>>214618066 (OP)
I'm not a virgin, and it is probably among the best feelings you could possibly have to cum inside someone that you love and care about, but it doesn't do shit for yourself, after those 5-6 seconds, you are back, and you are still fucked, and all yours problems are still there. And guess what? If you keep doing that, you will end up having to raise a child. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that you shouldn't have kids, or try to find someone, however don't expect any kind of out of ordinary results out of it. And truth is, even with things that will actually work and do you good, don't expect a lot out of a single things, it is a sum of a lot of different things that makes things work out.