Thread 214815829

How do you meet single women in your mid 20s without the use of dating apps in your country

social circle. have friends who have female friends or other such acquaintances

>>214815829 (OP)
work,uni,friends

>>214815829 (OP)
They find you. Literally.

>>214815829 (OP)
You don't

>>214815907
only in romania

for the last decade literally everyone here got together using instagram
not tinder, not school or social circle or whatever the fuck, just fucking instagram

>>214815829 (OP)
Ask your sister. She will either be excited because she can great you like somebody from a dating show or just say no.

>>214815829 (OP)
>>214815888
I used to find stuff like this cute but now I just look at it and think "she's probably either super boring or super annoying"

>>214815829 (OP)
Is she Russian lol

>>214816077
Yes!

>>214816029
My thoughts go not to the woman but to how that black semistretch fabric is based

>>214816216
Name sar?
R u the anti zigger romanian

>>214816296
Her name is Jia Lisa.

>>214816077
jungle russian

>>214815829 (OP)
I don't know but dating in your mid 30s is a nightmare. They're usually less attractive but have the nerve to be pickier unless they're single mothers.

>>214815829 (OP)
be a drug dealer

>>214816973
i like milfs they are super fun and need love and affection baddly mostly single mothers... they love to cuddle after sex. very sweet and it feels good. and they dont give a fuck that much

>>214817245
where do you hook up with them?

>>214815829 (OP)
I don't

>>214816029
I look at this and think that she's probably attention whore otherwise she wouldn't post herself doing stupid shit like that

>>214815829 (OP)
Cafés, wine bars, bookshops, the library.

I refuse to ever date anyone in my extended social circle, so I just talk to whoever catches my eye and reciprocates the interest.

If you're in a city it's actually incredibly easy to meet early 20s chicks.

>>214815829 (OP)
pubs, clubs, nightclubs and festivals.
>single
meh, taken girls are easier. seriously.

>>214816029
More like obsessed with external validation. A boyfriend for a girl like that is more like a piece of decoration.

>>214815829 (OP)
I don't. I get it when you find someone at work, school, uni, hobbies, etc.
But how the hell do people meet outside of that? You what, just come to someone and tell them.. what is there even to say to a random person? I can't even comprehend such a thing. If a girl walks to me and starts a conversation (never happened) I would be weirded out, confused and paranoid.

>>214816973
I'm early 30s and only date zoomettes. If you stay in shape and are interesting it's very doable.

I find women on the train/bus and follow them home
Once I know where they live I research them and come back later to seduce them at their home
10% of the time it works 20% of the time

>>214815888
these clothes must cost bigly

>>214815829 (OP)
In my country - no way. The vast majority of girls over 20 do not use such apps. And the vast majority of girls over 20 are scammers or fakes.
All these dating apps are only aimed at taking money from poor lonely men

>>214819630
nah SEA/zhangs make clothes for almost nothing these days. even the top 'expensive' clothe brands are made for pennies in the same places cheap shit's made

>>214818546
could be work if u have them around, but i guess it depents how u are confident and they gonna feel it.
im pretty much little above average maybe, skinny with blue eyes and tall. i was buying cigs at gas station and she just came to me.. we exchange few words and i went to her house.. she had a car so i was drinking.
it was thats easy. i know its a porn tier writing but this is it. u can do it also just be lucky maybe i dont know haha.
they all want to fuckk

>>214819780
and dont be fucking ugly, decent is enough.
harsh truth

>>214819558
alcohol exist for a reason.
same with places where people of both genders gather to enjoy alcohol.
im just like you but rarely left a pub without having atleast made out with a girl or gotten a phone number, (i never called them...) or once a month ish i took home a girl to fuck.

>>214819780
when we came to her house. it was just normal friendl ytalk about this and that. but she was coming to me mid sentence and just touching my shoulders, u know little touch

>>214819816
>dont be fucking ugly


>>214819856
I don't drink.

>>214815829 (OP)
language courses, hobby clubs and trains

>>214819948
if u are super ugly just fuck whores
who u are? anons thinks about them self lower than they are, its all in the head maybe u are like me, just a simple slav guy, we look young always and milfs loves this

>>214819937
she was in her everyday adidas sweat pants, just casual. and out of no where she said i can be pretty also

>>214820037
>just a simple slav guy, we look young always

>>214820078
2 minuts later i saw her pushing lingerie on her thights, black stockings.i saw here little ass when she was doing it, little peak and i was rock hard ath this moment. i think it was even harder when ii saw here naked later
i just like nice dressed woman i guess

>>214815829 (OP)
that's a man. it's well tucked, but it's a man.

>>214820037
>who u are?
30yo NEET of 6 years, not ugly, but it doesn't matter, my social skills are of a special needs kid, it makes me ugly by default. It just boggles my mind that people can walk up to a random person and strike a conversation. Even at work or uni you can discuss mutual hardships with your covorkers/students. What is there to talk about outside of that? I cringe at the thought of speaking about something random.

>>214815829 (OP)
I went to some events at and near a local university, like open microphone night at a coffee shop, film screenings with audience discussion, etc. I got some attention right away just by reading some of my shitty poetry and doing a dramatic reading of actual poetry by professionals.

>>214819948
start drinking then

>>214815829 (OP)
>>214815888
>>214816420
>>214819726
whoa... random mid girls...

>>214820230
i did drugs since i was 16, it fucked my head
it helps with with your Anxiety if u wanna try
and now im closer to 40 than 30. was it worth it?
im siting here alone drunk as fuck and i still want to love someone.
we are not so diffrent
if u just wanna fuck, go for whores pay them and u will be happy. its easy and dont worry. everyones do it

>>214820246
Feeling intoxicated cause feeling despair, so I stopped.

>>214820230
>What is there to talk about outside of that?
u just do smol talk, u know what it is?
just let her talk and answer? its a simple skill
u need to learn it