Thread 215055228

How many of your friends have passed away and why?
>2
>one got a stroke while bathing in college hostel and the other sui'd

>>215055228 (OP)
No friends, so 0.

>>215055245
why? didnt u study in school or college

>>215055228 (OP)
I didn't hear about any people my age dying, but 3 childhood friends lost their father

A girl I had a crush on in college died in a car accident but that's it, fortunately.

One guy killed himself at age 20. No note, no anything so we don't know his stated reasons but he had a pretty rough life

>mother committed suicide when he was still a baby
>dad was absent
>later turned out he was conceived using donor sperm
>the donor was an infamous fertility doctor who had over 100 children conceived with his sperm
>grew up with his grandparents who were both dead before he was 17

Throughout life he seemed resilient though. He was a succesful entrepreneur, had a gf, but apparently still depressed.

>>215055228 (OP)
i dont have friends

>>215055352
he was probably sick and tired of life even after he found some stability rip

None

>>215055228 (OP)
Haven't lost a friend yet. Came close when one tried to off himself but all he got in the end was a sick eyepatch, and a new view on life.

>>215055228 (OP)
>How many of your friends
None

>>215055282
a lot of my freinds parents died too and theyre very depressed
>>215055352
>the donor was an infamous fertility doctor
classic dutch
>He was a succesful entrepreneur,
i feel like a lot of things we do in life are trying to make someone else proud but if that person doesnt exist life seems pointless
>>215055403 >>215055265
>>215055434
how are italians so healthy?

Zero

>>215055228 (OP)
I don't know. I haven't kept up with any of them

>>215055536
the ones I know aren't depressed, we didn't keep in touch but I know they are doing well, better than I'll ever do
if anyone hears about a suicide it's gonna be me lol

>>215055228 (OP)
I knew a girl who was very sweet on me, she even told me she didn't have a bf, but she was run over by a car a little time later. I went to her burial.
A friend with japanese ancestry died in a car accident. It was really sad because we often mocked him for being a bad driver and thought it was a joke when we got the news

>>215055228 (OP)
My best friend died in 2017 of a rare congenital disease. From 2010 on to his death he was like family to me, people assumed we were brothers. At some point I had to move for studies, and just as school started a few days later I get a call from a common friend telling me he passed away. I hadn't seen him for months at that point, and I fully hoped we could meet soon because I already came out of a hard spot in life. It fucking broke me mentally, the grieving process was too long and hard, and I even still dream of him sometimes (and it's not good).

Two. One was a old university friend of mine, passed away suddenly from an underlying medical condition, the other one was a steam friend who died in a car crash.

>>215055425
yeah definitely. Feel bad that I never realized this back when I was in school with him. I knew parts of his back story and felt bad about him in a superficial way, but never took the time to think about how he really felt. I could recognize why it would be sad to grow up without your parents in a superficial way, but I never thought about the effect it would have on how he saw the world and his day to day emotions.

>>215057230
the thing about these cases is that no matter how in depth you understand the situation there isn't much you can do about it, you can't replace family even if you're a good friend

>>215055228 (OP)
there was this girl in school that used to like me.
I was the quiet but smart kid, she was a sports girl. She even represented the town at national events, I think even regional (south America).
She had a lot of confidence and used to follow me around. I remember clearly she once waited for me to get out of the bathroom, lifted get skirt a little and said "anon, look at these legs"
I made that stupid little run slow/walk fast evasive tactic. Sue me, we were like 12-13
Anyway by the end of the year I changed schools and then when I was 14 I found out she died in a car accident
weird how life is sometimes. She had a bright future in sports.

>>215055228 (OP)
I never had friends, so 0

>>215055228 (OP)
Not a friend but a guy I knew who had a locker next to mine in high school died due to opioids. I’ve got so many medical issues I assume I’ll be joining him soon

>>215057337
yeah I suppose you're right.

>>215055478
>and a new view on life
such as?

>>215055228 (OP)
No idea. Drifted apart with the few I had after high school, and haven't had any since.

>>215057920
non-stereoscopic, probably

>>215055228 (OP)
None yet. Childhood friends are all alive, that I know of. I still keep in touch with a few of my HS buds and they're all healthy (except for maybe one obese guy, but last I checked he was going into a clinic). None took their life so far, I wonder if I'll be the first
t. Italian, disregard my current flag

>>215055228 (OP)
>one got a stroke while bathing