Thread 40067938

i want to love and kiss a guy soo bad! i just want to spoil him and love him forever!! it’s so hard to find a man into mtfs that isn’t a chaser anywhere to be honest it’s just sad.

>>40067938 (OP)

Femboys are generally popular among men because they have feminine bodies without the female personality. I'm not sure why a straight guy wouldn't just go for a cis woman if he wanted someone with a feminine personality and body. The only thing I can guess is that he's searching for something highly specific. All I'm saying is if you want to be female brained don't complain about how long it takes to get a bf. Your options are going to be just as picky about your personality as you are.

>>40067967
it suckssss so bad i just want to tell them ill love them and spoil them and hopeee they will love me

>>40067967
As a cis man who's a masochist for women I think that trans women are hot because they're like women but with more interesting sexual personalities and generally more fucked up in the head (which hey can be a good thing sometimes to be honest)

>>40068146
butt would you date would ? like love and treat one like a real woman, or are all cis men interested in sex? because if that’s the case i might as welll take advantage of it instead of trying to find love with one

>>40068146

Most of the mtfs here aren't looking for someone like you. They'd just call you a fag or chaser (slur) and not in a sadistic way. OP probably doesn't want you either btw, she wants something else and at hest would settle for you. Evidence-> >>40067938 (OP)

>that isn’t a chaser anywhere to be honest

>>40068224

Other people aren't tools to validate your personal choices. The answer from that anon is irrelevant. He can't smooth out insecurities for you. Not forever. It has nothing to do with love, what you are describing is not love. It is a need for validation. If you want that stick to sex. It has nothing to do with what "all chasers want" either. That is a generalization that takes blame off yourself and puts it on chasers (slur).

>>40068423
i get you saying im
trying to validate myself through love but i actually just want to feel love by another person not even for the validation i just miss the warmth of another person

>>40068224
There's certainly cis men who are only into sex. Be careful out there. But I feel like for a lot of my friends and myself there's this sentiment of yearning for romantic love that was never achieved. To actually live with someone that's compatible with you and is constantly exciting

I think I would date a trans woman if there was actual chemistry and if the relationship was like pretty crazy and fucked up at the same time. But I don't know I'm pretty retarded I never dated and bdsm porn has ruined my brain

>>40068423
>Most of the mtfs here aren't looking for someone like you. They'd just call you a fag or chaser (slur) and not in a sadistic way. OP probably doesn't want you either btw, she wants something else and at hest would settle for you. Evidence->

That was not the message I wanted to get across sorry. I meant trans women can be just as hot as cis women. I myself never fetishized them or anything like that but I feel like they can be interesting because they can be more thought provoking than cis women

>>40068487
i feel that too yearinjng for romantic love but it feels like it doesn’t exist anymore.

>pretty crazy and fucked up

what do you mean like mental health issues? porn does ruin peoples brains it’s why i feel most cis men just want sex

>>40068535
based ass option on trans women

>>40068555
opinion lmao i’m a little slow at spelling and grammar

>>40067938 (OP)
Do you pass then if you don’t want a chaser?

>>40068617
i’ve been told i pass by a few cis women and my ex so i feel like i do and have confidence in my appearance

>>40068465

>actually just want to feel love by another person not even for the validation i just miss the warmth of another person

>I I I I I me me me I want I want I want I miss I miss I miss.

What happened to spoiling someone else. Bruh that shit disapeared so fast. God have mercy on whoever you date.

Anyways what do you think a chaser is?

>>40068535

Most of them literally think being a woman means being ditzy and stupid or other straight up misogynistic stereotypes. Notice the ftm hate here specification when it comes to the validity of ftm dysphoria, and the jealousy directed towards cis females. It is hon behavior, which is the majority of the board thus my point; they will hold you to an impossible standard out of internalized hatred. It literally doesn't matter what you say sometimes, liking them is enough for them to write you off as a worthless chaser (slur). Though I understand what you were trying to say my point stands, OP is the issue not you.

>>40068793

>specification
specifically*
Phoneposting, red handed.

>>40068793
but i want to spoil the man i date i want to do anything for him. so it’s not all about me i just want to be loved and love someone else. idk why you are so angry desu.

a chaser to me is someone who only feels lust towards transwomen and doesn’t care about them other then getting there nut off.

>>40068986

I'm not angry I just don't believe people when they speak, not here anyways. You answered my question so thanks for cooperating.

trannies are not capable of love

>>40069119
Women and transwomen alike, yeah

>>40069071
it just sounded angry like the wording of it and ofc you asked a question and i’m op so im obliged to respond. you have the Dr house mentality not believing anyone

>>40067938 (OP)
I wish a tranner wanted to love and kiss me, and want to spoil me and love me forever