Greetings trans women of lgbt.
I’m a chaser new to the scene. From what I understand, chaser means a man who is very interested in transgender girls. That fits my bill. I want to know what it is that trans girls want from their partners so I can be a better future husband. I’ve only dated girls and men till this point.

My goal is to find a transgender wife. Color of the skin does not matter. Race does not matter. As long as she fulfills the role of the wife and I fulfil the role of the husband and we like each other, things will be okay. The only dealbreaker is that my partner does not snip off their pp. I have read that those procedures are safer now, still. It is something I’d rather not see in my partner.

My statistics:
Good communication skills (will only be mean to my wife if it arouses them)
Good physique (workout 2-4 times a week)
Well endowed (blessed by god)
Have a job (paid internship but shhhh)
Very gentlemanly
Very funny
Very ambitious and goal driven (in fact, I have far too many goals!)

I’m very open minded and I wish to learn. So please do tell me how I can treat transgender women better.

Chaser means a man who trans women see as non-heterosexual.

>>40062486 (OP)
Why did she cut the steak like that

>>40062501
Stakes are hard to cut
>>40062486 (OP)
Welcome chaser post sex pics when you get a tgf and sleep with her

>>40062486 (OP)
what me (one of the trannies) wants
1) thinks or atleast pretends to think of me as a women
2) not openly racist
3) a 1 (one) hobby that doesnt involve a screen atleast
4) basic hygiene (negotiable)


what goals do you have anon, list some for me pretty please

>>40062501
i have a feeling she might've just chomped down on the steak? or she's just a menace

>>40062486 (OP)
trannies want a man who likes sucking dick and gets really turned by treating trannies like emasculated failed men.

>>40062486 (OP)
>I’ve only dated girls and men till this point.
use language right.

trans girls ARE a type of girl.
if you want to specify non-trans girl, say "cis girl"
if you don't do this and say things like: "man, woman, and transwoman" - you are revealing you do not see them under the category of women.
this makes us feel bad because we want to be / are women. :\

>>40062527
thats kinda basic
i fit all and more so how come i dont have a tranny gf yet

>>40062567
NO!!!

>>40062560
But fork?
Also her glass is sweating why is there no ac? Is she at home? Why did she pour her drink so long before getting her potato and steak ready?

>>40062486 (OP)
Post your pic and discord and then we'll talk

>>40062490
I see. Is this a problem? I want to have a trans wife. Should I not use the word chaser to describe myself.

>>40062501
Tasty wagyu A5 steak.

>>40062522
Sex is not the main goal. There’s much much more to life than just fucking. Like foreplau. And eating steak.


>>40062527
Yes, I want to shower my partner in a lot of love and affection. I’ve never been someone who’s felt insecure about myself since I’ve been so goal oriented. So I want to show all that extra love to my wife in whatever way makes her happiest.

I’m not racist. I would any transgender woman even if she was white, black, yellow, brown, etc. any other color on the spectrum. Vitiligo perhaps.

3) I have several hobbies that involve things that are not a screen.

4) I have not just basic hygiene, I have great hygiene! I smell like lavender and sandalwood.

>>40062576
how many trannies have you talked to irl?
how many have you talked to with romantic intentions?
where do you live?
how passing does a tranny have to be to attract you

>>40062579
maybe it was poured refrigerated? It doesn't take that long for a glass to get condensation. Especially if the glass isn't thick, and that glass looks pretty thin

>>40062586
sounds like you pass all the requirements anon
where do you live so i can come collect my husband

>>40062567
Interesting. I have no passion for sucking dick at all.

>>40062573
I apologize, I did not mean to offend any transgender women. I should’ve specified that I’ve only dated cis girls up until this point. Kindly accept my apology.

>>40062580
I think it’s better if most conversations happen here. That way I can learn from more people and more people can see what kind of person I am and determine if it’s worth talking to me further. If someone exceptional shows up that piques my interest and vice versa, I’ll do what I must to court them.


>>40062527
I forgot to mention goals. I have a list. I have it divided up into a variety of categories. For example, one category is related to travel. I don’t believe in travelling in the way that many do. There’s so much to do and see in a country that simply visiting for a week to see the tourist destinations would be a waste of time. At least 1-3+ months. If I go somewhere, I want to absorb as many experiences as possible and make as many memories as possible. The world is a truly beautiful place; giving one location only a few days worth of time is an insult to that place.

That’s the same logic I employ for almost everything in life: i do not half ass anything.

>>40062604
No you can tell the glass is insulated

>>40062629
that sounds very nice anon :3 i love to try new things so that style of travel is appealing

what are you looking for in a tranny

>>40062486 (OP)
>posts image about a girl who says she loves cows, but that they should kill more for steak while talking about liking transwomen
I see thorough you, you aren't killing and eating me, trannyeater!

>>40062633
daily reminder to ignore discordia when she comes into a thread and trys to start and argument and make everything about her

>>40062688
Wtf are you talking about. Holy fucking DDS

>>40062633
insulation? looks like an artistic decision. anyway, it can't be too insulated and with enough time, it'd have condensate
>>40062688
how is discordia making it about herself?

>>40062586
I know I just want to see you guys have sex

Location? Age?

>>40062579
Do not forget a highly important, yet overlooked detail: the thickness of the fries.

Anyone who has enjoyed fries knows that thick, blocky fries result in a fried exterior with a raw / mushy interior. The thin, slim cut fries are perfect for that crunch to soft balance.

>>40062626
Hahaha, I am not so simple anon who I assume is a pretty transgender girl. You must tell me about yourself first!

>>40062665
That is a very tough question. It’s like asking someone who’s never had amazing food before what amazing food tastes like: I dont know! I’ve never dated a transgender so I cannot say what exactly I want. But I do know that I want someone unique. Someone interesting. That could be a very reserved, chill girl. Or it could be a very active, outgoing girl. I’m open to anything. It all goes back to my original post: if I like her and she likes me, love will fill in the rest.

>>40062667
I would never kill someone unless they attempted to take my life first. And even then, I would simply fold their clothes while they are still wearing them in order to safely disarm them.


>>40062688
Who is discordia? They are just commenting on the glass, no?

>>40062709
she does this in literally every thread. she tries to start some random argument to draw attention to herself

>>40062730
She's a nice girl these chuds don't like her though bc she's a little racist and starts arguments sometimes but she's overhated

>>40062730
Of course, but it's not uncommon to see larger fries like those paired with steak so I'm lessed concerned by it.
>>40062737
I'm not racist

>>40062730
She won't admit she's racist btw don't listen to her

>>40062730
interesting, usually people have atleast a vague idea of ideal traits for a partner

to tell you about myself i am

dedicated to my romantic partners, i will love you with my entire being and do whatever i can to make you happy

i love to cook, especially dishes ive never tried before or would never have the opportunity to try where I love

I enjoy cleaning, keeping a nice and tidy home environment is important to me

Im decently active, i dont go to the gym but i keep myself fairly fit

im extremely eager to please, if sexual stuff is important to you ive been told im very good at blowjobs and i REALLY love giving them

i dunno how i can really assess myself on it but ive been told im funny

im maybe not as ambitious as you, I would be happy with a quiet life with someone I love, but im not at all opposed to adventure and big dreams

im not stupid and am in university

and im kind of autistic if it wasnt blatantly obvious from how i type

umm i dunno what else

>>40062719
Sex comes later silly anon.

>>40062727
Mid 20s, and in USA. though I travel from time to time.

>>40062737
I see. However, from what I understand they are using a name and trip code? Why would someone do that on an anonymous message board. Maybe if they’re a super frequent user. But then that begs the question; why are they so frequently on the site? Perhaps some red flags are hidden beneath.

>>40062754
Larger, thicker fries are never good. I’ve tried many types of fries and the thinly cut ones are superior for flavour, consistency and texture.

>>40062777
Why do you accuse this person of being racist

>>40062486 (OP)
you sound really cool and good bf material anon it makes me sad im ugly and far away and impossible to fix and 5'11 and etc etc cuz ill be alone forever...
HOWEVER if ur looking for advice from a tranny most trans woman like dominance, also most have some issues u will need to be ready for (body issues but often a lot more), and uhhm be nice to them, show them off and hold hands (unless they hate themself rly rly bad ig), dont be hateful/transphobic unless in a light-hearted way (or in the bedroom o.o), uh and cuddle with them often and uhhhhh be tall? ideally? not required???

>>40062810
>Why would someone do that on an anonymous message board.
Adding names so we can be recurring characters on the board I think
Silly and cute stuff
>Why do you accuse this person of being racist
Bit I started to tease her bc shes black but is only willing to date white and Asian guys

>>40062865
Do not worry, transgender girl anon. Despite your horrible use of commas and run on sentences, I fully understand what you are saying. Thank you for the advice. I will try to implement it as best as I can. If you did not insult yourself so heavily, I would have asked more about you. It is natural to have some feelings of insecurity, but if they are too great then I’m afraid I cannot deal with that. After all, I am looking for a wife not a daughter.

>>40062802

If you asked me to describe my ideal cis girl partner or male partner, I could do that more accurately. I haven’t tasted the gamut when it comes to transgender girls.

You seem interesting, so let me ask you some rather probing questions. If you are not comfortable, you need not answer.

What is/are your hottest takes?
Do you think you’d get along with the opposite gender version of yourself?
What are your top 3 food and bottom 2 foods of all time

>>40062486 (OP)
>I’m a chaser new to the scene
young meat for me to PLAP
do you have a phat bum?

>>40062590
>irl 0. but online a few
>0
>in canada
>look like a cis woman

>>40062810
I trust the fact that you know steak fries are lame more than I trust you saying you wouldn't kill someone as proof that you're not a serial killer. Personally, I love curly fries and shoe string cut

>>40062908
>hottest take
this is a pretty hard question tbhonest
it sounds kinda bad but i guess i think there is a portion of the population who is basically incapable of thinking for themselves (think crazy conspiracy theorists who latch into whatever they hear first and refuse to see reason) and they should probably have some kind of government protection

>would i get along with the opposite gender version of myself
this is kind of a hard question cos what gender would that be, i cant help but view myself as inherently male so ill answer it from that perspective

my best friend for many years is basically, as far as i can tell, a biologically female version of me. we have practically identical views on most things, the same sense of humour, very similar personalities and similar issues. so i think i would get along with an opposite gender version of myself

top 3 foods (in no order)
borscht
black forest cake
burritos

bottom 2 foods
peeps (tried one once and it immediately made my jaw hurt, i took that as my body rejecting them)
fish on its own (fried, baked, etc)

>>40062908
hey! i was listing stuff out its not a run on!!! also FUCK, blew it before it even started yet again... thats ok, you definitely deserve someone who is way more put together. good luck anon!!
(also forgot to mention do not fetishize trans woman and probably be a top its rare for normal well adjusted trans woman to want to think about their dicks or being born male cya gn!! <3)

>>40063047
oh and i forgot, what would you answer to those questions anon? o_0

>>40063056
oh AND AND what type of cis girls do you like
it would make me feel better if you didnt treat cis girls like an entirely separate category ;(

>>40062486 (OP)
>Doesn't have a good job
>Does not have a master's or above
You don't meet the bar for a cute trans. You can get one of those of gross speedhons from Summer Games Done Quick.

>>40062925
I workout my glutes, it is healthy to do so. But I’m not a bottom. I top only anon.

>>40062948
I couldn’t kill someone. Even if they were evil. Death is too easy of a way out for bad people, and is too hard of a way out for good people.

>>40063047
>think crazy conspiracy theorists
Hmm. I think I agree that they need some intervention, but perhaps it is the root cause that needs to be addressed: how misinformation propagates and spreads to begin with. Its a delicate balance ngl. Because if the American govt (example) becomes too strict on who can say what even if it’s for a supposed good cause, it’ll inevitably over extend a become like China.

I like your view on the opposite question. Says a lot about a person and their insecurities / confidences. I ask people that question all the time and they rarely say they’d get along well with their opposite version for one reason or another.

I can’t believe you put soup as your number 1. But thinking about borscht reminded me of a very pretty Russian person I met once upon a time.

As for your other favorite foods, I agree. They are good.

I have no clue what peeps are, and fish is definitely an acquired taste. I have a very funny story about my interaction with sardines, but it’s too long to write here. One day I’ll tell it.

>>40063055
There’s a difference between confidence and arrogance, humility and self hate. You must find your line anon. Don’t beat yourself up over it :)

>>40063056
My most controversial take is that many, many problems in the modern world (specifically developed nations) are a result of wealthier groups clashing with the needs of poorer groups. These things about race or ethnicity or religion, while they do have conflicts, is not nearly as divisive as the gap between the rich and the poor. I’ve been to many countries, developed and undeveloped, and seen both sides. It is very gross. Many people do not realize how influential, how wealthy and how powerful some of these folk are at the top. With that being said, I don’t know how to fix such an issue. My only semi solution is to become a wealthier individual myself to insulate myself from many of these worries. Bills, health, happiness, etc.

>>40063071
Any type. Chubby, skinny, active, home bodies.
There’s a saying I read once that I liked: there’s no such thing as bad food. Only bad chefs. Be what you want to be, just do it well.

>>40063086
I do not know what half of those words mean anon

This thread is too much text. I must send images.

>>40062501
>>40062579
>>40062633
You are now diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder

>>40062486 (OP)
>The only dealbreaker is that my partner does not snip off their pp
>It is something I’d rather not see in my partner
you deserve to be brutally executed in front of all of your family and friends
do not date trans women, you do not love them, and you never will thinking like that
if you genuinely can not see the fault in barring your TRANS WOMAN PARTNER from getting srs you need to be put in the eternal agony contraption
you're the same as every other rapey chaser on this godforsaken planet, and deserve a painful death all the same

>>40063165
i can see that, i do think government protection could come in many forms, and i think a crackdown on blatant misinformation would be good for society as a whole

and soup is delicious, i love soups and stews
theyre not the most “fancy” dish out there but i think you can learn a lot about nations and cultures from their stews and soups. its like a window into their culinary mindset.
and borscht is nice to eat in winter, my favourite season :3

peeps are picrel, some kind of weird american marshmallows idk

>>40063185
i agree 100% with this take, i would even go a little further and say racial and national conflicts are often made a lot worse or even outright manufactured by the ultra-wealthy to distract people and generate profits

and thats a good outlook to have anon ^w^ i really like that
for me personally at the end of the day personality is 85% of attraction

>>40063217
I did not say that I do not want transgender women to get SRS. I simply said that I would not want my partner to get it. It is my preference, silly. Will you fault someone for having preferences?

>>40063249
If those are the peeps that disgust you, I shall not recommend you try Haggis, pork blood soup, black pudding, or hárkarl.

I also enjoy the winter since I tend to get very warm very quickly. But I do not like shovelling all the snow.

I’m glad you agree with me, but you must not agree so readily! You must hold your own opinion against mine. That’s how people grow. If you agree with me too much, you might put me on a pedestal. Many would abuse such a power.

As for that final split, I’m surprised you put such a high value on personality. I’ve met many people whose personality is amazing, but I’d never marry them or date them. At the end of the day, one aspect of having a wife is to be able to enjoy their body just as they will enjoy mine. Sexual compatibility is important. So for me, it would have to be a solid 50/50 down the line.

With that being said, here’s a tougher question: are you happy with how you look? What would you change, and why?

I say this because I’ve noticed that amongst transgender people, FFS and SRS seems to be something they desire. But when I look at women who want to get lip fillers, BBL, rhinoplasty, or some other type of cosmetic surgery, they will talk about it as if it is the greatest thing in their life. But once they actually do it… it’s like nothing changed. They are still the same person internally.

>>40063311
>It is my preference, silly
you really can't see the problem, can you
my preference is that you die in agony

>>40062810
>why are they so frequently on the site? Perhaps some red flags are hidden beneath
you don't say

>>40063343
nta what if his trans woman partner doesn't want srs either

>>40063311
its not that peeps disgust me
i mean like it physically made my jaw HURT

>you might put me on a pedestal
oops :3

i dont judge you for being 50/50 split its just for me if someone has a personality i can really love the attraction will follow

i become attracted to their body as a result of my attraction to their personality because a good personality makes me love everything about a person

for me i am definitely not happy with how i look
i dont feel that i look feminine enough
i would in a perfect world want to get ffs and maybe a shoulder reduction
there are many things i dislike about my body :/
as for your concern about srs, i personally dont want to get it at the moment
i dont think the technology is there, the maintenance would just remind me that im not a woman rather than the presence of a srsussy being affirming

i dont think getting cosmetic surgery will change me as a person but i believe it would change my relationship with my body

>>40062810
>USA
>flavour
?

>>40063545
just means she was groomed by someone else like him to think that, its all just abuse all the way down. kill kill kill

>>40063343
There is no need to be upset at me anon. I’m just a random stranger on the internet.

>>40063545
That’s what IM sayin

>>40063554
If those soft things made your jaw hurt… no wonder you like soup :P


Why is it that so many transgender people are unhappy with their physical appearance? Of course, that idea is shared across all people: cis guys, cis girls, mtf, ftm, etc. but I’ve noticed that negative outlook a lot more in transgender women than cis girls or otherwise. Why? Are yall too harsh on yourself or do you believe it’s justified? Just earleir in the thread there was a person who came out the gate bashing themselves repeatedly.

>>40063570
i don't want srs... i wish i could have had such parts to begin with, but surgery is really awful in general and biotech isn't really advanced enough for me to be comfortable

>>40063597
Discordia will tell you that this means youre a man somehow.

>>40063570
o my goodness i gotta disagree. i have faith that they are an intelligent human being who can make their own decision

>>40063592
i like u brother. u seem chill

>>40062486 (OP)
Lie about being a chaser. Lie about being able to clock or identify trannies.

>>40063592
its not that my jaw is weak TwT i dont know what is in those things but my body immediately rejected it
like immediate pain, get this thing out of me!!

well i think trans women specifically are very negative about our appearance because every aspect of my body that is too masculine is a reminder that I will never ever no matter what surgery i get or how hard I try to pass ever be a real woman

i will always be a man playing pretend and that makes me feel sick to my stomach and want to die. im critical of my appearance because my body is basically the worst thing that has ever happened to me

i am compelled to obsess over every detail that could possibly be improved to make me feel less disgusted by myself

>>40063605
rent free???

>>40063592
>Why is it that so many transgender people are unhappy with their physical appearance?
so theres this mental illness called gender dysphoria, and its actually the basis for most trans ppls desire to transition. what this illness does is basically tell you that everything about you is fundamentally wrong and has always been wrong because your gender/sex is not your own. your gender/sex belongs to that person over there tho, and now you can compare and contrast how different you are to them and why you can never be them because of puberty (entirely out of your control) and you therefore are trapped in the wrong body. forever.

>>40063165
>I couldn't kill someone
If that's true, you're already better than most of the people I've known. I've been drinking tonight, so maybe my judgement's off, but between that and you being confused as to what being a chaser means, I kinda like you. What kinda things do you like? Sorry if that's something you've already answered. Like I said, drink's taking effect

>>40063217
>>40063343
>>40063570
I have had it with people like you from anywhere on this godforsaken planet!

You disgusting, wretched, obsessive, narcissistic, self-centered, self-absorbed, MTFreaks are not the sole correct way to be trans women!

You weren't even the first kind of trans women discovered, and you disgusting Harry Benjaminite honscums deserve all the suffering, torture, and eventual painful deaths that you wish on others!

There is nothing wrong with being a woman with a penis! There is nothing wrong with wanting a woman with a penis! There is nothing wrong with looking for women, be they trans, be they cisgender, be they endosex, be they intersex, non-binary, or whatever fucking combination that you can come up with! There is nothing wrong with looking for a woman who either has a dick and wants to keep it, or wants to have one eventually, you absolute fucking trashfire!

I hope that you are not only killed slowly, but that you are tortured for a prolonged period first, and violated by groups of people, and hopefully animals to boot. I hope you are resurrected repeatedly so it can be done to you again and again.

People like you? Who not only make wanting a vagina the sole sum of their personality and identity, but who also weaponize that against others?!

THERE IS NONE MORE VILE THAN YOU AND YOUR FUCKED TYPE OF SCUM! You might be trans, but you share no community with me. Your dysphoria is no excuse for obsessive mental illness to this degree.

"ALL OTHER TRANS WOMEN WHO DON'T WANT GRS MUST HAVE BEEN GROOMED OR ABUSED INTO WANTING TO KEEP THEIRS", TRANSLATION: EVERYONE WHO ENJOYS SOMETHING I DON'T MUST BE WRONG. A BOOK WRITTEN BY SOME WORTHLESS DICKHEAD.

>>40062486 (OP)
as a very non-straight; married transgirl; i will offer the following:

please do not see us or think of us in some one dimensional manner; especially in a sexual focused way

though some enjoy that; it tends to be what gives your chaser ilk a bad reputation; we are full and complete and complicated human beings; likely even moreso than any cisnormatice person simply because we have had to undertake this great risk and challenge and keap of faith and desperation for the simple goal of being our true selves; though our reasons differ and vary; supposedly many straight girls transition simply to pursue straight men; but for most of us i think a universal truth is the simple need to be authentic; so please- be authentic to us

do not make us your dirty little secret you wont share to friends or family; we have a hard enough time with the powers of society desperately trying to erase and exterminate us- so please; let us find a sense of community and peace and family; keep us safe and stand up to those who would stand against our rights and needs

love deeply and freely and without constraints or conditions and do t run the other way and abandon us at the first sign of friction

most of us have been through atleast some traumatic mistreatment or abuse; so please dont add to that

we may not be able to give you a child but i believe most of us can give you a deep; visceral and real love that will surpass many "normal" people who are fickle and throw away good people far too readily

understand and be considerate of our needs and unique experience; and dont discard us just because we may have a mental issue or two; again- our most trusted people in our lives; our families & parents; routinely disown us or even harm us for being who we are and daring to defy their selfishness; be patient with us and be reliable and loving

if you can hold yourself to decency i believe you will find one of us could be the love of your life

treat us with the gravity we deserve

>>40062486 (OP)
>chaser
Im a chaser on grindr. The more trannies I fuck and interact the more I come to despise you mentally ill faggots. Always drugs addicts, fat, ugly, their asses nasty as fuck, mother fuckers in their 40-60's in dresses on there hitting me up make me wanna puke. Its going to get to a point where im just to work and save my money so I can go to thailand and fuck all the pretty passing ladyboys for a few months instead of dealing with these disgusting abominations on grindr.

Im on grindr to fuck raw and shoot my load inside a hot tranny. It drives me up the fucking wall when I see a retarded tranny who puts "not looking to hookup, looking for a boyfriend/relationship". Stop wasting everyone's time there. Out of 100 trannies on there only 1 will be worth anyones time.

>>40063612
You don’t need to compliment me, anon hahaha. Thank you regardless.

>>40063622
Clock trannies? I googled this and it says to spot the difference between a cis girl and a transgender girl. Is that the definition or sosmthing else

>>40063634
Ah, I sort of get what you mean now. Well, when you put it like that it does sound really unfortunate for trans girls. Always being reminded of their past. But in a different sense, isn’t that good? I mean, if a trans girl makes good progress towards her goals, I can imagine her taking a step back to look at the bigger picture and being happy with all the progress she’s made. I suppose it’s a matter of view points. But Trans girls certainly seem to have the deck stacked against them. I suppose that’s why I admire them even more; to look pretty and be beautiful regardless of how difficult the path is.

>I will always be a man
Careful there silly anon. You might be falling into a self fulfilling prophecy. I wish I could tell you about the story of the boy and the ox, but it’s too long to send here. So I’ll simply have to say this: naïveté is obviously not a great thing to have. But being super negative to yourself won’t help either! Find the balance silly anon.

>>40063641
Ah, I’ve read about this before. Or rather, something similar. Anorexia in women. It is a similar concept, yes? They will starve and starve themselves, subsisting on less than 1000 calories a day for weeks to months on end just to shed a few extra lbs. but in reality, they never needed to go that far. And in fact, they shouldn’t have gone that far as it would result in damage to their body. But they do it anyway.

To me, gender dysphoria seems to be somewhat similar; the initial intentions are not wrong. A person wants fo change themselves. But it’s the process of those intentions becoming warped and misguided that might be the reason people call it a mental illness? That’s what I assume might be the case.

>>40063217
Lol my partner doesn't want that surgery and she lets me suck her off. She is a woman.

>>40063638
literally

>>40063738
for me i dont find there to be any nobility in being trans
if i could make myself a cis woman i would in a heartbeat
i dont know if i would choose to be a cis man just to be free of the distress being trans causes me

and its not that im intentionally being negative, sorry
i moreso meant it as, there will always be parts of me i cant change, and that makes me sad no matter how hard i work to move past it

>>40063664
Drinking alcohol anon! Well, that is up to you. I tried a few sips of it one time and didn’t like it at all. I’d much prefer a coke or a Pepsi. Although I have heard of new non alcoholic versions that still give people the “buzz”, or that rush that people say alcoholic drinks give them. I like a lot of things. But, to keep my already lengthy responses short,

I like experiences over materialistic things. During my short travels I’d often photograph things I came across. But then I thought to myself, why am I taking a photo of this moment? To me, reliving that moment through a memory is much, much greater than looking at a photo. But there is a certain nostalgia factor in seeing a photo. I don’t know, I suppose I’m a purist in that sense.

I also greatly enjoy food and good company. I’d prefer a week in the slums with friends than a week alone in the best hotels surrounded by the greatest amenities. Although, I have done both to some degree so I am a bit biased when I say this: if the hotel food is good enough, it makes it just a bit better of an option hahahah

>>40063690
You’ve got the right spirit anon, but perhaps you are getting a bit too riled up hahaha. Sometimes it’s best to just say a few words and let bygones be bygones. I don’t let them bother me, so why do you let them bother you?

>>40063697
Point taken :) your writing style reminds me of Christian missionaries for some reason. Or those gospel church televangelists lol.

There are some other comments I wanted to make about what you said, but it would just be semantics. I agree with pretty much all of it.

>>40062629
>I apologize, I did not mean to offend any transgender women. I should’ve specified that I’ve only dated cis girls up until this point. Kindly accept my apology.
I get such a power trip from seeing chasers get on all fours and beg for forgiveness when they inevitably (!) make a dumb mistake like this.

To be serious, I hope you understand that women, trans women, people in general, are all unique, and asking "what do [X group of people] want from a partner?" will either give you bad advice or very general advice. Everyone has their own preferences. Of course there are stereotypes and some of them might be rooted in reality, but really the best thing you can do is to be the best version of yourself that you can be, and find someone who likes YOU, rather than trying to become what you think women want. Maybe you'll try to become more loud and assertive because somebody told you that's what women want, and then you meet the girl of your dreams who actually prefers quiet shy guys. So just be yourself and continue doing self-improvement according to your own values. Really there is no difference between asking "what kind of man do (trans) women want?" and "what is men's favorite food?". Pretty bizarre question, no?

Another piece of advice I'll give you is that people on 4chan speak defferently than people IRL. If you date trans girls IRL, pay attention to using respectful language. Calling yourself a chaser will probably not go over well with most trans women. Using the word tranny is almost guaranteed to fumble the date. And like somebody mentioned, try not to speak as if trans women aren't contained within "women".

>>40063737
You’re riding the hedonistic treadmill my friend. It’s not something one should stay on for too long, and in fact one should never get on it to begin with. I hope you figure out what you truly need in life. If the first ass you fucked ain’t satisfy you, and the next 10 asses u fucked ain’t satisfy you, perhaps it ain’t the asses that’s the problem. Perhaps it’s you.

>>40063742
I think this is the key point: different people want different things. It seems like some of the more outspoken people of the transgender community are trying to make a blanket decision for all the people within the group, even if they may not agree with it. What else is new eh

>>40063759
Yes, I get what ur saying. If only one could make that decision so easily. I wish I could be more sympathetic to those feelings but I can’t. I’ve never struggled with such a problem, so I can’t comprehend it in the way you do.

For some reason this reminded me of a morbid memory. I had a friend who wanted to kill himself. The reasons were probably significant at the time, but looking back were pretty meaningless; some family squabbles, some issues with a relationship or perhaps a problem at work. But instead of trying to talk him out of it, for some reason I told him this: suicide is a permanent solution to what could very well be a temporary problem.

Now I ain’t saying for you or anyone to kill themselves lol. But what I am saying is that this extreme negativity you feel, perhaps it is just a passing moment. After all, isn’t there a term for this? A passoid? Someone who has “completed” the transition, at least to a degree they find acceptable? Today you may not be where you want to be. But perhaps a month from now you will be. So ditch the negative mindset silly anon. Or don’t! It’s your life. You make the choices.

>>40063738
ok well im not super knowledgeable about either anorexia or gender dysphoria (latter comes mostly from personal experience) but its not really a fair comparison even if it is reasonable at a glance. im kind of stupid and just spitballing but hear me out on this.
anorexia is caused almost entirely by societal standards (as shown by non-western countries becoming more anorexic upon exposure to western media). gender dysphoria, while similar, is caused by social standards in a different way, because while women are technically a social phenomena, females are not. gender dysphoria, in most real cases at least, is caused by differential development in the womb between the brain and body. if certain hormones wash over the body at the wrong times during development, a phenomenon can happen where the brain develops in a female-leaning pattern while having a male body (so almost literally female mind trapped in male body). we know there is gendered attachment between the brain and the body in this way for a few reasons, but john moneys case is the most famous example. there is something to be said about people developing gender dysphoria after birth through upbringing but uhhhhh.... idk about all that.
all i know is that everything about the way my body has developed feels fundamentally wrong to me, entirely against the way ive wanted it to develop since i was young, and living literally inside of that development 24/7 causes intense mental stress all the time.
also all of that aside, anorexia is completely different because anorexia is damaging by definition, while its actually pretty easy to transition without doing any real damage (and imo even with srs a successful srs is only as damaging to the body as any cosmetic surgery)
but those are just my thoughts, i thought too much and its late so im gonna go to bed anon. hope you find a good wife and hope all of this helps u understand! <3

>>40063788
Because I was told I couldn't be fucking trans, okay? I was also told, ironically, I couldn't be intersex. Turns out I'm both. And I have gotten DNA tests to prove that, definitively, as well. But that's why I don't just let bygones be bygones with these bitches! Bitches like who I'm raging out at are why I didn't end up going on HRT until I was twenty-fucking-seven, okay? Bitches like them who have told everyone else that there's no such thing as any kind of trans woman except for the kind that cries every night wishing they were a cis girl. Guys, girls like this who fuckin' say that unless you're on SRS, you're a fetishist, you're delusional, you're all this, they're why people like me all over the world wind up dead or living miserable lives either in ignorance or suppression of what would otherwise enable us to live our best lives potentially! Like, I also wound up finding out that I literally physically can't have GRS! My intersex condition means I have an internal vagina, more or less fused with my asshole. I've got an IRL bussy. If they tried to give me standard vaginoplasty, or whatever the fuck it's called now, I would likely wind up bleeding out on the operating table in minutes.

So all those MTF lizard-hun bitches, with their receding hairlines, their fucking giant balloon bazoonga airbag tits, and their fucking awful fashion with no irony or self-awareness parading around pointing their fucking fingers at people like me and saying that we're fetishists that we're not real?! FUCK EM! Fuck em with a chainsaw to the ass for all I care, because they literally don't fucking see me as human and they don't deserve my mercy after decades of subjugating us willingly, eagerly, and premeditatedly.

>>40063821
While I appreciate the advice, I did not get on my knees to beg or grovel for forgiveness.
“The person who asks a question is a fool for a minute,
the person who does not ask is a fool for life.”

Your advice, while nice, is nothing new anon. I made this thread stating who I am and what I want, while at the same time saying I’m open to hear others viewpoints. If I shifted and bent over backwards every time someone came along with their own opinion, I wouldn’t be very much of anything at all.

But once again, I appreciate the gesture :)

>>40063788
As someone who has too much cheap vodka in her system, I will try to speak to you as someone who does not, lol. It really is good to not drink and even if soda is barely better, it is indeed better. (Although, you should drink something like root beer if you wish to truly be refined :p)
>I like experiences over materialistic things
I agree, I just have bad experiences, so I like the material
But, if you'd like to show me a good experience, haha...
You seem smart enough and like a good person. I hate to sound old, but you sound younger than me. I do like you, but like I saud already, I'm a bit deep in the vodka rn, so I understand if you feel weird speaking to me

>>40063834
i do try and be as positive as possible

anyways on a happier note, tell me some of your hobbies anon

>>40063788
well i am a Nun afterall )* just not a christian one

i suppose ill take that as a comiment in any case :)

im glad you can get behind what i said; i think you seem genuine and eager and i certainly hope you will find a great deal of happiness in your future with one of us irreplaceable transgirls :)

good luck sire; may Her blessings align your future )*

>>40063887
Kassandra lore drop

>>40063887
I don't mean this in a mean way but you look kinda uncanny, Like a russian pocelain doll with subtle unnatural exaggerated features. Maybe it's just the makeup and headress

>>40063843
You do have a point anon. I didn’t view it that way. I’ve never read anything about it like that in the sense that it is a biological process that happens in the womb. While you do bring good points I’d still say there is definitely a component that is societal. I’d write more as a response but you’ve gone to sleep! Sleep well anon.

>>40063849
Wow, so unlike the majority of trans people who were born as one gender or another, you got hit with both at once. How long did your life go on like this? Were there any early signs? I imagine there had to be, but you say you only began taking HRT at 27. From what I’ve read that is a bit later in life.

All of this reminds me of the femboys and trans wives in Ancient Egypt. Well, not so ancient. Maybe during the pharaohs time all the way till the 500CE and around there: to them, there was only male and female. But the way they split it was interesting: it was based on purpose and roles. If a cis woman acted like a man, dresses like a man, and fulfilled the role of a man, she would very likely be considered a man. Similarly, if a boy acted like a girl, dressed like a girl and fulfilled the roles of a girl, he would be considered a girl flat out.

I liked that idea, as simple as it was. Today there seems to be so much more unnecessary distinction. “If you don’t have X, you don’t belong to Y group” and things along those lines. Seems so unnecessary. People on their own are fine. It’s when they start getting into larger and larger groups that things start to get out of hand. You know, when they begin to follow the same thought processes and all dress the same way, and wear the same armbands and wear the same hats. They don’t think for themselves. It’s unfortunate.

>>40063863
It is getting pretty late, so you should rest. If you drop your discord we can talk more in the morning :) I don’t use 4chan super often so I doubt I’d make another thread unless I really felt I had to.

>>40063875
I’ve mentioned it quite a bit above! I figure it is kind of problematic trying to give everyone my thoughts. I don’t like to ramble, but when I read back what I wrote I can’t help but think “how the hell am I gonna condense this further”. So I end up leaving huge walls of text.

I’ll summarize!

I pick up new hobbies all the time. I don’t care about productivity, so long as I have fun I wil do it. Whether that be spending a lot of time on a video game, or training intensely for a random sport like rock climbing or table tennis, or even just finding fun in the mundane. It might be just how my brain is, but I can never really be bored. I’ll always find a way to have fun no matter what.

>>40063887
Her blessing? Interesting. I decided to google your name and some very interesting results came up. I won’t lie, to an outsider like me it seems like you decided to go down this path as a sort of “cope” for your situation. But I shouldn’t use that word, I feel it had negative context. The only person I truly believe in is myself. I can’t fathom relying on or believing in something else to such an extent that you’d worship it. But to each their own. I don’t judge, so long as you’re content with it. I can’t imagine typical Christians being very happy or approving of your approach, lol.

>>40063907
Is this what the term clocky means? Or is that something else.
Although I am not saying this comment to snark anyone in the thread, I remembered something i observed about people in my travels and life in general: the ones who were truly beautiful, or truly excelled in their cause, or otherwise were the top authority. These people didn’t need to take extreme opinions. They were completely comfortable with themselves. A past partner I had was very beautiful, and yet i never saw her put much makeup on or wear super nice clothes unless I bought them for her. Her reason was that these were all things just meant as a way to court others. In her words, “how many girls do you know that are putting on makeup behind closed doors just for themselves?”
It’s all just a show in the end

>>40063934
>if you drop your discord we can talk more in the morning :)
Idk if I'm just too drunk to have noticed, but am I the first person you asked for a discord with? That makes me feel somewhat good, I guess. Even though, now that I've sat down again, I'm struggling to think a bit. My discord's
char047188

>>40064015
listening to this anon talk is what is an experience i can only compared to being a member of an uncontacted tribe in the 1600s meeting a european explorer who has good intentions but is just very confused about our customs, and his translator is from a tribe 2 valleys over that speaks a slightly different dialect

>>40064035
Yeah, I’m not sure if I’ll make a new thread just yet. I met a lot of people, but not the specific one I’m looking for just yet. Who knows. I’ve added you :)

>>40064060
Damn, I didn’t know I typed that oddly lol

>>40064073
i didnt mean it as an insult anon
its just like
the aura you give off is a of a worldy victorian (perhaps i meant 1800s not 1600s) gentleman explorer who is well travelled. perhaps the kind who documents his travels through the medium of small watercolour paintings
like you mean well and are genuinely curious but you just arnt familiar with the culture.

>>40064086
like if you were immortal i can imagine you dying on an amazonian river voyage from a venomous bite, or freezing on an arctic expedition after your boat runs aground on ice. dying of third in the sahara wearing a pith hat. being trampled by an elephant you got too curious about in the indian subcontinent. etc etc

>>40064086
Oh, hahahah. I’m not that special or learned, and I definitely haven’t travelled all that much. I’d say it’s probably because I spent a good bit of my childhood away from internet completely, so I grew up with just my own thoughts and what little observations I could make of the world. I do plan on sleeping soon, I don’t know if I should drop my discord or just make a new thread tomorrow. Hmm

>>40064115
sleep well anon
sorry for imagining you as an immortal british gentleman dying in a variety of ways that seems kind of psychotic

>>40064153
That’s the power of the internet. You can imagine me as whatever you’d like anon. Go wild with it.

I’m going to leave my discord here just for the night, if anyone’s found what I wrote interesting and think they fit the bill, go ahead and add me! I’ll respond in the morning cuz god damn, it is late.

seventeen_sticklers

>>40062490
Tbf it's kind of abused to mean anyone looking for a trans partner, abuse which I've participated in, and inadvertently offended someone on this board. Maybe we need another name.

>>40064167
tbhonest i dont think i fit what youre looking for in a partner but best of luck anon o7 find the tranny girl of your dreams

>>40062486 (OP)
I'm looking for a man who will kill my rapist
For real though I want someone who's a gold star ally. Someone who can be kind to me, animals, and a good father to our kids. I'm also down bad for academics.

>>40063887
**compliment
>>40063907
ive been told that many times; truthfully i dont take many selfies without makeup; dysphoria and all; youve probably seen the recent pink tshirt one and the stripes one so heres an old one from last years solar eclipse

>>40063893
<3

>>40064007
your not wrong; it started as a cope to save myself from suicide over a terrible heartbreak in 2007; but what begannas romantic fantasy evolved into my spirituality and eventually into the religion i practice today; my greatest hope aside from a happy peaceful life together with my beautiful wife is that someday enough people will be willing to open their souls to Ellaphae that this faith and her virtues and message can continue in this world long after i am gone; the world desperately needs something better; the millenia of hatred and violence and killings over the divided abrahamics must stop; and equally important the epidemic of horrible careless cruelty and meanness amongst people must also be stopped or this world will meet its end

i truly believe everything i say; and i believe my goddess and ways is precisely what could calm thia chaotic world and bring people together thru the simple universality of love

but you are correct; most ridicule me and call me crazy; they ignore all the positives i endlessly speak of and simply seek to silence me; but i remain compelled to try to spread this message of love and faith; i dont know why i am so driven; and i wish i was not so crippled and in pain all the time so i could do much more to try to spread this wonderful thing that has helped my life so much; indeed everything of my life today is directly because of my goddess and her effects on me and my life; through the medium and spectrum of love that i have always existed to swim in forever

i can only hope that someday some people will be serious about trying to take the journey i did; i am certain Ellaphae would shine upon any heart that has invited her brightness and warmth

>>40064256
what are the actual tenants of your religion

>>40064294
see >>40063811 for an overview

picrel are the core virtues; but i need to rewrite this for better clarity; its from 2022

>>40062486 (OP)

this is AI

feds aint even tryin anymore theyre just outsourcing their psyops to chatgpt

>>40063934
>>Wow, so unlike the majority of trans people who were born as one gender or another, you got hit with both at once. How long did your life go on like this? Were there any early signs? I imagine there had to be, but you say you only began taking HRT at 27. From what I’ve read that is a bit later in life.

All of this reminds me of the femboys and trans wives in Ancient Egypt. Well, not so ancient. Maybe during the pharaohs time all the way till the 500CE and around there: to them, there was only male and female. But the way they split it was interesting: it was based on purpose and roles. If a cis woman acted like a man, dresses like a man, and fulfilled the role of a man, she would very likely be considered a man. Similarly, if a boy acted like a girl, dressed like a girl and fulfilled the roles of a girl, he would be considered a girl flat out.

I liked that idea, as simple as it was. Today there seems to be so much more unnecessary distinction. “If you don’t have X, you don’t belong to Y group” and things along those lines. Seems so unnecessary. People on their own are fine. It’s when they start getting into larger and larger groups that things start to get out of hand. You know, when they begin to follow the same thought processes and all dress the same way, and wear the same armbands and wear the same hats. They don’t think for themselves. It’s unfortunate.

You know I'm sad. I wanna actually reply to this but I'm going for my "In Water" ending IRL.

>>40062486 (OP)
What are your expectations in terms of sex?

>>40063934
There were tons of signs. However, I'm literally at a bridge and I'm ready to throw myself over it into the water. I'm sorry, anonymous. It's time for my IRL "In Water" ending.

>>40064198
Oh wow, thread is still up. Thank you for the good luck anon

>>40064252
I might fit that, except the killing part. There’s pretty much no one that’s worth killing.

>>40064256
Is Ellephae someone you know? Where did this name come from.

>>40065163
Nah. But people have claimed that. Been writin the same way for a couple of years now.

>>40065605
What do you mean “in water” ending, anon?

>>40065621
Sexual compatibility is probably a 1/3rd or a 1/4th of a good relationship. Obviously as time goes on, the importance of that drops off. Life ain’t like the videos where I’m gonna be fucking my partner 4 times a day. Aint trying to put them in diapers.

>>40065784
Throwing yourself to your death is a permanent solution to what could very well be a temporary problem. If you do do it, just remember there ain’t no take backsies

>>40062486 (OP)
do not ever tell a tranny that you have ever even considered fucking men. trannies are extremely homophobic

>>40065823
"In Water" was an ending in Silent Hill 2. The MC drives their car into a River to kill themselves.

Yeah yeah I know. Permanent solution to temporary problems. I used to hear that in the Marines.

I am sorry everyone. They found out my parents aren't my parents. I'm not just an orphan either. Hospital found scar tissue up my ass. Lots of it from long ago. I'm a trafficking victim. I have no friends. No family. Nothing. Not because I never had any either. I have had soulmates killed in front of me. I miss them so much and no one understands. People tell me I should hate my first dead lover.

>>40065941
just do it already ugly

>>40065823
What should I do if I have a low libido? I don't want to be forced into sex or get the cold shoulder if I don't offer myself.

>>40065941
I've been rescued from myself. So I guess I go for new game plus again after all...

>>40065971
LMAO. Okay, yeah sure I'll just go through everything that DYING entails, as well as attempting to make myself DIE UNNATURALLY, because of ONE random fucktard who calls me "Ugly"?

Legitimately I hope you don't get hurt anytime soon. I hope that before anything bad happens to you for a good long while you feel like you're living your best life and you find your best reflection in the mirror. Then I hope you get gang raped violently and sadistically until you hope that you will never look good again to anyone!

>>40066125
its not only your appearance that is horrifically ugly

i love being a hot pre-op tranny that refuses to date or entertain sex at all until after srs because it means i get to deny chasers the one thing they think they want but will most likely never get.

chasers that pretend to want to be with a trans woman only to then exclude any trans woman with an expressed interest in srs are literal scum.

it goes beyond a simple preference. it is predatory by nature. dysphoria is a medical condition. saying you only will love trans women if they have a dick is like saying you only love a cancer patient if they choose to forego treatment. or that you will only love someone that is mentally ill if they don't seek help.

there may exist some trans women who are fine with their penis, and someone with this preference should hope that they end up with someone like this. that in and of itself is a fine pairing, one i do not have issue with - but that is not what usually happens. chasers with this preference will seek out any trans woman they find attractive, regardless of her preference, simply due to the rarity of hot trannies. they will then seek to discourage or actively prevent her from seeking srs if she expresses a desire to get srs simply because they rationalize that they will almost certainly not find another hot tranny who is into them.

the ones who say they don't do this, quite frankly, are liars. having the preference of "woman with penis" at all is essentially interchangeable with this pattern of behaviors. you are disgusting, vile creatures and this particular hot tranny sees you for what you are. i hope you never know love and every tranny you meet wants srs and sees through your manipulative bullshit.

i cannot wait to get srs so that i am not desired by such rotten coombrained fetishists as yourself.

>>40066239
>dysphoria is a medical condition
and most trannies nowadays don't have it

>>40066239
yeah I'm still not fucking the srsussy ax wound

>>40065823
no it is just a name i chose for my goddess and religion; after ~15 years of not knowing what to call her or my faith

>>40066463
isnt your god a random blonde woman?

>>40066239
I would like to get SRS, but I know that I'm too scared and poor to actually do it. So I think I might be okay with doing sex stuff, as long as I don't have to top or feel like super fetishized

>>40062527
>2) not openly racist
so if I'm low key racist, that's fine, right?

>>40066493
yeah im with you anon. i could have (and have had) sex, and through being picky and not settling for bottom chasers it is still pretty fulfilling usually. it's definitely something that can be done, but my experience going that route is kinda why im anti-sex anti-relationship now desu. i found that most people are very averse to change in their partners, even if they are otherwise supportive. im lucky enough to have very good insurance that has covered basically everything, FFS/BA/VFS/orchi and eventually srs.

literally every person ive tried to be with has actively discouraged me from pursuing surgeries, saying i dont need it or its too risky etc. that's when i decided i had no business being in a relationship while im still transitioning. fact is these fuckers dont get it, are never gonna get it, and won't even really try to get it. maybe im just overly cynical, i mean i can acknowledge there's surely an exception to this rule out there. but my advice: dont seek relationships with cis people while you're still pursuing your surgeries and such. they won't get it. and this isn't an endorsement of t4t necessarily either, because often times i've found them to be just as obtuse and discouraging about surgery - usually because they aren't in as fortunate of a position and refuse to change anything about their circumstances to get surgery themselves, so they discourage it in others or pretend like someone who obviously needs ffs doesn't need it because they personally can't afford it or whatever. i find this behavior much less repulsive than cis chasers who basically just see you as a fetish dispenser, but it's still pretty repulsive.

i'll date in a couple years after ive had bbl and srs i guess.

>>40066499
yes, just don't be annoying about it and make it your whole identity. Same with smoking weed once and then vs being one of those retarded 420 weedhead

>>40066470
my personal version/appearence of her; called an Epitome of the goddess; yes thats correct; i know nothing about the actual person and she will never know i exist; thats all irrelevant to my faith; it is solely through her beauty and my own feelings which opened a connection to the goddess of the universe for me (which i call Ellaphae)

i am certain i also saw her through others i have loved in my life; especially my first love; and that is why those experiences were so formulative to who i am; and why i love the way that jmi love; why i am so overwhelmingly compelled by these feelings

i worship love; and my soul has found that love can have a ohysical form; atleast conceptually; that is how it all works

i have no mythology or weird slancient twisted stories or legends; i have only my life as i have lived it; unembellished and true

>>40066499
hi, its me who posted that, yes
just dont shove it in my face or make me look bad by saying slurs in public

Yo, I'm actually gonna cry. I've been lurking since 2003-4. I've never seen this before. How long has this been a thing? It's not much, but it's something.

>>40068039
T~T yotsuba chan .....

>>40068039
even tho it's a bad advice

>>40062486 (OP)
>From what I understand, chaser means a man who is very interested in transgender girls.
chaser means anyone (primarily) interested in any group or combination of transgenders. there are women who chase trannies, trannies who chase trannies, chasers of poon

>>40068039
that's been a thing for at least a decade probably more

>>40068106
Yeah it's definitely bad advice, but I didn't expect any aspect of 4chan the website itself to change like this. This is something that can be improved on. The National Suicide Hotline and Veterans Suicide Hotline are currently not numbers I'd ever call still. It's true.

Still though I can't even tell if whoever was telling me to do it because I was ugly was being sincere or was just trying to piss me off so that I would stubbornly and ironically try to stay alive.

Either way... The problems are too big for anyone in one thread to do anything about... I got saved because I have someone in my life who cares about me more than I care about myself or this life of mine... I can't front or lie about that.

>>40068244
don't listen to the gangstalkers, they always lie.
you have good things to do

>>40065979
That varies from person to person. You'd have to talk about that with ur husband / partner. As for me, even if sex is less than once a week that's fine. But again, it all depends on the partner and I. I ain't gonna force anything.

>>40066239
Well it certainly takes all kinds of people to make a world. I don't know you, but like I said before. People who have to claim they are super hot in an attempt to put others down are usually not very pretty, internally or externally. As for what you say about my preference being predatory, even within these threads there are transgender girls who say they would not want to get SRS done for a variety of reasons. What about their opinions, then? Do you decide that for them?

I'm being pretty open by saying from the get go what my opinions are on SRS. I'm not tricking anyone.

>so that i am not desired by such rotten coombrained fetishists as yourself

hahaha, anon. you dont need to be so negative about everything. At the end of the day, a preference is a preference.

>>40063934
>>Wow, so unlike the majority of trans people who were born as one gender or another, you got hit with both at once.- Anon.

Well, I didn't have visibly obvious ambiguous, outwardly obviously dual sexed genitalia. However, despite M being on my birth certificate yeah there were a lot of obvious signs that I was intersex, and maybe something more than just a regular boy. Although I was always really different compared to other kids, even in single digits.

>>I imagine there had to be, but you say you only began taking HRT at 27. From what I’ve read that is a bit later in life.

There's actually not a true average for when a trans person gets on HRT. Many kids didn't get put on HRT or even puberty blockers because of hiding anything gender or sex non-conforming about them as best as they could. I hid it like my life and worse depended on me hiding it, because that was my reality.

>>All of this reminds me of the femboys and trans wives in Ancient Egypt...

Anon ancient Egypt had way more complicated and interesting but also sometimes fucked up gender and sex things going on. Frankly I wish people would look into ancient Hebrew sex and gender stuff more because they had 6 different ancient genders that accounted for sex differences at birth and even later development.

>>40069296
people from 2000 years ago should be forgotten

>>40068569
my point is that it would not make a measurable difference for you whether or not the trans girl in question wants srs. you would pursue her regardless, and then try to change her mind if she did want srs. it's not like you would go "oh okay, guess we're not compatible - lets agree to move on from each other" when you find out the hot trans girl you had a thing for wanted to get rid of the only thing you actually care about, her penis. THATS why its predatory.

i don't give a fuck if you just so happened to organically meet a non-op trans girl and yall paired well because of it. great, id be happy for you if that was the case. you can cope about it all you want but we both know that your intentions are not that pure.

>>40069328
we should not, we owe them a lot

>>40069769
what exactly?

>>40069783
unironically too much to name. ideas, things they built, consequences of things they did. our world grows from the substrate of theirs.

>>40069795
we don't owe liars and cheaters anything

>>40069810
idk what context i missed here but i doubt everyone back then was a cheater, and literally everyone is a liar.

>>40069863
the context is blood sacrifice

>>40069907
are we any better? the idols we kill for may be made of money but they're still idols

>>40069735
>you would pursue her regardless

No, silly. I made that clear from the first post. If she wants to get SRS, I wouldn't push or pressure her. We would simply part ways :)

>>40069810
Who are you talking about.

>>40070174
>No, silly. I made that clear from the first post. If she wants to get SRS, I wouldn't push or pressure her. We would simply part ways :)
You literally didn't say anything to this effect, whatsoever. You are lying. You're pretending to be better than the other forced non-op chasers but you aren't.

>>40070140
that's where the black sun comes in
>>40070174
every spiritual """prophet""" ever

>>40070329
oh i just realized you're mad at Jesus aren't you

>>40070227
Anon, you should read what I've read. None of what I've written shows that I would disrespect my partner. And if they have wishes that are contrary to mine, I wouldn't force them to do what I want them to. That goes against what I want from my partner, regardless of who they are.

>>40070329
What is this talk about a prophet?

>>40070521
not just him
>>40070713
dead abrahamic men being imitated two millenia later so that we can always be sure to get into hell with this divine joke we become. disgusting apes

>>40070767
are you mad at me too

im a good Prophetess i promise

i wont promise you haven or threaten you hell; those are people you meet; not mystical places you go

>>40070767
The debate about religion could go on for ages. I will say there is one good thing that came out of it, at least several centuries ago: it helped people stay together. Helped them feel as if they had purpose but that was wayyy back when. Now, I can't say if its better or worse for society that religion exists. Some use the argument that religion brings about morality, but I don't believe in that. plenty of people and groups that have no religion but are still ethical and moral.

Take that other anon in the thread for example. I may not agree with their religious views, but it undoubtedly helped them.

>>40071254
how can you be so sure?

>>40062486 (OP)
>The only dealbreaker is that my partner does not snip off their pp
I can't tell if you're saying she has to get sex reassignment surgery or can't.

>>40062567
Kys.

>>40062573
Kys.

>>40071291
Sure about what? About my views on religion, or something else? you'll need to be more specific.

>>40071399
I'm saying I'd rather my wife not do any sort of surgery that involves removing her penis and replacing it with a vagina.

>>40071440
that's only what they think, things could be a lot better

>>40071450
How so, anon. Let's hear it,

>>40071630
there is a direct link between the exploitation of the weak and the false morality

>>40071691
What's that gotta do with this thread anon, hahaha.

>>40071960
you talked about religion

>>40071978
I just mentioned it off handedly anon. I’d rather not argue semantics of religion. I personally am not the most religious person, so I do have a bit of bias.