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Anonymous No.40067623 >>40067749
Sudden male attention
>unattractive, social retard gay boy
>troon out
>eventually become passoid
>start getting male attention
>male socialized so not prepared to deal with it
How do you navigate this? I feel gross because I don't entirely hate it but it's also not fun. If I'm just getting catcalled or something it's not hard to just ignore them or give a polite no and keep walking. But what if they're your friends?
Anonymous No.40067720 >>40067765
holy humblebrag
what exactly is your issue
Anonymous No.40067749 >>40067765
>>40067623 (OP)
Once a guy asked if I had Insta I didn't even understand what he meant lmao I was like "uh no I don't have Insta why the fuck do you wanna use my phone for this??"
Anonymous No.40067765 >>40068219
>>40067720
"How do you deal with this"
I don't want to lose friends but also don't want to be an ass or encourage it

>>40067749
I totally get you. When it first started happening to me I was just totally confused and didn't realize what had happened until a few minutes later
Anonymous No.40068219 >>40068389
>>40067765
Being assertive about not wanting your friends to hit on you isn't being an ass. Explaining your boundaries isn't a big deal and they should respect that if they don't just see you as a piece of meat
Emily of 4chan !vOczjEBNSI No.40068389
>>40068219
>Explaining your boundaries
This.
I want to be your friend but I'm not interested in sex with you. Are you okay with that? I want to be respectful of your feelings too.