychist and unless you try to interact with a female you will remain a lonely virgin".

>>214584973
He could've just written that instead of "It's all a game bro *huffs bong*". But this is a very practical reply and miles better and clearer than that of the Mexicanon. I feel like the Sven was asking for a macroanalysis of why women (the ones who set up the dating marketplace and control its rules) always set their system up with this much intentional vagueness

>>214585287
He's retarded and probably doesn't even know it himself because what I described is something normalfaggots instinctively know just like they learned to drive or to write by instinct instead of breaking down the components of the skills to master those and dating/fucking girls is the same they don't think about it but they enact what I described so basically I think that you're fucked and the best thing you can do is neurochemically alter yourself by increasing significantly your testosterone levels.

But, as a former autist who managed to bring myself to successful normalfag status by myself, here's what I can say that I wanted to hear when I was still a clueless autist:
>sometimes you can just let them speak and ask questions like an autist because normalfags love talking about themselves (just don't abuse it)
>there's zero need to be vague or faking some "i don't even really want to date you haha" shit unto women - when you do that you just confuse both her and yourself
>you can use the most plain simple language ever and be very direct with your desires and still be successful dating because a lot of normalfags act like NPCs (don't overdo it or you'll be odd)
>none of these people think rationally and know what the fuck is going on in their lives and you'll notice the few that do immediatly so never take what they say or do too seriously
>the vagueness is a defense mechanism for their "honor" - they don't want to downgrade and humiliate themselves by saying "i need someone! please come to me!" but they also know that if they ghost/block any attempt by anyone ever they'll end up single forever as well
>yes it's unfair that's how dating is and a lot of normalfags hate it themselves
>sometimes to win (all aspects of life - dating included) all you have to do is be consistently present and be willing to retry (don't give up on girls after one particularly annoying normalfag woman was a bitch - the next can just randomly like you with exact circumstances)

>>214573727 (OP)
>Do you go on dates in your country?
No because god punish me as the only incel in my country so there is not hope for me anymore though...

>>214573942
>ahmed from pakistan in the UK
Grim

You guys do know that if you play your cards right, you can invite them to your house on a first date and fuck them, right?