Thread 216363461

Is this how the love of your life will react after you have had sex for the first time in your country?

Nah unless she’s a size queen

>>216363461 (OP)
3 inches is objectively very small tho

>>216363589
What is it in real units? I'm 12cm

>>216363614
>I’m 12cm

>>216363614
one inch is 2,54cm so 7,62cm

>>216363461 (OP)
3 inches? Wtf I thought that was average

>>216363461 (OP)
I am 13cm and have made two women orgasm, other than that never had any issues with it.

>>216363722
>>216363782
Kys

>>216363734
Oh at least I'm bigger
>>216363722
What?

>>216363865
>13cm

>>216363614
I thought nafris were 1/4 black

>>216363614
The biggest afghan

>>216364024
Kys

>183cm
>15 cm
its over

>tfw am 20cm dicklet
it's over

>>216363461 (OP)
>after you have had sex for the first
I'm a 35yo wizard. It's not gonna happen.

>>216363461 (OP)
well it doesn't matter. you already got to have sex. the aftermath is irrelevant

>>216364203
>>216364279
I'm Frisian

My phallus is 7 inches (almost 18 cm) and I'm dating a black girl who I may lose my virginity to so we shall see

>>216363461 (OP)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I-vs8fwgwk0

>>216363461 (OP)
I feel attacked

>>216363461 (OP)
I'm 15cm which is average, never had sex tho

I've never had a love of my life.

Went to see an escort earlier this week and now my libido is totally gone because I couldn't maintain an erection with her. I just got too nervous and couldn't have sex. This is despite me not watching any porn for a week or so, so I was quite horny. She was very nice, I admitted my situation to her and we talked for a while. Did a bit of oral, she said I looked cute. She seemed surprised when I said I was a virgin but maybe that was just an act. We seemed to have a good rapport and talked about interesting things but again, don't know if she was just acting. She did seem quite engaged when she was talking to me and we kissed a lot which I liked. The more we talked the more I relaxed but I felt bad. I'm so pathetic. I genuinely feel worse in a way now. I wandered around afterwards feeling completely alone in this world and wanted to cry. 29 years on this planet and aside from escorts, I'm still a kissless virgin. Fucking kill me. I deserve to be a Wizard.

I tried giving her oral and people on here have mocked me for this. I wanted her to feel pleasure as well I guess.

I feel sick now because of my embarrassment at not getting an erection, I feel lonely again, and I feel like I've somehow ruined myself. I haven't had an erection since Tuesday, barely eaten anything as I feel like a failure of a man. I always had stupid romantic dreams of losing it to a woman who loved me. Despite this, I would like to go back to try again, because she was very pretty and she said I had beautiful eyes when I was giving her oral which made me blush bright red.

>>216364342
>>216363865
lmao insecure dicklet

Actually, my gf complimented my fat cock. It's also above average in length at 16.5 cm (compared to the dicklets she dated before) and so far she has told me that the tip reaching her cervix kind of hurts but its girth spreading her pussy walls apart is what she really enjoys.

Size does matter and remember, girth>length

>>216365339
Did you have a drink before you met her?

>>216365339
Taladafil 20mg
Half a pill, half an hour before sex
You're welcome

>>216363461 (OP)
>t. 20 cm but fumbled so many cuties because of assburgers
I genuinely started considering seeing an escort like >>216365339 just to use my tool and make a woman orgasm

>>216364627
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rCg1sRHqEbo

>>216365470
Girth does matter more, it's not a cope. I'm 14cm long but I have a fat one and bitches told me I was big. You can be as long as you want but if you have a pencil dick it's gonna suck for her. Of course it's a bonus if your dick is both fat and long

>>216365339
Try seeing her again she sounds patient, it'll probably get easier for you as you get used to it

>>216365494
No, I thought that was bad.

>>216365522
Does that help with arousal? Or does it just give you a hard on?

>>216366303
Hopefully. How long should I give it?

I'm completely abstaining from porn until I can somehow get natural erections

>>216366615
Depends on how much you drink, just having a beer or two should help with your nervosity while still allowing your dick to work.

>>216365400
Said the guy obsessed with the cock size of other guys.

Kys

>>216363734
>7.62cm full fleshy foreskin
>dies

>>216363614
Erect or flaccid?

>>216366757
Thought escorts had rules on clients not turning up drugged

>>216366996
Escorts make up their own rules, but I doubt there's anyone out there who demands that you be 100% sober.

>>216366615
On using tadalafil, it is a vasodillator, it keeps the blood flowing. So you still have to be psychologically aroused, the pill will just make your boners hard and not go away easily.

On getting erections, if you're stressed/depressed you won't be able to. Canadanon is right, seeing the same patient girl over and over again will help you relax.

Weird as it sounds, go into your next meeting being content with leaving it not having sex. This will relieve psychological pressure. Be okay with just enjoying touching her and having her touch you.

Alcohol will help you relax and in my experience you will get erections just fine while buzzed. Whiskey dick only comes if you're really plastered.

Remember to enjoy yourself anon.

>>216366757
>just having a beer or two should help with your nervosity
Fuck my life. I drink a single beer and the moment the tiny, tiny buzz hits me I just wanna lock myself into my apartment for a month and play vidya. Lose all interest in everything else.

>>216365470
>>216366227
This is unfortunate for me cause my girth is 5" which is average I think

>>216365339
Why do incels feel the need to lose their virginity? What's gonna change after you stick your dick in a hole? I genuinely don't get it

>>216368047
Why wouldn't you want to know what it's like before you die?

>>216368047
you can make it be more about experiencing the feeling of dominating a woman if it makes you feel less cucked or something

>>216363461 (OP)
SATC girls tier list
>Samantha
>Miranda
*POWER GAP*
>Charlotte
>Carrie

>>216368216
I wanna have sex, but I'm not that desperate.

>>216368047
I want a woman to be attracted to me

>>216368047
Because sex is a huge part of human existence.

I know a guy with a literal micropenis who has had sex with more women than me

>>216369277
If you remain an incel you could easily become that desperate in just a couple of years.

>>216365339
>I tried giving her oral and people on here have mocked me for this. I wanted her to feel pleasure as well I guess.
Nothing wrong with this, I cum the instant is see my gf getting close to orgasm and also enjoy giving oral and flicking her bean

i want her to love me

>>216367656
Thanks anon, this post reassured me a lot.
>Weird as it sounds, go into your next meeting being content with leaving it not having sex. This will relieve psychological pressure. Be okay with just enjoying touching her and having her touch you.
I think you're right. My stomach was churning like hell going in.

>>216369694
I told people in /brit/ and they all laughed at me for giving oral :(

>>216365339
lmao look at this guy paying to be a carpet muncher. What a bellend

>>216370050
Nothing wrong with oral but giving a prostitute oral is crazy

>>216369448
Don't lump me with the incelniggers, I'm a proud volcel that only wants to have sex with someone I love

>>216370361
low t

>>216370322
Why? Not like my life can go any lower.
When I was giving her oral I looked up at her and she said I had beautiful eyes. Genuinely the highlight.

>>216370608
it can always get worse
you whiny sad sack of shit

>>216363461 (OP)
7 inches here, I've fucked a lot of whores and I'm currently dating a woman who's not the love of my life. The thing is, my cock is kinda thin despite the size so it looks like a slim Jim bar. I've made a few women cum after a lot of practice, but I think it'd be easier if my D were thicker than my wrist. Anyways, I showed my current acquaintance that I could make her cum in three different ways.
>without penetration at all
>not going all the way in
>hitting her cervix
It was to prove a point. You see, being a woman is way easier than being a man even if we're talking about the ways that you can get an orgasm. A dude needs to take up the arse to hit his G spot or to have his frenulum aroused enough while a woman have not only more, but also easier accessible G spots. Anyways, I'm not insecure about my dong.

>>216370466
https://voca.ro/1aiE2FCbqveD

>>216370608
b8 was kinda believable since this board is full of normalfags that love to blogpost, but this one made it too obvious. 7/10

>>216366856
Erect

>>216365339
It happens. I've been there before in my first time as well. The whore treated me well and all, but I couldn't keep it up due to many reasons and it got me depressed for a few months, but then thought that enough was enough and fucked her again and again and again until I felt that I did good enough. After that I started having it with other whores to not get attached to a single one and to get better at it. Sure, I did not put their cunts in my mouth because I'm not stupid and I did not kiss them as well, but that's it. Don't be a fag and do it again until you get good at it.

>>216363461 (OP)
My dick is fine and I've had sex

>>216365339
If it's any consolation this happened to me when I finally got in bed with my gf at 30 to lose my virginity. Make sure your condoms fit properly, if they cut in then it'll affect your dick. The trick is to not worry or think about it but I know that's hard. You could try taking viagra to boost your confidence, but it doesn't seem to work the first few times you take it for some reason.

>>216371232
>b8 was kinda believable since this board is full of normalfags that love to blogpost, but this one made it too obvious. 7/10
I am serious dude.
I couldn't believe when she said it but she did.

>>216371972
lmao good one

>>216372264
Why do you think I'm lying?
I'm admitting giving oral to an escort, not exactly a high point.

>>216365339
Whatever you do, if you ever decide to go to Japan, try their escorts but don't be a tard and don't lick their muff.

I'm 16.5cm (~6.5") and my gf says I'm really big
I feel like I'm a good size but she's playing it up a bit
Especially because we'll be doing it and she tells me to go deeper, but I'm already at the hilt so I just ignore her and go harder instead

>>216372756
I'm not really into Asian women

>>216372573
ye ye, I don't care how funny you are. You actually made me think there was a cute virgin boy with ED licking prostitute pussy out there, I was so mad. Fuck you.
I didn't even see you made a thread about this before >>216289993 and I took the bait like a retard.

I'm gonna kill myself

>>216365339
If it makes you feel better I was a virgin until 30. Had a lot of trouble getting it up with my gf on our first time, literally like 20 minutes. I spooned with her for a bit and eventually it got to the point where I got hard enough to put it in, then had sex but couldn't cum at all.

A couple days later we tried again and I not only got hard instantly but came in like 2 minutes.

The thing is that men's arousal is actually way more complicated and it's extremely mental in the moment. You can't just quit porn for a week and expect it to all work out, and even if you do get an erection the pressure and stress from the anxiety of it will make you go soft quick. Just try again, be open with her about it and say you're working on it and want to try things out. Eventually you'll get there, it might just take a few tries. That's normal, especially in our death grip - porn saturated world.

>>216371232
I've done it too

>>216373921
Men should love each other, despite what american comics teach

>>216373921
>The thing is that men's arousal is actually way more complicated and it's extremely mental in the moment.
Nah, the arousal largely works the same, women just don't need to be aroused to have sex.

>>216373534
I am the same person who made that post. I don't know how to prove it Argiebro, but please believe me. I saw her that day and felt like vomiting after.

>>216373921
Thanks anon, this has reassured me.

>>216374254
Yeah that's a problem. If a man can't get hard, all he can do is give oral or finger her

>>216374254
Regardless, men do need to be aroused and if they're too concerned with just having sex they're either not going to get hard or not cum.
Then when you fail at either of these you start to get worried that you can't do it, which makes you feel worse, which makes it even more difficult.