I tend to be suspicious of people who prefer "transfem" over "trans woman" as an identity label. They tend to be the most Internet-addicted type of trans woman, and the most irony-poisoned. I think a good example of what I mean is femtanyl, and those associated with her. No sincerity, no real purpose. Just memes, drugs, and "SYBAU."

Maybe that's because "transfem" is not really used that much outside internet, so people who you see using it are the internet-type ones. I myself feel like any would work, altho "transfem" is technically more accurate (I don't really care). I usually joke that my gender is more "not a man" than "a girl", but irl I'm just presenting myself as a trans woman.

>>40098701 (OP)
I am transfem but not a transwoman. It's just factual

>>40098701 (OP)
i have an enbycoper friend whose like that. she's still dysphoric she just doesnt want to call herself a trans woman. she'll get around to it i guess

>>40098701 (OP)
its literally just a cope. same as the she/they cope essentially

>>40098701 (OP)
Your friend didn't mean what you may have thought he meant, you should let him apologize/explain.

>>40098701 (OP)
im too much of a boomer tranny i don't understand transfem and transmasc. ive heard its not the same thing as being a trans woman or a trans man but i don't really get all this gender outside gender stuff my dysphoria was very in line with conventional biological sex

>muh labels
I pass I can call myself whatever I want hon

>>40099976
I have no idea what you are talking about.

Kemonogroyper trvke

>>40098701 (OP)
I want to be feminine but don't see myself as either a man or a woman ig

>>40098701 (OP)
I actually prefer transsexxual