>>64494986 (OP)
I think if it like this.
Are striker fired guns (sans p320) safe? Yes, but you must maintain nigh on perfect gun handling every hour of every day that you handle it, and it MUST be married to a holster to be safe. Competition shooters drive the meta unfortunately, and everyone wants to shoot like them. Add to that marketing about how "difficult" it is to learn to trigger pulls with a DA/SA and you see why they are so popular. Very cheap too produce, too. I'm my opinion, the SA trigger is like cheating on a DA/SA gun, so you really only have to learn the DA part.
I ditched striker fired guns. Now it's just a p32, 32 J frame or Px4. I really find it useful to have a handgun that is safe outside of the holster. I used to keep my g17 condition 3 (full mag, enough chamber) by the bedside. Now I just keep the px4 fully loaded, ready to go. I also carry the p32 and J frame with just a clip that is attached to the gun, I can't begin to tell you how convenient and comfortable that setup is over anything else.
Reject striker slop, return to DA.