Thread 216132900

>24
>no girl has asked me out yet

Is it over for you in your country?

>>216132900 (OP)
Yes
You should be the one asking them out though

>>216132900 (OP)
Yes. I just stopped caring entirely. I don't even need a foid around me, dating is literally just kike brainwashing.
>>216132945
No he shouldn't.

>>216132900 (OP)
>>no girl has asked me out yet
Generally speaking you're supposed to make le first move, this isn't Scandinavia.
>>216132956
>dating is literally just kike brainwashing.
It seriously is. I'm reading Brothers Karamazov right now and am incredibly jealous of how much easier relationships and getting women were back then.

>>216132900 (OP)
Yesterday I was asked for an instagram. she was Amercian

>>216132900 (OP)
are you active in groups, activities, clubs, volunteer work, jobs, or other such things where you are able to talk to girls your age

24 is not old btw this is the perfect time to turn things around. you've literally only been an adult for a few years, not too late at all

[too late to wait though get on it rn]

>>216133636
What groups, what activities, what clubs

>>216132945
You'll get hit with sexual harassment charges for flirting with women now.

Are you guys seriously unable to ask a girl out? Just try, be direct, no need to elavorate and hope to roll the right side of the coin.
>but it's not the right time!
The timing won't really change her awnser you asshat. If she says no, at least you'll be able to move on and not living with the doubt.
The biggest regrets you can have in life ain't the times you made a mistake, it's the things you didn't try.

>>216132900 (OP)
I’ve been asked out by dozens of women in my life, just be yourself.

>>216133698
there's literally a million things you can do. dance classes, other classes, running groups, music groups, volunteer work, etc. that's how most people make friends as an adult after college

in my case I'm a musician so almost all the friends ive made and relationships ive been in have come from choir or playing music

>>216133786
Almost every durable adult friend-pair you encounter, if you interrogate its origin, traces to one of:

1 - forced recurrence (coworker / campus / lab / barracks / church choir / practice schedule)

2 - network inheritance (friend of friend)

If you currently lack (2), you must mechanically instantiate (1). There is no third path that works reliably.

>>216132900 (OP)
Dating sounds tiring honestly, especially if you have work, a hobby and random courses

>>216132900 (OP)
Yes, it's over. Don't listen to any faggots telling you it's not, it is.

>>216134236
Thid, it has been over for 24 years in your case

>>216133718
I regret asking girls out more than not asking them out doe.

>>216133808
Yep. Probably the biggest problems now is that
>there are no third spaces anymore
You can't meet up at bowling alleys or book clubs, and work relationships are completely inappropriate, so you never meet anyone.
>nobody has friends anymore
So 'friend of a friend' is rare.

We're on the cusp of bringing back arranged marriages, not from a suddenly surge of conservatism but because people will have no idea what else to do. Dating apps do nothing but monetize the loneliness of both parties.

>>216134647
why?

>>216134799
>not ask one out
>nothing happens
>ask one out
>obligatory wave of lies, attention whoring, and manipulation ensues

>>216134818
If she says no then there's no need to keep listening or wasting your time.
Sounds like she didn't give you a clear answer (women many times don't know what they want) and you kept trying because you didn't realise it was futile.
You are either too dumb/autistic to read the room or just making shit up like most neets do here.

>>216135766
>If she says no then there's no need to keep listening or wasting your time
uhm sweetie....chloroform exists

>>216132900 (OP)
Wasn't until I was 28 that it happened to me.
Just try to be social and meet people. And above all else don't become a black-pilled retard sulking online 24/7/ Those people become self-fulfilling prophecies.

>>216135766
Things is, foids don’t. Just from my own experience
>gave me a fake number
>agreed to a date but cancelled last minute
>agreed to a date but rescheduled multiple times, then cancelled
>told me after the 3rd date that she has a bf
All of these happened on multiple independent occasions. Meanwhile, I have never heard a straight, honest ‘no’ from a foid. Not enough snake-like meandering.

>>216132900 (OP)
I had two sexual encounters at 25

Dont give up, many girls like you

>>216135815
Women too strongly believe in 'subtext' and 'hints', so there will be some vague body language when she gives you the number for example that's supposed to tell you to fuck off. But from the perspective of every man alive, they take things at face value and if you tell someone "yes I would like to have a date with you, dinner at five, sounds great" that means exactly what it literally says.
But to a woman, it means "REEEE YOU DISGUST ME".

>>216135846
The Spanish normalnigger said that it’s just a binary yes/no response and then backtracked by saying “actually there’s a whole Talmud worth of situations that count as ‘no’ even if there was no word ‘no’ said” and then blames me for not catching that important omission as if I’m supposed to read his mind. I hate normalniggers so much.

>>216132900 (OP)
I'm a 35yo virgin...

>>216132945
Mate, you can't even look at women in my country anymore without the risk of being arrested.

Yes this is a real picture and campaign by the police. Google it.

>>216133808
>>216134671
People have friends, but there's not a culture of match-making anymore unless in religious circles. I think this is the biggest problem, more than third-spaces. It's a cultural outlook that deprioritises the family unit. I can belong to a Church/Mosque/Synagogue and its congregants will ask when I'm finding a nice X girl to get married, but that's not found in secular society.

>>216136175
Holy shit.

>>216135917
>actually there’s a whole Talmud worth of situations that count as ‘no’ even if there was no word ‘no’ said”
They're not called the vaginal Jew for nothing.

>>216135917
I see, so you are just autistic and lack assertiveness to force her to make her mind up.
Accept you have a weak petsonality and a form of mental retardation (that's what autism really is).
You can fix your weak petsonality and build assertiveness. There's no solution for the lack of inteligence though.

>>216136255
Damn so Varg wasn't lying that you're brown.

I never had a gf and never will because I'm an uninteresting sperg

>>216133808
>barracks
I can't imagine being retarded enough to marry a barracks bunny lmao
>>216134671
>We're on the cusp of bringing back arranged marriages, not from a suddenly surge of conservatism but because people will have no idea what else to do
The postwar world would rather go extinct because of muh feminism frankly. I'm very blackpilled at this point when it comes to big picture stuff.

>>216132900 (OP)
are you doing the basics?
are you fit, clean, have a job?

>>216137939
Why would I do that when I can isolate myself, never try at life and cry on the internet about how evil normies/chads/women are to gain incel sympathy points?

women are given social permission to be cowards
they're taught that most things in life should just kind of fall into their laps with little effort on their parts because as women they're just inherently desirable
a lot of women legit think just standing around trying to look pretty is good enough, some of them get big mad when you ignore them instead of playing their stupid game

>>216139829
nobody with a decent IQ does that. Everybody here with a brain tried the normie life and failed, repeatedly

>>216140059
I never tried but I'm mentally ill

>>216133636
>
dude, shit like this does not exist in europe, just adding this for all the yurocels that are in a similar predicament

americans cannot suffer, there is no other country where it is easier to meet other people

most of yourope is just people meeting friends in school or uni, and then thats that

>>216133710
Pussy ass mindset

>>216136175
Oh fuck me i remember these now. Police had time to stick all these posters up but not investigate the paki rape gangs

>>216132900 (OP)
got my first date at 24 op

>>216132900 (OP)
just have sex

>>216132900 (OP)
I'm a 25 yo KV and a girl I recently met at uni asked me to grab a coffee between lectures
In the 2 hours of talk at one point she asked me if I had a gf and I found that a super weird question to ask all of the sudden
She has nice tiddies but I don't really care about her because I'm really in love with another girl that's giving me extreme pain and I feel old, hopeless and more jaded every day from being a loveless incel my entire life.
Fuck my nigger life. If only I went out of my house in my teens and didn't hate normies back then.

I got asked out 3 times during elementary school but assburgers happened and I rejected them alm. Now I'm a 31 year old virgin.

>>216140059
>Everybody here with a brain tried the normie life
i doubt that

>>216132900 (OP)
i got asked out once but still fumbled her
god i hate being an avoidant

>>216140997
>If only I went out of my house in my teens and didn't hate normies back then

What were you doing back then? I have a suspicion. You were poring over PCA plots in an attempt to prove that Serbs are brown and different, dissecting the regional differences within Croatia and the way they mirror the tiny differences in autosomal DNA, studying the turbofolk infestation of Croatian youth. I salute you!

>>216140997
You'll die alone unless you learn to get over your oneitis.

>>216144671
No, I was watching anime and playing videogames (single player of course).
I got more political as I grew older and saw how rotten balkan society is.
>genetics
It's actually herzegovinians and their admixture which is way different from a slav. If it wasn't for them and the large gypsy population, Serbia would be very slav genetically.

When I get the desire for a gf I remind myself that the odds of finding one that hasn't had another man's dick in her is less than 1% and that feeling disappears. I'm not lonely enough to lower my standards.

>>216132900 (OP)
It all seems so exhausting to me. Not worth it.

been fucking this chick she just texts me that she wants to come over and i say the time

>27
>Never talked to a woman in my entire life

>>216136232
The sex merchants so to speak

>>216137939
I have a six pack, clean, make 100k a year. Stil no pussy. Women only care about height not being aspie or whatever. Dumb shit like that

>>216145908
I got the height, money and I'm fit.
But I'm too autistic to talk to women (or people in general) so I'm a virgin at 33.

>>216146096
You can just import a gookess if you're actually swedish. I'm out of luck because no woman likes mexicans

>>216146752
I'm not attracted to squints.

>>216146795
Fakecel

>30
>a few girls have displayed obvious interest in me throughout my life
>never made a move
My excuse is that I have Klinefelter Syndrome and my body is unfixable garbage. You don't have an excuse. Stop being a fucking loser and letting your youth pass you by. When you're old like me you'll still be wallowing in self pity and you will have gained nothing.

>>216132945
>You should be the one asking them out though
that's gay

>>216146795
Fakecel x2

>>216135815
I posted this here in the past but I'll repeat just because it fits so well
a girl said she'd like me to come over to her place some time next week
I thought it was a date so next day I asked her out on a proper one somewhere more public and she declined
said she wasn't looking for a relationship

appearently we live in such utterly retarded times that a girl inviting you over to her place is not considered a date/hookup anymore
Idk about you but I completely gave up on foids after this

>>216132900 (OP)
brah girls aren't going to ask you out until it's like a one in a million circumstance or she is severely mentally ill or destperate. I have very limited sex/dating experience but I have like a 50/50 score of asking girls out and either getting a yes or being rejected, and even the rejections were overly polite. women play a very different social game. even if a girl is interested in you the most she will do is being 'obvious' without saying anything directly and waiting for you to make the first step

>>216145908
just put yourself out there
relationships are like chemistry, atoms can react and bond but they can also not do that immediately
but if you interact with lots of atoms, you're bound to bond at some point

>>216132900 (OP)
Yeah dont worry anon i'm also the only incel in my country so there is not hope for me though...

>>216147565
I'm helium tho

>>216147527
massive, massive cope

the last workplace i worked at, i had to listen to roasties say how they met their bfs / husbands and they all said they were just watching some sport tournament or similar irl and after the match they just walked up to the (unsurprisingly) tallest players (especially the short roastie mentioned her husband's height several times in the course of a few minutes)

massive, massive cope man

I only want to date and have sex with someone I love, I don't love anyone so I'll stay a virgin. Simple as

>>216148380
You're still a virgin and have no idea what you're talking about. What I described is the realstic way for every guy that isn't a rockstar or sport champion.

>>216148310
no, you're not
there are things you can do to make it easier to bond
you'll never be helium, or any noble gas

>>216148380
>t. manlet externalizing everything onto his height
I'm 195cm and a virgin at 27. How ya like em apples?

>>216132945
What if I have nothing to offer?

Honestly, is it even worth it nowadays? It seems to me that you have to be more attractive than the girl in order to actually profit from the relationship. Otherwise, you are going go have to betabuxx, completely change your hobbies/personality to hers or you will get humiliated until you cut her off (I observed these dynamics from the relationships that my friends have/had).

>>216150114
You're not a top athletic football player that participates in sporting events so normal women don't throw themselves at you, and that's the only way he thinks relationships start so that's why he's confused

>>216132900 (OP)
It's even worse when you've been asked out 3 times but couldn't be bothered because of autism

>>216145677
>guy from Nicki Minaj land can't even find a girl
sad

>>216132900 (OP)
>expecting for a woman to ask you out
grow some balls

>>216146752
>no woman likes mexicans
The amount of women gooning to and producing Nick Fuentes fancams would say otherwise

>>216132900 (OP)
It never really began for me. I'm too scared to make a move.

>>216132900 (OP)
I'm a 33 year old wizard who goes outside for an hour maybe twice a month (to get groceries and shit). I never talk to people, I have zero friends, I don't even know what my neighbors look like.

>>216155423
are you schizoid?

>>216152691
they do ask you out you fucking retard but only if you're an attractive good looking man.
>>216145908
they mostly care about YOUR FACE.

>>216150114
>t. incompetent retard that has to pretend he doesn't have a massive advantage to cope with his failure

>>216155655
No just autistic and asocial.

>>216155423
I'm very jealous honestly I'm dying of loneliness while you just don't care. I kneel please teach me your ways king.

>>216155762
What the fuck are you even on about? Women don't care because the 'tism is the real dealbreaker. You can be Brad Pitt-looking mf and spill the 'ghetti nonetheless.

>>216155881
So.... you are a schizoid (not the same as schizo)

>>216156235
Oh. Didn't know that. It's probably somewhere in my giant pile of diagnoses then.

>>216150114
You're volcel. Height is the number 1 thing women look for

>>216153844
>women gooning
You mean attention whoring?

>>216156516
>let me tell you about (You) in your country

>>216156571
Come to america and fuck our women

>a creepy dysgenic manlet goebbels looking jew
>still had girlfriends


step up fool

>>216155423
Based Wizardchad.

>>216132900 (OP)
that's not happening unless you are chad thundercock

>>216156607
I had lived there for 7 years lol.

>>216156972
Did you ever leave the house?