Thread 216510173

Have you ever been on a date in your country? How was it o algo?
I went on a date with a girl yesterday. We ate and talked for about 2 hours and I thought she was really nice, but I honestly thought she was kinda boring. I didn't really feel that attracted to her. She has a nice face but she's tall (she's about 5'9" I'm 5'10"). Should I try for a second date?
You know sometimes I think I have avoidant attachment or something cause I barely ever even feel attraction to girls apart from physical. Internationally speaking.

>>216510173 (OP)
I went to a girl's apartment in college. I brought drinks and she made food ahead of time. We watched a movie neither of us liked and then a Tom and Jerry episode. I thanked her for the food and then I walked a few miles home. That's the beginning and end of my love life

>>216510173 (OP)
it might take longer to completely write them off as boring. perhaps she wasn't comfortable opening up completely. did she at least seem into you? being an interesting person to be around is pretty important for me anyway. in a serious relationship, 90% of the time you're not exactly doing something fun. need to be able to enjoy their company imo. also her being almost as tall would be a bonus to me.
as for me, I've only been on one first date. I knew who she was and that I found her interesting even before meeting her officially, so meeting her just confirmed what I already thought. we've been together 12 years now, married for 2.
another time that may have been considered a date is when some girl at my college radio station asked me to guest host with her. we chatted in ways that would be similar to a date before and after, but on the end I think it was just a platonic encounter with platonic intentions. she was an incredibly smart and beautiful whitexican. like, pale as a ghost.

>>216510173 (OP)
Bro, men are nowadays can't get a pussy, I mean ANY pussy for decades and you've got luxury to reject a woman???

>>216510661
I don't know if she was into me. She was laughing at my jokes and stuff though. I'd guess she probably is.
>>216510760
I'm also a desperate virgin but when I actually got a girl sitting across from me who I'm flirting with while eating and watching the sunset together suddenly I'm like "eh"

>>216511702
well what led to this encounter in the first place? surely there was something you saw that made you want to schedule a date

>>216512124
>out taking photos for my art class
>see perfect spot for a photo, but there's some girl in the shot
>tell her I have a strange request, say it's to photograph the spot she's at but she can't be in it
>she says it's not a strange request to her cause she's actually a photography major
>ask for her opinion on the other photos I took
>we start talking about art, classes we're taking, careers etc
>she shows me some photos and stuff she took, I show her pictures of some paintings I made, we talk about it some more
>she offers to show me the stuff she's been writing in her journal
>conversation going well, she's laughing at my jokes and stuff
>I can tell she's genuinely into the conversation from her body language/expressions, i.e. no signs of discomfort (I'm not autistic unlike half this site)
>think alright fuck it, she seems cool and she's attractive
>ask if I can have her number
>she gives it to me without hesitating
>say "maybe we could hang out sometime yeah?"
>she says "yeah that would be great actually"
>we talk a bit more, she says if I text her maybe she could find some old paintings she made and send them to me
>conversation wraps up, I leave
>text her later that day, ask to hang out
>ate with her yesterday

>>216512124
>>216512527
I think I was more into her when we first met, and then after talking to her for like 2 hours I wasn't as into her. I also didn't notice how tall she was when I met her. Idk maybe if I keep hanging out with her I'll start to like her more. It would also be nice to lose my virginity.

>>216512527
idk this sounds like a good thing to continue with. not sure exactly how things could've changed so much between encounters. she obviously doesn't care bout the height

>>216513020
It's more me who cares about the height. I'm kinda off put by being eye level with her

>>216510173 (OP)
>didn't really feel that attracted to her.
You have to go on multiple dates to figure this out. You cannot know a person in depth after one 2 hour chat. If you enjoyed it, vibed well and aren't immediately repulsed then you keep trying.

>>216512527
holy Chad

>>216510173 (OP)
>barely ever even feel attraction to girls apart from physical.
This is called autism spectrum disorder btw, not joking

>>216513799
There are other reasons for that to happen other than 'tism

>>216510173 (OP)
how dyou even get a date
if it's from dating apps, you don't have to answer

>>216510173 (OP)
No I've never been on a date
I'm 5'6"