How do I make friends post transition??

I used to be a gay twink but I found this board yrs ago and decided being a hrt femboy would be my best bet at being more attractive to men like I really never intended to be trans I just started passing and decided to just go with it.. It's been years now and I pass 100% but I'm really lonely and directionless

I dont like typical tranny things like anime,cars,guns,video games, etc

I'm not a transbian and find that they tend to ostracize me

I don't really fit in with regular cis women.. I was socialized by femcels my whole life and those were pretty much my only friends before I transitioned and they really hated hated trannies so I never came out to them I just went off the map out of shame

I feel like I belong no where, I transitioned in college and starting as a blank slate in your 20's is really hard. I'm incredibly shy to begin with and I don't know how to navigate my life now

I need someone to answer this im in aalmsot the same situation

>>40032741 (OP)
find a boyfriend and base your whole personality and identity around him like most cis women do

>>40032741 (OP)
If you actually pass and are feminine and attractive, then you should have no problem making friends. People should be coming uo to you. You live on easy mode now.

>>40032741 (OP)
>dont like typical tranny things
what do you like

>>40033842
I ruined things with my ex and im still sad over it i dont want a bf rn
>>40033879
That's really not true.. yes men approach me but theyre not looking to be friends

When it comes to women a lot of them are catty and mean af esp if theyre fat and ugly like most of my coworkers.. and I'm extremely shy and cant vibe with cis women I'm pretty much a femcel
>>40033932
Honestly nothing I spend most of my time daydreaming of a different life or chatting with people online when I'm not at work