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Accept yourself, first and foremost. If you struggle with that, you'll never accept someone else as equal. If that means you must address issues within yourself, do so.
If you feel that you're already the perfect version of yourself, then address your ego next; you are a man, but only a man. One of millions. Unique in detail but worthless by comparison to all. And that is okay, you don't need to be anything but yourself.
Are you capable of love? If not, thats okay too- just don't waste the time and energy of another. But if you can let yourself love another, accept the initial weakness that comes with opening yourself up to another, then you might be ready.
Be calm, be generous, be honest. Not just with women, but with men too. Stay in your lane, don't speak over others. Women will notice that. The object is to catch their attention, right? Be different. Stand out. When they speak, listen to what they're saying, how they're saying it. So many men dont do that, even if its silly or pointless- ask them questions and they will remember you.
Don't push for sex. Be generous with compliments but keep it respectable. And, when they flirt back, be modest. Take it gratefully and graciously. Give her genuine attention, if there's a spark; do not ignite with gasoline, but gentle breaths. A good woman will see the good in you. A better woman will choose you for the rest of her life. And the best woman will bear children for you.
You can escape the life of a single man. So many good women are out there, desperate for a good man. So be that good man, for one of them. It is a lifelong process, being the best version of yourself. But you can do it.
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