Thread 215837848

How's the relationship?

>>215837848 (OP)
Women friends get butthurt when you also have no attraction towards them.

I do not talk to women, I do not interact with them. I stay inside my house all day. Eight months ago was the last time I spoke to someone who was neither related to me nor paid to interact with me.

>>215837935
Same bro

>>215837848 (OP)
Being friend with woman is like having child with an otter

>>215837848 (OP)
where does that brown chink find the confidende to turn down whoever loves that creature?

>>215837848 (OP)
There is zero reason for a man to have female friends, each female-friendship that a man has takes the place of a superior male-friendship that he's missed out on.

I've never even really talked with a girl casually, outside of school projects or strictly work-related things.

>>215837917
>>215837935
>>215837971
>>215837980
>>215837989
>>215838025
>>215838029
Have sex incels

>>215837989
The internet. For every ugly woman there's hundreds of men desperate to be with them. It's no wonder women nowadays have massive ego.

>>215838053
no thanks

>>215838053
ywnbaw

In any greater numbers than 2-3, women are a terrible drain on your life. They always bump you for favors. Always, ALWAYS. At least a fwb or gf serve some other purpose than doing shit for them.

They're also all into the same safe bullshit. Boring.

>>215838053
Ok post your photo and address and i can try

>>215837848 (OP)
I haven't spoken to a woman outside of my family since I was like 16 years old. Even if one did try to talk to me, I wouldn't know what to say.

Men and women are not generally similar enough to have buddy friendships. The obvious exception is gay/feminine men. There is simply no way to treat a woman like a guy friend at all.

>>215837848 (OP)
Art school mostly has female students so none of these thread replies apply. If anything it's the lesbians that have trouble with friend crushes

>>215837848 (OP)
>Friends?
No.

>>215838053
Bend over

>>215838053
how? every time I confess my love for them they look at me like a penguin.

>>215838260

>lesbians and friend crushes

lmao, my dumb sister. Burned so many bridges.

>>215838501
Has your sister tried not being a lesbian? I hear it works wonders for women's romantic prospects

>>215838196
Are you 12? Why are you incapable of treating people differently?

>>215838564
The way that men treat women, tiptoeing around them so as not to offend them, doing shit for them for free, basically treating them like princesses, isn't how friends treat each other.

>>215838564
Women can't handle being treated like men by men.

>>215838682
trvth

>>215838564
stay on your side of the border, carlos.

>>215837848 (OP)
The guy was dumb for confessing like he's a little kid tho

>>215838025
>>215838196
I don't get this. If they are alone with you a woman is just like a guy but more emotional and with mood changes, that's it. You two are like those american cartoons where boys are like ewww girls I dont want to get near gurls they give you the coochies. I don't know if this gender segregation is an actual thing in american culture. I grew up playing more with girls than boys and yes we did horny things a lot too. My main complaint about women is how they behave differently when in group

>>215838871
>just like a guy but more emotional and with mood changes,
so...not like a guy.

>>215838638
>isn't how friends treat each other.
I agree, that's how a simp treats women. You are not supposed to do that

>>215838871
>If they are alone with you a woman is just like a guy but more emotional and with mood changes
Except they're on average more selfish, less intelligent, less capable of compromising, less understanding of your experience as a male, less empathetic, than a man is.
>yes we did horny things a lot too.
So they were your fuckbuddies, not your friends, which is probably why you put up with them

>>215838549

I'm still not entirely sure she is. Just autistic and confused. I'm not really convinced "lesbians" are a real thing it's just that women are sexually fluid and if they hate their feminine self they will cope by larping as a half-man.

>>215838933
>You are not supposed to do that
I agree, which is why I would never waste my time befriending a foid

>>215838904
Is this the main thing you care about when talking to another person? If you talk enough to different people you will notice everyone has some peculiarity and you will naturally talk to each one in a different way. Not being like this is like being the dumb kid trying to fit the wrong shape in the hole

>>215838564

This is exactly what I mean. Women do not understand how we do it at all. You guys fail the first relational stress tests that we naturally do with other guys to make sure we can trust them. A conditional, coercive relationship where you aren't free to generally be who you are with another and treat them like a peer isn't a friendship, it's something of a hostage situation.

>>215838549
Anons itt aren't lesbians and their romantic prospects are /soc/-tier
>>215838501
Yeah it's a strange thing but crushes come and go. My lesbian friend says the friendship can be rebuilt if the other party isn't retarded kek

>>215839018
>If you talk enough to different people you will notice everyone has some peculiarity and you will naturally talk to each one in a different way.
We're not just discussing talking to foids, we're discussing befriending them, i.e. devoting hours of your time socialising with them.

>>215838966
Women are actually too empathetic but they have to block it out because it can be exploited. If they are not being empathetic with you it's either just an act or you are dealing with some dangerous personality disorder case.
You can be friends with fuckbuddies that's why the word has 'buddy' in it
>>215838987
A friend is not a simp

>>215839018
>Is this the main thing you care about when talking to another person? If you talk enough to different people
you're moving the goalposts

>>215839071
I was just saying that everyone is different and you won't be able to have good interactions with people if you treat everyone the same way. If you cant have good interactions its easy to understand why you dont want to befriend them

Yeah but she was the one that ruined it by telling me she was in love with me a month into me dating a girl and then told me she wanted me to break up with her so we could date instead

>>215839138
>A friend is not a simp
I know, which is why only other men can befriend men.
>Women are actually too empathetic
No they definitely aren't, if they were then billions of unborn children wouldn't have been aborted by their mothers in the past 40 years. Women are on average more selfish than men.

I don't have any friends.

>>215839228
what a horrible "friend", why didn't she confess to you before you got a gf? Why does she expect you to sabotage your relationship just to be with her?

>>215838871
It is absolutely an American thing. I did have platonic American female friends in college but I don’t think it’s super common. One of them did have a crush on me I guess. I miss them actually, we used to watch picrel kino and make fun of it.

In general I’ve noticed women from thirdie countries are way more likely to have male friends. Americans segregate heavily by gender. I think this is part of our incel problem desu.

>>215839247
Just show them some video of kids being aborted and being in distress while pierced apart and she's never defending abortion ever again. Women are empathetic, this is one of the most common sense ancient wisdom there are there like men are physically stronger

>>215839365
>Women are empathetic, this is one of the most common sense ancient wisdom there are
That's not ancient wisdom at all, women were known in ancient Greece to be more selfish than men.
>Just show them some video of kids being aborted and being in distress while pierced apart and she's never defending abortion ever again.
I don't think that will work on the feminists defending child-murder.

>>215839350
You need a lil bit of cultural revolution to scrap out those old puritan influences

>>215839193
women expect to be treated like superior beings at all times, by everyone. they expect all of their feelings and personal preferences to be catered to at all times. they demand to be "seen" and listened to at all times by everyone. They think "I'm upset" should be a get-out-of-jail-free card in every situation. Why would you put up with that if they're not giving you something big in return like: bearing your children.

>>215839442
Male and female relations have broken down because of feminism, not because of traditional values. This is obvious if you know how time works.

>>215839429
In ancient greece pederasty was also the norm so maybe they werent a very common sense type of society

>>215839527
Look up the history of feminism. It originates on those crazy nonsense american things like being antialcohol and being a pure religious role model

>>215839287
Stupid dumb bitch, that's not how you juggle.

>>215839442
We do. Ironically we’ve totally lost the idea of liberty and freedom in our culture, nobody is interested in it anymore. They don’t know what it looks like to not worry so much about things.

>>215839573
in english, please?

I barely have any friends now but I've had a few female friends who I'd regularly see or could call when I needed someone to drink with.

>>215837848 (OP)
Never had one
Females are unironicaly subhumans only good for sex

>>215839247
>billions of unborn children wouldn't have been aborted by their mothers in the past 40 years
god, chuds are so delusional.

>>215837848 (OP)
Female friends don't exist. Anything you tell them, they'll gossip with their actual friends, talk behind your back then ruin your reputation

>>215840117
Haha sure wouldn't want everyone to find out about my huge dick.

>>215837848 (OP)
I think this is an American thing.
Still friends with the Irish girl I asked out, and the two women in Japan.
Americans are just emotionally stunted.

>>215840102
women's "empathy" in full display

No, female friends dissappeared from my life after I went to trade school at 15. No contact with the opposite sex after that.

yes, but they're mostly dykes
idk why

>>215839287
This.

>>215837848 (OP)
>female friends
>>>/x/

>>215839315
Unironically yes she did which made me think the relationship isn’t gonna end well if she thought it was okay to try to make me break up with my girlfriend

>>215837848 (OP)
I dont because god punish me as the only incel in my country and they dont even want me to be their friends though...

>>215839247
Dude it's just a fetus
You can make a new one if you want

>>215837848 (OP)
i don't even approach them

>>215841355
I could kill you right now and just replace you with another finn at your place of employment (I'm being optimistic about you)

>>215837848 (OP)
> Do You Have Female Friends?
no. I don't have any and I'm not interested having them, though I want gf.

>>215837848 (OP)
unironically. she will literally speak for 2 hours straight

Not sure whether you could call them friends but there was a small group of girls that hung out with our small clique. We mostly got along but they often teased me. Mostly because I was very chuddie back then.

kill yourselves incel freaks

>>215844382
ywnbaw

Yes, it's fun hearing all the gossip while having a tea. I can only fit in female groups for some reason though

>>215837848 (OP)
I had some in primary school but got bullied by them and it irreparably damaged my psychosocial development

>>215838196
Treat her like you'd treat a sister, or your mother

you would have to be retarded to have a female friend you didn't want to fuck, but you would be even more retarded if you had a female friend you wanted to fuck

>>215837848 (OP)
yea, quite alot too, more than i have guys friends.
>how's the relationship?
depends, some are distant, some are close, some are in their 50s, some are in their teens, however my closest friends are all dudes. also im in my mid 30s if that matters.

>>215844690
MARICONAZO.

>>215837848 (OP)
what would she have done if i was chad?

Only way a moid can befriend a woman is if he doesn’t find her attractive.

>>215837848 (OP)
i only talk to women who have sex with me, or i want to have sex with

>>215845153
and is gay

>>215845040
Gracias por el piropo

>>215839138
ah yes, the famous personality detector..

>>215837848 (OP)
I don't even have male friends

>>215837848 (OP)
No. I don't believe that a friendship is possible between men and women, eventually one wants to fuck the other and then it's no longer a friendship one way or another.

Every time I've associated with some girl in a group I hang out in, either the girl seems to be too into me or then it's me who's interested in them, and it's never been quite the same as hanging with a guy, never strictly platonic since I became a teenager. There was one that even was in a relationship with one of my friends, but she still seemed to be constantly flirting with me and it was just awkward

I think the closest would be my current situation, although I wouldn't exactly consider her a friend so much as a colleague. Real chatty with everyone, one time she started walking home with me instead of riding off on her bicycle, so now we walk for like 30 minutes and I listen to her talk about stuff. For the record I hate small talk so it's more like a hostage situation in my head, I'm considering just hiding in the bathroom for a couple minutes so I can walk home alone

>>215845204
No you just need to not find them attractive

>>215837848 (OP)
i have no problem having uggo female friends and like 5/10s

>>215845692
You'd have to be gay to consider socialise with foids fun instead of mindnumbing.

>>215845768
*socialising

>>215845768
It's the same shit but with different colours

>>215837848 (OP)
Yeah I do have some even though I never really tried to befriend any. But somehow we appeared in each others lives and now get along well.

This just shows how small brained and shallow you all are.

>>215837848 (OP)
If it's a girl I'm attracted to I think the key is to treat her like a little child; tease her, keep it playful and fun, listen to her but not really take her seriously.
If I don't find her attractive then like any other male friend

>>215845768
true

>>215846210
women have smaller brains than men and are way more shallow

>>215837917
You're just supposed to tell them they look good and vet their romantic interests. It's not hard. You do the exact same thing with your male friends.

>>215837848 (OP)
Men and Women can't be friends. They are incompatible, any woman who says otherwise just wants orbiters she can trauma dump on and maybe get money out of.

>>215846317
Yeah let me count the times I've told my male friends they look good, uhhh

>>215837848 (OP)
>ruins the friendship
You were never friends you dumb broad. He was just getting to know you before asking you out.

>>215846371
You're a shitty friend then. Everyone likes to hear that they look nice and they're doing a good job.

I have two women friends in my roleplaying group and had one before she moved I played board games with at the local game shop.
No romantic feelings, no any sort of problems.

>>215846327
bro what the fuck how did it learn to do that

So you guys can't stop constantly thinking about wanting to fuck your friend's gf or wife? It's impossible for you to befriend them? Or what the fuck?

>>215846604
what if they don't look nice and they're doing a bad job

>>215838025
Men would stab each other in the back over pussy

>>215846706
Why the fuck would I befriend my friend's gf or wife? Would my friend put up with them if they didn't get sex regularly? No? So why do would you expect me to?

No but I would like a FWB

>>215846868
Because you spend time with your friend and sometimes she's there too, like when you go visit your friend's place. Or going out for a dinner with your gf and them. Or you all share some hobby.

>>215838025
This is low key ZUTTed somewhere.
Just make friends with a lesbian or girl with mnaly hobbies you aren't physically attracted to, gay ass nigga

>>215846604
I just have to ask if you're a woman? I can't imagine telling my bros that they look good without seeming really gay. And likewise if I told a female friend that they look good that seems like I'd move directly into the simp zone

>>215847104
You're mega insecure.

>>215847015
I would consider them at most acquintances, people I have to deal with maintain my friend's friendship.

>>215847089
>Just make friends with a lesbian or girl
Again, the opprtunity cost with that is a superior male friendship. Your time is limited, your attention is limited, you cannot have good friendships with everyone, every hour you spend on a "friendship" with a foid is an hour that you missed out on befriending your fellow men.

>>215847193
My "fellow" men are the ones that destroyed my confidence on them.
Bunch of repressed faggots

>>215847128
I have never heard a guy just randomly say like hey bro you look real handsome today, what the fuck man. That just seems like some grade A strawberry marshmallow fruitcake territory. And I don't even consider myself particularly manly, but like what

>>215837848 (OP)
I tell girls I have a crush on them because it specifically gets them far away from me as possible without need of confrontation.
The dude most likely "confessed" to her because he found her too annoying to be around and not sure how to severe the tie, just a useful tip.

I was never friends with a female in my life and I don't see how that would be possible or why I would want to endure that.
I also never had any romantic attraction to one specifically.
I was pressured into one relationship that lasted for 13 years, that's my only female interaction.

>>215847448
Bait used to be believable

>>215840102
ywnbaw

>>215846317
>>215846604
>>215847128
>t. friendless shut-in
Male friends don't gas each other up like women do.
Men are more honest and straightforward.

I'm gay
Still don't like forming friendships with women

>>215837848 (OP)
when did men turn so gay kek wannh waannnhh

>>215837935
Pretty much the same for me. This is unironically the best life that I can live, with the cards that I have been dealt with.

>>215837848 (OP)
I confessed to my female friend and now we're married

>>215845091
Much to ponder about.

>>215837848 (OP)
I used to when I was in high school. I 100% do not recommend.
It was fun talking to them about anime and games, but then they would start gossiping about each other or fight over some guy... I'd rather just stay friendless than go through that again.

>>215847664
touch grass, incel

>>215846327
How is it doing that

>>215837848 (OP)
I'm attractive so have sex with my female friends.

>I can't be friends with women because they're all clearly into me or become that way eventually teeheehee
enough of this shit, take it to /soc/ or something fucking normalfags

>>215837848 (OP)
>meet girl
>become friends
>over time she becomes jealous and possessive
>"we're just friends and dont owe each other anything" tho, she says
>she's entertaining other prospects the entire time
>get fed up and ghost
this has happened twice to me, not a fan tbqhwy

>>215837848 (OP)
Factory assembly-line produced engagement farming
Conveyor-belt and automated robotic-arm stamped ragebait production

>>215838472
you shouldn't try to befriend them first, just try to have sex as soon as you can

>>215852708
real?

>>215837848 (OP)
I look like an Oblivion character. I Know what I am and I was smart enough not want what I can never have.

But yeah, I have female friends. I can't go to trendy restaurants alone, can I?

>>215855556
>I can't go to trendy restaurants alone, can I?
You can.

>>215855556
Are your female friends Saudi?

>>215837848 (OP)
My only friend is a woman and she rents one of my rooms.
We're good.

>>215837848 (OP)
I've had several and never felt anything for any of them

>>215837848 (OP)
yeah I've had a lot of female friends
a lot of guys develop feelings easily. I don't. I almost never feel emotionally attracted to a woman, very rarely.
I do feel physical attraction but its generally not to the point where it's a big problem

I used to have plenty of female friends pre-covid but I fell for the "delete all your social media to become happy". Now the only ones are literal children.

>>215857181
>I fell for the "delete your social media to become happy"
me too. this is the shittiest advice ever. Very hard to maintain a normal social life nowadays without social media, and it's awkward to try to get back on after you've been off a couple years

>>215838871
>is just like a guy but more emotional and with mood changes
>we did horny things a lot too
Are you stupid or something? Why would any guy think a guy like you being near his girl would be ok?

>>215857273
If they were single then they were anon's girl, no problem with that. But they were fuckbuddies, not actual friends.

>>215857181
>>215857235
I don't regret deleting my facebook account in the slightest. social media is gay and cringe.

>>215857295
Yeah I wouldnt make someone's fuckbuddy my girlfriend, but then again Brazil is a fuckfest.
I would only be okay with it if the whole town was my fuckbuddy including his gf.

>>215837848 (OP)
She always knew he had a crush on her and liked the attention and strung him along, and don't forget about all the favours!

>>215840167
Oh no no no

>>215837848 (OP)
Got two female friends I've know since grade school. Went drinking with them last weekend and they helped me move a few months ago.

>>215840102
drink bleach, chud

>>215847296
Do you fuck your female friends o algo?

>>215848104
You're prison gay or some shit. Actual faglords love gossiping with their foid friends

>>215839573
>Feminists only ever existed in the US
And other stupidities that dip shit Brazilians say!

>>215837848 (OP)
I think I have 1 and its a pretty weird relationship but yeah I think we're friends

>>215857816
most gay men I've met were blatantly misogynistic in private, but pretty good at hiding it in public
what you're describing is a very flamboyant, woman-brained faggot, probably a tranny in the making

>>215839531
No, that was common sense back then and is ok, and now we have a different common sense.

>>215839573
seems like y'all could use some religious role models

>>215858005
yeah I mean if you're not trying to fuck women why would you put up with their bullshit at all.

>>215858143
yeah like Prophet Muhammad (pajeets bust upon him)

>>215839764
not him but you're a fag

there is a strong correlance between prude feminists and christcucks

rape

kill 'em

>>215846317
>telling your male friends they look good

I don't think that's likely to happen because there's no incentive to do the things the woman is forcing you to do if you're not in a relationship with sex as a reward

>>215863725
>he has sex with his mum

>>215837848 (OP)
i have one that's like a sister to me
our mothers are close friends and as a result we practically grew up together. so there is nothing romantic there.

several from the military. all but one not my taste, but they're good company.
some were my subordinates, but now that i'm a reservists and not an NCO, so they're no longer under my direct authority.

that one that is my taste told me once while drunk, while i was her commander, that she would fuck me.
on moral grounds i couldn't(since i was her commander)
she has massive daddy issues too
and kinda nuts so it's something to avoid in terms of dating

>>215847015
Most people on this planet spend time with their friends' or brothers' girlfriends and don't become friends, just shallow acquaintances. Maybe you should ask why that is

>>215837848 (OP)
I haven't talked to women since high school. am 26

>>215837917
true they really do seethe, you're supposed to be attracted and stay in friend zone at the same time. somehow they want you to be more "ambitious" so they get power to reject you

turbo homosexual no thanks

a ton of women like having betabuxx orbiters. women are addicted to attention, validation, social status and monkey branching. all behaviors I consider abhorrent

>>215839018
I remember this exact same fucking discussion one month ago verbatim

>>215857834
he didnt say that

male/female "friends" don't exist. there's always a sexual dynamic. unfortunately I got married young so I am now an incel outside of having sex with my wife.

I stopped having female friends because they always ended up having freelings for me. Some of them would also act as if we are already in a relationship and get mad at me for trying to keep a distance.

>>215837848 (OP)
>women
ewwwwww

>>215838147
talk about labubus

>>215837848 (OP)
You can only be friends with a woman if there is no looksmatch. I am "friends" with a couple of women and we flirt outrageously bordering on seduction eventhough both of them are married. Disaster waiting to happen but its fun so whatever

cum in them

>>215867818
don't be a homewrecker

>>215837848 (OP)
Yeah, in high school and college I took the bus home because I didn't have a car.

My female friends always gave me car rides home.

>>215838053
You're trans lol